Hi Guys this is Gabriella Ryan joined by Iain Myles and Today we’re going to talk about what women want! When it comes to dating, the reason that most guys have very limited success in dating and relationships is that they simply don’t know what women really want. And when I say really I mean that there is usually a big difference between what a woman might say in what she logically wants from a guy in a relationship and in the initial courtship or dating stages to what she really wants. Believe me there is a difference. What I am going to go through next is what most guys do wrong and what they should be doing instead from when they first approach a girl to being in a full relationship with her.
Play the game When most guys are meeting women the main reason that they don’t seem to have any success is that they do not know how to play the game. What I mean by this is that they do not know how to read what a girl is really trying to tell them. As a rule us as guys are more direct among ourselves when it comes to communicating with each other and the problem is is that we expect the same from women. One simple example of this is most guys are quick to tell a girl if he likes her and usually with the expectation that she will respond in kind. This rarely happens and this is the last thing that any guy should do especially early in the interaction. Even if the girl might like the guy hearing this will likely turn her off.
This usually comes across as weak and even needy if she picks up the vibe that he is expecting her to respond. Don’t be afraid to let her know that you are attracted to her but don’t be put off if she doesn’t respond in the way that you want. Just assume that she feels the same, if she is still talking to you its a good sign that she feels the same way. Usually her body language is a good indicator which brings me to the next point. Always pay attention to the signals that she is giving off. Reading her body language is the best way to read what she is thinking and what her intentions are. If her body language is very open, she is playing with her hair and her pupils appear to be dilated then it’s a good sign that she’s attracted to you. Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating. Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”. Leave a Comment letting us know what you think. If you enjoyed make sure you like, share and subscribe!
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