I can’t attract women. Help me.
Now, we all know the million- dollar question every man would give anything to get a clear answer for, which is, “what do women want?” This would definitely solve a lot of guy’s problems as far as attracting women’s concerned. I mean, why can’t these women just put it out there for us, what should one do to attract them. Come to think of it; however, if we knew what to do, then the issue of attraction would be quite dull. The mystery of it is what makes it fun, worth the while, and so rewarding when you finally ace it.
Now, while a good number of men have struggled with attracting women – me included in the past, others appear so smooth and natural about it. It’s as if they can almost attract women in their sleep. Well, what can we say, some people are just naturals whilst others have to learn how to do things from scratch. Not that it matters how one becomes a pro, as long as you get the work done.
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In my years of relationship coaching, it has come to my attention that the number one factor that inhibits our ability to attract women is not having our minds in the right places. Many myths about what women want and what they are looking for in men go around. Allowing yourself to get caught up in these myths really tampers with your abilities to attract as your thoughts are blurred by it. Some of these myths include:
Women are attracted to money:
Listen- up before rolling your eyes on me. Without a doubt, wealth helps your social standing. Also, there are certainly women out there who are only attracted to the money, no doubt. Now, while money will undoubtedly spice up your relationship, no well put together woman will put up with your crap just because you have money. If anything, she has her own money and can get herself whatever she would want. You have to have desirable qualities to go along with having a rather fat bank account.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets. He has been featured in top radios and newspapers in UK and Ireland.