Hi Guys welcome back it’s Iain here and today we’re gonna be talking about a pick up mindset and how i go about dealing with rejection
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So anyway and with out further adue let’s watch the infield footage to see how I got on
Okay so I hope you enjoyed watching that compilation of interactions. Now apart from the fact that a lot of the girls were drop dead gorgeous, what else can we learn from this that’s useful for us. Guys I know I’ve mentioned this to you before but it’s probably one of the most important points in dating which so many guys forget and overlook. And Gabbi and I remind our clients about this all the time too. It’s the fact that approaching women and getting successful with women is all a numbers game, it’s purely purely a numbers game !! I mean Guys I won’t lie to you and say that I never get rejected because that would be dishonest, I do get rejected when i approach girls and even when I’m out with Gabbi we’re looking top dollar I still get rejected, and so here my advice to you is : you need to engage with lots and LOTS of women. And we keep saying that you need to cultivate that mindset where you’re keen to socialise and put yourself out there. Now There’s this delusion going round in the dating industry, a myth if you can call it that, that you can eventually become this master pickup artist or even like some kind of master hypnotist where you can eventually convince every and any girl to sleep with you…I mean COME ON ! Are you really that naive to actually believe that as that’s not the reality. But don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you can’t improve your social skills and get amazing success, so it’s also not as bad as it sounds as there are ways around getting rejected…
You see sometimes when Gabbi and I take out our clients they hook up straight away. Sometimes you will hook up with the first girl you approach, sometimes you will hook up with the 10th girl you approach but sometimes it will take longer and it might even take you 20 approaches to take that girl home. You see we can never really predict beforehand how long it will take us to get that amazing interaction as it just depends on so many factors going on. So all we can control on our side is to keep approaching and carrying on. I mean guys I won’t lie on some days I won’t hook up with the first girl I approach, it really doesn’t work like that…But looking back at my experiences it doesn’t mean it can never happen, so don’t completely disregard this too ! So in the footage we just saw I did interact with a few girls before I met that final cute blonde girl who was REALLY switched on..And I know thinking back when we all went to Amsterdam I hooked up with that blonde girl right off the bat, first approach.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets.
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