She says I’m too nice. What do I do?
Being told by a girl that you are too nice is a polite way of being told that she can only have you as a friend — in more familiar terms, you’re being friend-zoned. Let us be clear on one thing; being a nice guy is neither a bad thing nor a harmful one for that matter. You’ll need to, however, have a bit of an edge or a backbone as a nice guy.
You might be asking why then it is such a big deal to women if it is not a bad thing. Now, you do not have to change from being a nice guy to get women to like you. You, however, need to understand female dynamics and how to interact with them to impact them and make them develop a sexual attraction for you.
With that said, here are some tips on how you can stop being a nice guy.
Say what you want and how you feel.
Verbalize what you want and how you feel. If you want to take your girl out for dinner, call it precisely that instead of disguising it as “you wanna grab a bite some time?” if you’re going to take her out on a date, call it a date instead of asking her if she wants to hang out sometime. This way, you not only claim what you want from her but you also assert your presence. Always verbalize what you want, how you feel, and what you need without holding back. It’s what women want.
She says I’m too nice. What do I do?
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV.
He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets. He has been featured in top radios and newspapers in UK and Ireland.
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Iain Myles
Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.
Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.
