Hi Guys it’s Gaby and Iain here and today we’re going to talk about what you do if she cancels a date!
So This is the kind of topic most women would not like to write about. It comes off as taking the wrong side of the argument. Well, I am taking that side today and Iain can balance me out.
She cancels a date
It is embarrassing when a girl flakes you. Most men block the chic and move on others turn to little boys dealing with rejection. So, what is the proper way to deal with a girl who just canceled on you on the last minute?
Keep the reservations and have fun.
You had cleared everything for the day to have a timeout with her but she didn’t turn up, don’t cancel your reservations if you had some. Speed dial a good friend you can talk to and call them out and spend that time with them. This helps in couple ways; you get a chance to have fun and forget about being stood up and secondly if you have good friends you get the chance to get a different opinion on what you should do about it. And this time from people who know you well.
Respond positively.
This is the most important part. Most people blow it off. It determines what will happen to your starting relationship. If she calls to cancel with an excuse, lame or not. Take it positively, every man has been canceled on. Either she is playing hard or she is not into it, don’t panic!
Sometimes when a girl cancels on you it hits you hard. Responding at this moment may come out in a way that you will regret. If it hits you hard then have fun first, then you can reply later when you are a bit rational. At least say you had a good time. This response will depict a picture of a man who has a life of his own and also the best part is if she likes you she will question and wonder how much interest you have in her? And that is one of the many ways a girl’s falls for you!
Avoid asking her out, again.
She explained about it, gave an excuse but don’t take that bait again. You made the offer the first time and she failed you. You are not in the business of making a fool of yourself, let her show a little interest this time. Actually, don’t bring it up in your next conversation until she does.
If she doesn’t show remorse and interest of going out again, doesn’t that say enough about you two? Just say “next” and move on. You are a man for Chris sake, your pride matters.
This is where the “if it matters it will come back to you” applies. Where’s the point in forcing a date anyway?
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.
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