There is nothing that feels better than approaching a girl that you find attractive and generating interest from her and getting her number.
This basic and very effective method of approaching well, initiating conversation and generating attraction and number closing successfully applies to success with women both during the day and at night.
Your success in bars and clubs
But in bars and clubs, it is much louder and you are competing with other guys. You can still succeed in these places but there are ways of making life easier and increasing your chances of success.
Approach everyone in the club
This is actually easier than it sounds. You don’t have to open and engage everyone that you see but greet and say hi to everyone and move on.
This gives the appearance that you are a social high-status guy that knows everyone and women will notice.
(If you’re ready to move on I think you should read this: How to fall back in love).
On this point, it will also make it easier for you to open girls if you have already opened and spoken to her earlier especially if you made a good impression and remembered her name.
Get to know the staff
This is something that most guys don’t even think of in that they see the staff in bars and clubs as nothing more than staff. They are people like me and you and it makes such a difference to get to know them including the bouncers and bar staff.
When I first moved to London, I made it my business to get to know all the bouncers in all the major clubs in the city. It makes such a difference as not only will you benefit from perks like skipping the queue and paying no entry fee, it will also give you social proof and women will notice.
Bring women with you
This is something that will greatly increase your success rate in clubs. Bring a group of women with you. Make an effort when you are out to approach and socialize with women just to make friends with them.
Over time you will start to develop a good social circle of women and it really makes such a difference to be good friends with beautiful women in clubs.
(Here’s an insightful blog article if you find yourself back on the dating scene: How to Seduce a Woman).
Not only will it make it easier for you to approach other women as you will have social proof but you will find that girls will sometimes actually approach you as you will appear to have status. On top of that, you can get your women friends to approach you and introduce girls to you!
These are all helpful ways of increasing your success with women and learning how to play the social game can be the game-changer in clubs especially since most guys are not aware of this and this will make you stand out even more positively with women.
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Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.
Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.