The best opening lines to pick up women!
Hi Guys its Iain and Gaby here and Today We’re going to talk about the best opening lines!
This is something that I get asked a lot…what are the most effective pick up lines that you can use? The reason I get asked this question a lot is that guys are basically looking for a quick fix solution that will get a girl to respond to them positively. Already they are looking at this apparent issue in the wrong way.
Quite simply you can say almost anything that you want provided that you deliver it in the right way. Most guys make the mistake of delivering a line that they read in a book or on the internet and if the girl responds negatively they come to the conclusion that the so called pick up line does not work. Like I said, it is not actually the line that didn’t work…it was how the guy delivered it! However likewise, women are very intuitive and they will pick up straight away if it’s one of those terrible cliche’ lines. Essentially there is nothing that a girl dislikes more than a guy who comes across as not being authentic.
Put yourself in her shoes…you ‘re with your friend and you’re constantly being approached by guy’s who are constantly using awkward, cheesy lines. From your point of view that guy is just looking for a quick fix solution, which is often to simply sleep with you. Girls don’t what to meet guys that they can’t trust and a half attempted canned line is not going to change their mind anytime soon. You simply just have to be confident and true to yourself when you approach a girl. Simply saying “hi how are you?” in a confident manner is JUST as effective as any chat up line that you may find on the internet.
Another big mistake that guys make when they approach, is that they don’t think any further than the opening line of the conversation and therefore, they usually end up with a mood killing awkward silence. It’s important that you know how to develop a conversation and likewise, don’t bombard the girl with never ending questions like “where are you from” and “where do you live?”. Instead, I would recommend that you make statements instead of asking questions. An example of this would be guessing where she is from or what she does as a profession. Here, instead of boring her you are challenging and intriguing her, I will cover this more in a future article but put simply, it is about doing something DIFFERENT instead of doing the same thing that every other guy does.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.
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