Hi Guys it’s Hannah and Iain and today we’re going to talk about second dates. Many guys enjoy their first dates, and cannot wait for their second one. Although it feels almost magical, especially if you did connect well with the other person, surviving the second date can sometimes be challenging. The reason is is that it’s down to how the date prevails at this time, which dictates whether you’ll last any longer. Under most circumstances, many guys are not well aware of what to say or do during their second dates, and are often more nervous than the last time. If you survive the first and second date, it’s much more likely that you will last a long time, but only if the both of you are acting natural and true. A second date means a lot to any woman, and this means that the man has to do all the homework to dictate what will happen during the date, where it will be etc… The best advice you can get from me is to not be too predictable with the date. Outdoor activities for example are perfect for people who want to get to know each other better, and also helps them learn how they may live with this person. A hiking experience creates more time for the two of you, where you can hold a picnic at a remote place, tell stories, share jokes and laugh together. Believe me, most relationships end during the second date, because of what I previously mentioned – the higher expectations. It’s also the time when you will find someone, especially ladies, dreaming about their future. Some of them have made their decisions at this stage, and will start having expectations of what the man should be doing… To be on the safer side, just avail yourself during the date; be present both physically and mentally. This is the only way you will be lively and participate in most of the conversations. If you start day dreaming at this point, you will only leave the other person feeling unwanted and this doesn’t build that spark ! Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating. Leave a Comment letting us know what you think. If you enjoyed make sure you like, share and subscribe!
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