I feel so insecure around my crush. Help!

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So I received a message, just yesterday, from a guy who actually came to our offices here in Oxford Circus quite a while ago. He basically said the following, “I feel so insecure around my crush. What can I do?”.

Let’s face it guys; confidence sometimes lets us down. It knocks us in the butt and goes like, “Not today, pal,”. When this happens, especially when you are in the presence of a beautiful lady that you like, you start second-guessing everything about yourself. You begin to feel not good enough and undeserving.

But here is the thing guys, confidence practically links to almost every aspect of a happy and fulfilling life. Though it does not come easy, when mastered, confidence has a ton of rewards. Understanding every benefit is an essential first step toward living your life with confidence and being fulfilled. With that said, why should you, as a man, be more confident in yourself?

Reduced anxiety

As you become more confident, you gain more control over your life. As a result, you become more able to calm and quiet the voices inside you that say, “You are not good enough,” “she is out of your league,” or “she must be already attracted to better guys.”

Due to improving confidence, you can get out of your head and separate yourself from your thoughts, which allows you to strategize and take the right course of action in line with your values and beliefs.

If you have struggled with low self-confidence at any point in your life, you are likely familiar with rumination: the tendency to mull over worries and imaginary mistakes. Filling up your reservoir tank with confidence, you break the cycle of over-thinking by quieting your inner critic.

I feel so insecure around my crush. Help!

Besides, you realize that nothing is unique to you; you acknowledge that everybody is struggling with issues, anxiety, and fear just as you are. That no one is as perfect as they seem. Once you realize that we are all going through something, you get the courage to face your fears and anxiety.

Heightened motivation

Establishing confidence means taking small steps in the right direction that give you a lasting sense of accomplishment.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs.

I feel so insecure around my crush. Help!

Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets. He has been featured in top radios and newspapers in UK and Ireland.

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