Nice guys vs bad guys
Hi Guys this is iain Myles, the leading dating coach of KamaLifestyles, joined by Gabriella Ryan Now, we’ve been receiving quite a few emails asking us why do the bad guys always seem to get women? So today we’re going to talk a bit about the nice guy, vs the bad guy. I’m sure that you’ve heard this before and even seen it first-hand. It’s a typical scenario for most guys; you find that a girl you’re friends with keeps ending up with the bad guy! Even though she cries on your shoulder about how much the bad guy consistently mistreats her, she keeps going back to him. Why? You KNOW you’re much better than that guy and you know you wouldn’t treat her that way but she still goes back to him. So…we’re going to explain the attributes of a bad guy and then the nice guy and show you what the differences between the two are
Bad Guys
The reason why bad guys tend to get the girl more than the nice guy is simply that they have many traits that women find more attractive. First of all, they’re more sure of themselves which means that they know what they want in life and they don’t need anyone else (especially women) to validate this. The bad guy is comfortable in who he is and he is not afraid to give his opinion. This is very attractive to women. As much as a woman might consciously disapprove and even get into an argument with him, subconsciously she probably enjoys being challenged. As much as she might verbally put him down, she will subconsciously find it intriguing and even exciting. There is also a thrill in it for her as her friends’ might tell her that he is no good for her. This only adds more of a thrill as he suddenly becomes forbidden fruit.
Bad guys quickly create attraction, take the lead, and become fascinating making many women want to be around them. The main visible qualities of bad guys are CONFIDENCE and decision making. I am strongly emphasising this as it is the most attractive thing about them and women tend to love it. At the end it is your choice. You can choose to take the bad guys attractive qualities and use them to your advantage OR you can practise nice guy’s qualities and potentially either get ignored or abused.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training’s by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.
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