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The Reason Why You Can’t Approach A Woman Sober

You are a single guy, walking down the street and you see an absolutely beautiful woman, just outside Starbucks standing on her own. Instead of doing what should be the most natural thing in the world to do, which is to walk up and open conversation with her, you just walk on by her as if she is not even there.

Worse than that, you don’t even give out to yourself for not approaching. You have just missed a golden opportunity to meet your ideal partner but you just ignore her like she is a homeless person.

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It makes absolutely no sense and this is precisely the reason you are single. You are not single because the opportunities do not exist, rather you are single because you are not taking the ones that are presented to you on a daily basis.

The reason you didn’t approach is because you see a constructed view of reality in your mind. You see a negative outcome to the situation and, if pressed to approach, your mind becomes filled with such thoughts as “She will reject me” or “It will be awkward and she will think I’m a weirdo” or “She has headphones in so she clearly wants to be left alone”.

I can tell you clearly that these thoughts are all rubbish. How do I know this? I know this because the evidence tells otherwise. You have absolutely zero evidence to back you up claim. You have perhaps approached 10 women completely sober during your lifetime, while I have probably approach 10 already today.

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Over my life I have approached literally thousands of women sober, both in the night and day and I can honestly say that women do want to be approached, in the right way of course.

At the moment, you are seeing constructed reality and once you start approaching you will start to see what the actual real reality is. Keep your mind open until you have approached a minimum of 100 women sober and then assess what the truth of the situation is.

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The fact remains that there are thousands of women out there who would love to meet you but until you stop sabotaging yourself, this will never happen. You will drift through life, telling yourself that a relationship will just eventually happen naturally, like it does for most people. However, nothing just happens! You have to make it happen and you are slowly coming to that realization.

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Emre Ilkme

Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.

He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.