What to do when someone blows you off?
We all have had a partner who suddenly went mute on us; they stopped picking our calls, returning texts, stood us up on movie night and even unfriended us on social media. All without notice leaving us to wonder what went wrong. Being blown off is so common that it also has a name; ghosting.
Knowing this, what do you do when your lover or crush ghosts you? Here are a few tips on how to deal with it.
The adage; “it’s not you, it’s Me.” holds a lot of truth when ghosting is concerned. We are all different. By this virtue, we are differently equipped to deal with rejection. Of course, some people deal with ghosting better than others. More resilient people have higher control over the situation. They can put feelings of betrayal and rejection in context, which allows them to move on without much stress. Less resilient people, however, will have trouble getting over the rejection mainly because of their needy and insecure attachment style. Resilient or not, how do you deal with being blown off by a person you love. Here is how:
1. Adjust your expectations.
Changing your expectations is the easiest way to get over rejection. We all want closure whenever we part ways with people close to us. It, however, does not always happen that way in cases of ghosting. I mean, the reason she ghosted you is that they did not want to face you and explain themselves. There is a zero chance that she will agree to meet up. Therefore, it is up to you to work through the rejection alone without all the answers you would like to have. The sooner you accept that they are not going to come back or pick your call, the faster you can focus on moving on.
What to do when someone blows you off?
Emre is author, dating coach and CEO/founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating. He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.
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Annabella Rose is a Dating Coach and youtube presenter. She regularly publishes videos on KamaTV. She takes clients in to the bar and clubs and teaches her magic! Her speciality is approach and attraction. She also helps to develop confidence and conversational skills and gives honest perspective on the world of women from a woman’s point of view. Most of our clients say “the best advice ever” after talking to Annabella..
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