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How to win a girls heart

Winning a woman’s heart is not a one-time job. Winning a woman’s heart is just the beginning.

Looking for a one-night stand is easier for most guys because little connection is needed. Sexual connection is enough to get things going.

However, attracting a woman that you desire to have a long-term relationship with is another ball game. You’ll need to have more than one rabbit in your hat to keep the girl curious in you throughout.

In this blog, we’ll explore various techniques of how to win a girl’s heart. You’ll also get to create a base in the initial stages of stealing her heart that will make it easy for you to always impress the girl.

Most of the times guys try to attract a woman with the best version of themselves. The problems come when you exaggerated the best version of yourself and you can’t keep up with the act.

Here you’ll learn authentic ways to win a girl’s heart that will set you up for smooth sailing:

1.     Make her smile.

We are attracted to people that make us happy. You anticipate a good time when hanging around a person that keeps you smiling.

When you can make a girl smile every time she’s around you, you are in a better place to win her heart.

(If you want to learn what it takes to make her smile more you need to download this free eBook: Get a Girl to Like You).

Making a woman smile will make her associate you with a good time. The silent reward for making her smile is she’ll come to you when she feels overwhelmed. That will introduce you to a new emotion that you can connect with to further strengthen your bond.

You don’t need to have an extraordinarily good sense of humor to make a woman smile. There are things that all women desire and that are appreciated, recognized, and pampered.

2.     Listen to her as if her heart depends on it.

Listening is an underrated skill especially when it comes to men. It’s very challenging to convince a guy about something he already has a stand on. Partly, it’s because guys won’t listen to it most of the time. After all, they already have a stand.

When guys are interacting with girls, they look for places they can be heroes. You’ll hear what the woman is talking about but you’ll not listen to what she’s saying.

Creating a genuine interest in what a woman is saying, helps you understand her much better. You’ll know the small things about her that no one pays attention to but she craves attention.

A girl will equally create interest in you when she feels heard around you. She will listen more and that’s a solid base in creating a firm connection.

3.     Make her feel comfortable and safe.

When you want to win a girl’s heart, you have to use all you got. Creating dependency can be healthy when building a solid connection.

Making a woman feel comfortable and safe around you can prompt her to open more about herself.

Imagine making a woman open up to you about her darkest sexual desires. It takes a great deal of feeling secure and safe around each other.

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You’ll know when a woman is comfortable and feels safe with you when she’s not trying to hide her insecurities or vulnerabilities.

One sneaky way of making a woman comfortable is showing her that you are comfortable. Showing the woman your vulnerable can build trust which is crucial to inspiring comfort.

4.     Show her that you know her.

The next way to win a girl’s heart is by showing her that you know her. People feel very comfortable when they are around people that understand them.

You’ll strike her differently from any other guy that’s looking to wow her. For example, you know the way she likes her coffee.

Surprising her with a type of coffee that she loves will make her curious. She’ll be wondering how much you know about her. The more airtime you get in her mind the better your odds of stealing her heart.

The girl you desire will be prompt to get to understand you better and reciprocate what you’ve done. You’ll be in a better position to build a solid connection when a woman also gets the woman on the offensive.

Showing her that you know her is to challenge her about how much she knows about you. The more you dive into trying to understand each other the more it becomes difficult for her to pull back.

5.     Balance your display of independence and dependence.

One crucial aspect when winning a girl’s heart is to balance how she sees your independence and dependence. Dependence is not entirely evil when it’s done right. Making a woman feel her value in your relationship will take you so much closer to winning her heart.

You can also get her to be dependent on you. That will improve your relationship and make it unique from other relationships in your life.

However, showing your independence is also crucial. Independence gives you a good bargaining power that can get you the woman you are interested in.

Showing that you are independent also helps you set and reinforce boundaries in the relationship. You don’t want to win a girl’s heart by all means!

6.    Build sexual chemistry

It will be an uphill task when you are trying to win a girl’s heart and there’s no sexual chemistry. Sexual chemistry builds a more intimate connection that a girl does not share with other men. It’s a bond that isolates you from the rest of the male species.

Flirtation is an art that prominent for its devious advances. You can show a woman your desires in a deeper way when flirting.

Understanding the flirting techniques that work on a girl you desire builds your confidence. You’ll become bolder in pushing her boundaries. If your flirting game is no check, she will adjust her boundaries for you.

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You’ll naturally trigger and build sexual tension the further you push a woman’s boundaries with your art of flirting.

7.     Inspire her curiosity in you.

Curiosity is the glue that keeps a woman interested in you long enough to unlock and steal her heart. When a woman feels she has you figured out, it becomes natural for her to lose interest.

Exploring your creative nature when trying to win a girl’s heart can inspire a sense of mystery in your personality. You can build romance curiosity by being creative and showing passion when you engage her.

Another sneaky way of building a mysterious personality is having an open mind to try new things. Trying new things together will help you have more in common with the woman you desire. You’ll have exciting memories which can be a vital tool when trying to win a girl’s heart.

8.    Be authentic

It’s possible to lie your way to the top. But when you are at the top, it will be very challenging to maintain your position with more lies. However, when you gained something with a lie, telling the truth might mean losing what you desired.

Approaching a woman with genuine intention and displaying your real self can forge strong bonds that will help you win a woman’s heart. Also, when you are genuine about a woman, you’ll tend to be very passionate about her.

When you are authentic, you can build on similar dreams and ambitions. You’ll be irresistible when a woman realizes how much she needs you.

9.    Build your dating skills.

Beautiful girls attract quite a handful of guys that see them. When you want to win a girl’s heart, chances are you just joined a queue of other guys also trying their luck.

Building your dating skills can make you masterful with how you approach, qualify, and score the girl. For example, mastering the art of seduction can make you very persuasive. You’ll have an advantage in the game over some of the guys that want the girl.

(Here’s an awesome article on how to seduce women: How to Seduce a Woman).

You’ll be in a better position to understand what a woman wants when you’ve mastered your dating skills. You’ll have the skill to entice a woman into telling you what you desire and you can approach her with it.

10.    Show a great sense of leadership and commitment.

The last technique of how to win a girl’s heart we’ll explore is showing you are a good leader and your ability to commit. Women desire security before they make an abiding decision.

For example, most women will not chase guys that clearly show a lack of interest. But men are different because we’ll still shoot our shot just to be sure.

Displaying leadership skills can reduce a girl’s resistance. When a girl believes in your ability to make sound decisions, she’ll let you rock the boat.

You’ll have the power to introduce new concepts that will facilitate your mission to win her heart. Your commitment might inspire a girl to also commit. It will boost how fast you win the girl’s heart.

When you are launching everything you’ve got to win a girl’s heart, don’t forget yourself and get lost in it. Maintaining your individuality is crucial to holding the relationship together after you win the girl’s heart.

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Emre Ilkme

Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.

He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.