The 4 biggest mistake that guys make when they approach
Hi Guys this is Annabel and Iain and Today we’re going to talk about the 4 biggest mistakes most guys make when they approach women.
There are so many mistakes that guys make… so we’ve shortlisted here 4 big ones so take your notebook and take notes – because if you’re trying to win this approaching women game, chances are you are doing some of these mistakes too.
Not being authentic
This is one of the biggest mistakes that guys make when it comes to dating and this applies not only when approaching but also when going on dates. The problem is that most guys tend to put women on a pedestal and give them too much importance which results in the guy acting nervous and desperate as he acts like he doesn’t want to lose the girl. Examples of this type of behaviour would be the “me too” syndrome in which the guy ends up agreeing with almost everything the girl says because he desperately wants to win her approval. He may think that he is doing the right thing but from her point of view he doesn’t seem natural in how he acts and not only does she see this as weak but also she would find it hard to trust him. Women are very intuitive and pick up on this straight away. As I mentioned already this applies not only when he first approaches her and when he manages to get a date with her. And this sort of behaviour is not what women want and is one of the reasons many guys wonder where they went wrong when they could not get a second date with the girl.
Not taking action
This is another major mistake with guys when they approach in that they simply don’t approach as they are too busy negotiating with themselves whether they should approach or not. They are afraid of the girl being rude, of what to say to her, of what people might think if they see him approach the girl and so the list goes on. The simple solution is let your feet do the talking. What I mean by this is simply just approach. The reason guy’s don’t approach is that they somehow think by stalling that they can somehow control the outcome if they think long and hard enough about it. But the reality is that they have no control over the outcome. Don’t get me wrong you can dress well, have an approach and conversation routine that you can fall back on but you do the best approach in the world but it will mean nothing if the girl is happily married or in a long term relationship or if the girl is rude it may simply be because she is in a bad mood in which again the guy can do nothing about. And only by taking action and approaching will you see that even if the girl might be rude it won’t be the worst kind of scenario that you had thought out in your head and as well as that you will eventually improve and get better at approaching.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
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