Success with women! Practise and Training
Hi Guys it’s iain Myles here from kamalifestyles.com and so Today I will be showing you infield footage of a training session with one of my client.
This is one of our client who signed up to our confidence course as well as the 1-on-1 training programme so we’ve got to know each other in the past few months… He works in the banking industry and wanted to take his dating game to the next level. He’s progressed so much since day one. Gents becoming a successful dater is all about training and practising the strategies and overcoming the obstacles which is holding you back in dating. Don’t get me wrong here, you will get rejected as there are so many things that we cannot control. Understand though that rejection is the name of the game and so don’t ever judge yourself by the outcome of it and instead learn and grow from the experience and become better at approaching girls. Now guys watch how our client got on – so stay tuned !
Guys see how his interactions get better throughout the footage until he gets the numbers at the end… he’s very relaxed throughout and he’s not needy at all, he keeps the conversation’s balanced by talking on his side but also getting the girl to invest in the interaction too… Gents I disagree that you have to say certain things to get the number, or used canned lines. I have even been asked if pick lines worked getting the number..well Not really, as it’s mostly about you enjoying what you do and creating that connection. Don’t worry the number will follow once you are there, when you’re present and when she sees your motivation and authenticity. Being genuine and real will open you the doors as it is the first step of making her feel safe, gents if you cannot make her feel safe forget about the numbers and dates. Being direct and authentic with women is a good social skill and that is what I advise to my clients. When socializing with girls you should tell your story. This way a girl will feel more trust as she will have an idea about your identity. Another explanation of being direct with women is where you don’t hide anything that pleases the girl. But take caution to not say out anything that could sound disrespectful! Watch how my client tells his stories and always be mindful of the situation.
It might seem impossible but when you have someone there to encourage you you progress so much more, you learn more and you’re more willing to take action as you don’t want to waste the opportunity… in these training sessions; you are taught how to overcome approach anxiety and how to be in control and approach with confidence. My client and I worked on his approach and we did some role modelling and as well as that I did some demonstrations too. Gents I will publish one of my demo videos soon so don’t forget to watch. Dating does not just involve meeting a girl, getting her attracted and being able to get her number. There is more to it. It involves you looking at the big picture, your skills and your goals. There is a possibility that when you will walk to that girl and while you try to talk to her, she walks away. You know this scenario and it happens quite often. During training sessions, you learn how to prevent this and achieve your goal and reduce the number of rejections.
My client and I also worked on his conversation and how to keep a conversation going with the girls and it helped him a lot and he was so composed while at it that it looks so easy. But I know that a lot of guys have a hard time walking towards a beautiful girl let alone starting a conversation with her. Gents as I said it before it is all about training and practise and never give up on your journey and you will get there.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets.
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