No two people are the same and everyone has his own strong and weak points. However, some people are unable to see that they have something to offer other people and feel inferior to those around them. If this describes you, you may have an oration: underline; inferiority complex.
Overcome Feelings of Inferiority
What is an Inferiority Complex
As the name suggests, this is a term used to describe a complex where people have overwhelming feelings of inferiority. While we all have weak points, those who suffer from this complex will focus solely on their weaknesses and feel worthless, not as important as others, unsuccessful, and unaccomplished.
The result of this type of thinking is that a person’s entire life is impacted negatively. Some people overcompensate, trying to convince themselves and others of their worth, and some people tend to avoid difficult situations.
At worst, the negative thoughts turn into self-fulfilling prophecies, changing the way a person behaves and the way he is perceived by others. In many cases, these people do become inferior to others in a number of ways.
What Causes an Inferiority Complex
These complexes are often caused by conditioned beliefs that spring from constant criticism, from others or from oneself. Those who perceive themselves in a negative light may fall into a cycle where low self esteem perpetuates and reinforces the problem.
Overcoming an Inferiority Complex
The key to overcoming feelings of inferiority is confidence. The shortest and most permanent route to becoming more confident is through professional help, like that offered by Kamalifestyles.
The list of tips below are designed to get you started, but changing your life is easier to do when you have support from people in similar situations or those who know how to help you. The information below is covered in Kamalifestyle’s Supreme Confidence course.
Identify and change negative self talk. Constantly putting yourself down will have a negative effect on your life. Identify, eliminate, and replace these thoughts with positive affirmations.
Think about your negative thoughts. logically and stop believing the lies you tell yourself. If you tend to run yourself down because of your appearance, change what you can through grooming and dress sense, and realise that looks are subjective and people probably disagree with your opinions about yourself. You should also focus on more than the superficial aspects of yourself.
Put your weaknesses in perspective. While focusing on the weaknesses of others isn’t the best way to spend your day, take some time to compare your perceived weaknesses with theirs. You’ll be surprised at how little their weaknesses bother you and you may realise that no one is judging you as harshly as you are judging yourself.
Don’t fear failure. In fact, practice failing. This way you will no longer fear failure as much as you did before and you will learn from your social mistakes.
Take the time to improve yourself, whether by joining a gym or signing up for a Kama Lifestyles dating course. Weaknesses can be overcome, and the solution doesn’t lie in wishing you were different. Instead, take action and change the things about yourself that you can change.
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Iain Myles
Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.
Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.
