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This is shocking…

This is shocking...

I am often asked by guys who attend my live events…

“how much will I actually benefit by learning how to pick up girls and persuade women?”

It really is a good question, which I have always answered subjectively.

However, I think it’s only fair that I give you an empirical answer to this. I want to give you a more objective “conversion ratio”, in percentage terms.

So I decided to ditch my filming schedule today, and instead, spend some time (finally putting my mathematics background to use) to shed some light on this matter!

Let’s begin by thinking of it this way..

Let me first introduce you to Mr. X.

Mr. X is an average Joe, an average frustrated chump in fact, who goes about his dating life completely obliviously.

He gets involved with a few dating apps, which he uses to arrange a few dates here and there… and he gets some success.

Now, let’s assume he’s lucky enough to get a single date each week. That adds up to 52 dates a year (I am also assuming he’s super consistent which I doubt!).

So in essence, he’s meeting 52 different women a year. That’s good for him, but is he successful with women?

Well, let me show you the other side of the story. I think it’s apt that I introduce you to Mr. Y.

Now, unlike Mr. X, Mr. Y is very much into self- development and does a load of research into persuasive techniques with women.

He comes across Kamalifestyles, so he signs up to my Private 1- on- 1 Coaching where I teach him how to be a Persuasive Master around girls.

So anyway, Mr. Y doesn’t believe in online dating. He goes off and cold approaches women the traditional way.

Assuming he’s still a newbie, with very little experience, Mr. Y can still approach 10 different women a day (and that’s a conservative estimate).

This is shocking…

So effectively, by Saturday morning, Mr. Y has already surpassed Mr. X’s track record. It’s INSANE isn’t it!?

Mr. Y has already met the same number of women that Mr. X would have met in an entire year!!

So, what’s that in percentage terms?

Well, in slightly less than a week, Mr. Y’s rate of success in meeting new women is 52 times that of Mr. X.

If a twofold change equates to a 100% increase, a change of 52 times equals a whopping 5,100% increase!!

When I did the maths myself, I was gobsmacked by this.

This goes to show how marked the difference is between someone who chooses the route of self- development over the “lazy approach” of online dating.

And we haven’t even delved into what Mr. Y will achieve with his newly learnt persuasive abilities and competencies.

Because by knowing how to persuade like a pro, his “conversion ratio” will dramatically increase versus the narrow minded Mr. X.

This is shocking…

He will be able to take home a larger proportion of the girls he dates compared with what Mr. X takes home for the entire year!

He is also more likely to find his correct match by playing the numbers game.

So there you have it.

The bottom line here is: the benefits of learning how to persuade women will be OFF THE SCALE once you take this seriously.

Definitely use your time wisely, click that uninstall button, and stick to a strategy that works.

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Iain Myles

Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.

Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.