The Three Questions That You Will Be Asked By Every Women
At Kama Lifestyles, we teach you how to present yourself in your best possible lights, to meet and connect with beautiful women. We encourage our clients to be as natural as possible as talking to women should be something that you do in normal situations and is just a habit for you.
Having said that, there are a few questions, 3 in particular, that seem to pop up in pretty much every interaction and rather than just answering with a one word answer, it can be very useful to put some thought into preparing an answer to each one.
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There are so many things that you need to focus on in an interaction and you can incorporate all the main elements into each answer. The three main questions you will be asked are as follows.
What is your name?
Where are you from?
What do you do?
Most people would just answer these questions with a one word answer and then they wonder why the conversation fizzles out and dies quickly. The key to conversation is to contribute personal information about yourself, interesting content that the other person can play with, ask you about and ultimately build up a picture of who you are.
Let’s examine the 3rd question for the moment. Guys sometimes argue to me that they don’t have an interesting job or they are unemployed. They ask me should they lie and what is the best way to build up a boring job. The answer to this is conversational redirection.
You can simply focus on what your passion is, what you really want to do instead of what you are currently doing and which you have no interest in. A short example is shown below for an electrician.
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“I work in electronics ….. Yeah it is ok, pays the bills but I’ll tell you what my passion is though. I am really interested in psychology and communication. You know body language and reading people.
If you learn a little about it, you can tell so much what people are thinking. I got into it a few years ago and found it fascinating. But then again, I’m a guy, I have to learn these things…You are a woman so you are an expert on it already (Smile). So say a woman is chatting to a guy and she is attracted to him…What would 3 attraction signs be?”
This is an example of how to steer the conversation into areas you are passionate and knowledgeable about. In the example above, you are teasing her in a good way and also qualifying her at the end. You are leading the interaction and this is very important and will build attraction.
The Three Questions That You Will Be Asked By Every Women
We encourage you to develop an answer on each of the three questions and then you will see your conversations increase and you can literally fill your answers with lots of interesting content. The key to leading her is to draw her in and this will require some preparation from you.
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Emre Ilkme
Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.
He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.
