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How To Trust Women

Are women pathological liars?

Are we all bound to deceive men?

One of the many lessons I have learned the hard way is that the only way to properly tell if you can trust someone is to actually trust that person.

But even so, it would not be right to judge all women the same!

Just like the way we come in different shapes and sizes, in the same way, we have different characters.

And I also won’t shy away from the fact that there are women out there that you cannot trust completely.

So if you are reading this, it might mean that you have been hurt time and again to a point where you are wondering if you can really trust women.

And if so…

How?

Let go of the victim mentality

We have all experienced hurt in our relationships at one point or another in time.

I am trying to pass across that if you want to date again, let go of that victim mentality.

Let me speak for all the women out there when I say we do not like a man playing the victim.

It just portrays self-doubt and insecurity.

Have the self-worth to act and convince us that you are a REAL man.

When you do that, you will attract the kind of quality, trustworthy women into your life.

Pay attention to the red flags

Do not be all goo-goo eyed by that woman you like so much to the point that you ignore all the red flags or some of the questionable behaviours she shows.

Remember that you deserve nothing but the best when it comes to your mental and physical state.

Put your value first before anyone else’s.

Therefore, no matter how beautiful or how good she seems, actions do not lie.

If you see some recurring destructive behaviours that cause you not to see eye to eye, it is better to call it out.

If there is no change, then just walk away!

Otherwise, you will keep on having the so-called failed relationships, which in return is what will make you not to trust women.

Take charge of your life

I always tell my clients that they drive their life.

It is up to them to decide in which direction to head their life and romantic relationships.

Stop such excuses as always thinking and assuming that we are after your money.

That is just an excuse for what you are hiding behind.

I can confidently tell you that a lot of girls have impressive foundations, and I have coached men based on the experiences I learn from these girls.

Many women out there want a confident man with ambitions rather than a man who makes millions of dollars to feel unhappy.

Let go, forgive, and move on

Don’t hold on to the past.

It does not mean a face to face kind of forgiveness, but instead just letting go internally.

Let go of all the anger, mistrust, and hurt you went through and everything that is currently making you not trust women.

You will continue attracting this negative energy if you do not let it go.

You deserve a woman who will be there for you, one who is confident enough to show you what kind of partners she wants to be for you and motivates you always.

The type of woman who will cherish you and love you for you, right?

Focus on the bigger picture

Ask yourself this, which one sounds better, being alone for the rest of your life, or finally finding a soul mate?

No one said that we will all find love in the first attempt!

Love is painful but sweet.

And you cannot find love if you give up quickly and stop trusting women.

But if you are good at being alone for the rest of your life, then that is okay too.

I tell my clients who have trust issues with women to look at some of the most trustworthy women in their lives.

That way, you can take your time and look at things differently.

As I pointed out earlier, we have all suffered from mistrust or deceit.

We all experience the same things in life only that it comes at different times.

Also, if the hurt was too deep, I would recommend you take some time to heal first.

Do not rush a heavy heart just yet.

Listening to this video, for instance, is a positive step towards achieving your growth and getting to that point where you will finally love again.

I hope you can see that not all women are women you cannot trust.

Remember to let me know what you think.

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All the best,

Gaby 💜