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How to be socially attractive?

How to be socially attractive?

Hi Guys it’s Gaby and Iain here and today we’re going to talk to you about how to be socially attractive

Men who are socially attractive are a girl’s magnet. Social attractiveness does not depend on how handsome you are but how you relate to people. Socially attractive people seem to have everything under control because they know how to handle people no matter the mood they are in; it increases their success rate in life. However, to be socially attractive does not come naturally as many may think. It is a technique that we learn and if you think you are not a socially attractive guy then that’s about to change. Here are some smooth techniques on how to be socially attractive:

Be yourself

You can never be there for everyone no matter how socially attractive you are. Social attractiveness comes with its fair share of social pressure. The first technique you want to master is be happy with who you are and never hide your personality to impress other people. Your personality will attract the people who will find you socially attractive and that will reduce the social pressure. When you put up an act, you will always be unhappy and sometimes the unhappiness becomes overwhelming and that’s when you start becoming repulsive to people around you. Women like men who are sincere about themselves because it sends a silent message that you are also sincere with what you are telling them.

Learn to read nonverbal cues

It is one of the most challenging techniques because it’s like reading someone’s mind but it’s important. Different nonverbal cues can tell you how a person is feeling and you can then choose the proper approach. We don’t tell men how we feel unless we think that they care. When you see that a girl is shy and use the proper approach and sincerely care, she will open up. We are emotional and as we open up and you console us there is a bond, trust, and sense of security that forms. Nonverbal cues will also tell you when it’s time to go so that you don’t overstay and seem like a creep.

Be good at what you do

Socially attractive people know that you need an anchor that will help you remain attractive. The secret in choosing that anchor is going for something that makes you happy and you are good at it. Your hobby makes you stand out from the crowd and girls so love a guy who is unique. Your hobby then attracts people who like the same thing you are into or people who wish they could do it. You should also be willing to try out what other people around you like because it brings in a special connection and makes you more attractive.

Have a positive attitude

We know things are tight but you keep preaching about it only makes it worse. Women like men with a positive energy because they are fun to be around. When you become the source of positive attitude you spread hope to people around you. We have a lot of insecurities and a man who can make a woman feel better about herself then he’s a jackpot. More people will depend on you for your positivity and that makes you a social magnet.

Keep smiling

You probably see all the celebrities smile when they are in public. It is because they know that the secret to being socially attractive is to make yourself more approachable; a smile does it for you. When you have a smile on it makes you look friendly and approachable. It will encourage people who like you and you have never noticed to approach you.

Guys i hope you enjoyed watching and that’s all from us today but I’d encourage you to check out our website at as we’ve published a number of videos where we’ve coached a number of guys 1-on-1. I’m Iain Myles and this is Gabriella Ryan and we’ll see you next time

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.

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