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How to handle rejection from girls?

Hi Guys this is Iain Myles, the leading dating coach of, I’m joined with Gabriella Ryan and Today we’re going to talk about How to handle rejection from girls.

When you start going to clubs, bars or anywhere else to approach women, there is one thing that you will have to accept- sometimes you WILL get rejected. This is something that most guys are terrified of when starting out. When I first started out I was afraid of rejection. I could remember my heart beating fast when I was about to approach a girl and yes, I got rejected a lot. The biggest mistake that most guys make is that they identify with this rejection as part of who they are as a person.

Handle rejection from girls

Therefore they continue to justify and feed their fear of rejection. Instead, I came to realize that rejection is never personal and is usually based on external circumstances.

The First Impression

This is one of the biggest reasons why a girl rejects a guy- because of HOW the guy approaches. If a guy approaches nervously he is bound to get rejected because there’s nothing that turns a girl off more than a guy not being confident in who he is and what he does. It is generally agreed that a lot of people will make up their mind what they think of someone within around 3 seconds of meeting them. So it’s important that you approach confidently. A helpful tip is to recall a time when you’ve been confident in the past when you were about to approach. This is about how you control your state of mind and it’s something that we will teach you to use effectively at Kama Lifestyles. Your body cannot tell the difference and you will feel more confident as a result.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.

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