Hi whats up KamaTV… this is the dating coach Emre from kamalifestyles.com and I hope that you are all doing well. So today I am here with another exciting video and I will be talking about what should you do to get a date and show you the infield clip of and instant date with a beautiful girl. By the end of this video, you will have a clear strategy to get your dating game in to the next level and clearly visualize how you can get the dates. In this video you will also learn
- Controlling your anxiety.
- Confidence and the mindset.
- Keeping the conversation going.
- How to lead and enjoying the date and much more.
Should you do to get a date
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A lot of dating gurus will advise you not to ask for a date immediately. This is completely wrong when you meet a gorgeous girl on the street. So don’t listen to them as they are wrong and they can’t get dates themselves or they never get instant dates. Simply it is out of their reality and if you listen an advice like this it will limit you. It is wrong because you give her time to text other guys or other guys will text her… So you may lose her on competition if you don’t ask her for a date immediately… Also, attraction happens instantly and fizzles out quickly I love the quote saying strike the iron when it’s hot… so as soon as you notice the interest signals and noticed she is attracted; invite her to the next venue…Watch how am I doing it in this footage.
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Deal your Approach Anxiety:
Deal with your anxiety before the approach and before you ask. It is important to realise that when you are approaching a girl you are not doing anything that is groundbreaking or revolutionary. Men have been approaching girls since the beginning of time and it has always created that butterfly effect. Of course, you cannot see, taste, touch , hear or smell these butterflies in essence they are figments of the imagination created by our minds. In general, guys will tend to magnify the significance of approaching a girl and somehow believe it to be an exceptional achievement to go up and speak to a woman. As if it is some incredible act of courage to face the potential for ridicule and embarrassment. Of course if you buy into social conditioning there is a certain amount of truth in this. However this is absolute nonsense and in reality, it is a very safe thing to do. No harm will come to you and guys; believe me, the girls do not bite. The worst that can happen is she says she is not interested, has a boyfriend or she will walk away. You will not wind up being scarred for the rest of your life and there is no reason to feel anxiety. It has absolutely no meaning and realise that if you dropped dead on the street very few passers if any would care. You have one life guys and I think you should embrace it as opposed to being a slave to your own thoughts or the thoughts of others. Watch how in this footage there are many distractions she is surrounded by a big crowd who were fascinated by this hip hop dance performer. However, guys, I did not let that bother me one bit.
Dress to impress
Guys I can assure you that how you dress will have a significant impact on how the girl perceives you. It is an attractive quality in a male to see that he has made an effort to improve his appearance. Getting good with girls is a mix of improving not only your social skills but also your look. You should view your look as a work in progress and always be working on it. As the better you look the better the first impression that you will create. As I have said before you do not have to look like Brad Pitt but you do have to look good. Observe my sense of style in this footage it makes me stand out from the other guys as few if any think about there physical appearance as much as I do. I have that physical fitness built up as a result of many years in Thai boxing and what is funny about this interaction is she actually guessed that I was only 28 years old. Guys believe me there is a lot you can do to reverse the signs of ageing and I am living proof of this.
Know the area – so you can bring her to a near place for the date
Have a logistical plan in mind when approaching girls. While it is vital to approach with a sense of freedom from the outcome it is equally pivotal to have a vision for what you are looking to achieve. It is a case of if-then planning you do not want to be expending your energy thinking about where you will take her. If your mind is fighting with logistical issues it is likely you will not be fully present and you will end up telegraphing more anxiety to the girl. It is important to lead the interaction don’t let the choice of venue be up to the girl. In this footage, you can observe how I take her to a beautiful and cozy bar in central London. Ideal ambience for an instant date it makes the girl feel special and instantaneously puts her at ease. Also think about her safety! She needs to feel safe and always pick places nearby and central where there are a lot of people around.
Confidence and mindset
Anticipate positive interactions with the girl before you approach. Yes for sure you will have to face rejection and you will get some negative responses but you have to know your value before approaching. Essentially you are in a competition against your own mind and your own limiting beliefs. So it is crucial to know how to stop self-sabotaging and instead engage with positive thinking. The meditating exercises we teach during the confidence trainings are very powerful. Try to remember your best days and your best stories where you had fun experiences. Let go of the anxiety and put the best version of yourself out there. We all have the potential to communicate with others in a humorous manner. It is simply a case of letting go and embracing the present moment. In this footage, the girl actually mentions that she is going on a date later however I did not let that bother me and continued the conversation. This is just an objection guys never give up on the interaction in the game of dating you have to be competitive.
The correct body language will affect your state of mind significantly. By standing with your chest out, chin up, and feet shoulder-width apart you will feel much more confident and relaxed when communicating with the opposite sex. Women are very emotionally intuitive and your elevated state as a result of better body language will not go unnoticed. Your body language should scream out that you are interested in the girl. Using the body language of an alpha male will certainly boost your chances of getting a good reaction. Watch in the footage how I dominate the space but at the same time keep the proximity at a social distance. Proximity is a pivotal area that you should pay close attention to as it will mean you will end up being blown out far less.
Just do it & take action for an instant date
Do not hesitate to take a beautiful girl who happens to be attracted to you on a date. As I said earlier you should strike the iron while it is hot. The longer you go between the cold approach and the actual date the more difficult it becomes. You do not want to end up competing with other guys on WhatsApp and tinder. Capitalise on your approach guys don’t just settle for a phone number always be looking for an instant date. Did I say in this interaction that is okay you go on your date let me get your number. No way guys that is not how you will be successful with women. Have a positive attitude and you should play an attacking style of game the indirect defensive approach almost never works. Do not listen to those marketing gurus they do not know what they are talking about guys as they never go out and it is likely that they never approach women on the street or can be able to get instant dates. She is there and listening and waiting for you to take an action and the ball is in your court. Go ahead and invite her to the next venue and enjoy your instant date. Instant dates are spontaneous without any pressure… two people wants it on the spot. Think about it for a second you are an adult and she is an adult too… we do not answer to anyone and we all do things we are comfortable of doing. Girls will feel the comfort more with the instant dates and it will accelerate your success in dating beautiful girls whenever or wherever you want.
Keep the conversations going
Unfortunately, guys, there is no exact formula for what to say to a girl when you approach her. Each and every interaction will be different so it is impossible to have a specific go-to strategy for exactly what you need to talk about in order to secure the dates. Do not get stuck in your head just let go and make the effort to get to know her. Remember you have a million things that you can talk about you are not learning a new skill when it comes to talking. You already have the ability to do this it is much easier than you could ever imagine. It is everything to do with your mindset and whether or not you think it is worth getting to know her. The key to a good conversation is not to force it just use your release muscles we all have the ability to let go completely. Just be fully present and you will be fine
Showing Interest and ask questions
Listening is a pivotal skill that you need to work on when talking to girls. Make sure you are completely silent when listening to the girl. Do not interrupt her when she is talking to you look at the word silent if you re-arrange the letters you will spell the word listen. There cannot be another conversation going on in your head certainly do not be thinking of the next question you will ask her. If you are fully present you will know exactly what to ask. The key to a good conversation is unlearning all the skills you have previously learned about what you should and should not say. Indifference is the key you have the right to get to know her don’t be afraid to ask her a question that is too personal. It shows that you are a genuine guy and that you would really like to get to know her.
When talking to the girl isolate her as soon as possible this shows that you are leading the interaction. As you can see in this footage I moved her away from the crowd of people that were watching the street performer. At this point I have her full attention and when it comes to girls that is an extremely powerful position to be in. Most guys who approach girls never isolate her and therefore it is difficult for the interaction to proceed to where you as the guy would like it to go. Once you build the connection never forget create those private moments and isolate her. You have to lead the interaction and make quick decisions. Have you noticed any patterns in my behaviors? Watch the footage carefully as I am the one who is always leading starting from the approach to the instant date and after. Leading is very important and you should master the skill of leading yourself and others. Make sure that you practice and learn the skill of leading as it will give you a great life, dates, girls, great career you name it… list and benefits are endless.
Enjoy the date
Watch how I share with her some pictures from interesting experiences I had recently on my travels with Kamalifestyles. She actually saw some pictures that I did not mean her to see which was quite funny. Again, guys, I did not let this bother me one bit I did not apologize or try to explain myself. Never explain, these dates are all about having fun there a million things that you will do wrong you are human nobody is perfect. The most important thing is to enjoy the date and be present. Do not start talking to yourself saying that you made a significant mistake by saying or doing the wrong thing this only creates an anxiety and will stifle you. You do not owe anybody any apology so do not be apologetic. You land your date and now it is time to get to know her and push for the next section. I always tell my stories during the date as it engages her a lot and creates attraction.
Ok Guys that’s all from me today… and I hope you enjoyed my video. As I mentioned earlier please don’t forget to check out our residential training by clicking the link below or clicking the card above. Gents please like, share, comment and subscribe
I am Emre and I hope to see you soon.