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The Key to Guaranteeing a Second Date

Hi Guys Iain and Annabel here and Today we’re going to talk about how you can guarantee the second date.

Many guys make a lot of mistakes when going on a first date with a girl. Some of the mistakes they’re aware of but some they’re not and they find themselves scratching their head wondering where they went wrong. Instead of going into too much detail of what mistakes guys usually make on first dates,

Guaranteeing a Second Date

I’ll cover the right way to approach a first date. If you are one of those guys that feel they’re in the dark when it comes to going on dates then have a listen! Here are my top 10 tips which will land you that special second date.

1. Handle First Date Anxiety

I have mentioned previously how most guys suffer from approach anxiety. I’m sure you’ve have felt it in the past. This is like approach anxiety and is mainly rooted in being outcome dependant. “What if she doesn’t like me?”, “what if the date goes horribly wrong?” You really like the girl and you don’t want to mess it up with her and as much as it’s good that you genuinely want the date to go well, thinking this way will ONLY put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Instead develop an attitude that it is ONLY a date and you should be looking to see if it’s right for you and look at the date as an opportunity to improve your dating skills. If you look at it this way you will actually enjoy the date far more as you will have a more relaxed attitude.. The more dates you go on the more comfortable you will become and your dating skills will improve as a result.

The Key to Guaranteeing a Second Date

2. Planting Seeds/Building Comfort

Building on from Annabels last point, it’s important that you feel comfortable as the next important aspect is being able to build a connection with the girl. To do this you obviously need to be comfortable in yourself first. Once you feel this way you will be better able to be that guy that all your friends and family really like and let your qualities shine through. Don’t be afraid to be yourself around her and she will act accordingly. Remember she agreed to go on a date with you because something about you attracted her and this is a chance for you to really bring this out.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

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