Sexual attraction is very challenging for men to hide yet women do it flawlessly. A woman can be sexually attracted to you but if you don’t read between the signs 500 light-years away, you might lose her to someone else that showed her sexual attention.
While it’s rare to find a woman that will approach you and confess her sexual craving for you, women leave clues that can give you an idea of what she wants. Nevertheless, most guys miss the clues. But if you are reading this blog then you’ll never miss a sign that indicates a girl is sexually attracted to you.
In this blog, we’ll explore various ways of how to tell if a woman is sexually attracted to you.
You’ll also find sleek techniques of approaching the woman once you’ve deciphered her cues.
1. She flirts with you.
The first undeniable sign of how to tell if a woman is sexually attracted to you is when she flirts with you. It’s almost impossible for a girl to flirt with a guy she doesn’t like. And if she flirts with you but she doesn’t like you then she wants something from you which flirting will help her gain.
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However, women flirt differently from men, which is one of the reasons that most guys miss this sign. Women are subtle with their flirting techniques because they don’t want to come off too strong in the situation or worse getting rejected after gathering courage and putting in much effort.
Here are some ideas of how a woman might flirt with you:
- Giggle and laugh at your jokes even though you know some of them are lame. Women use this technique to make a guy feel comfortable and encourage them to keep going. It’s also a way of a woman showing you that she relates with you and finds you masterful in your craft.
- She’ll want to hug you when you meet or give you a light kiss. It’s a way of initiating touch and displaying she’s comfortable with it.
- She’ll ask for help for the obvious things. A woman can ask for help and your gut feeling immediately tells you it’s something she could have easily done by herself. Girls playing a damsel in distress is a way of projecting their feminine energy.
- Complimenting your acquired taste. It’s a sure-fire sign that a girl is flirting with you when she compliments a peculiar taste you have in things e.g. movies or hobbies.
When you notice that she’s flirting with you, make it easy for her and take the lead gradually. You can throw a compliment here and there and see how she reacts. If the response is positive, that is a green light and your chance to escalate slowly.
2. She can’t keep her hands off you.
Most women are very sensitive with guys they break the touch barrier with. When a woman initiates touch, it’s a sign that she’s comfortable around you and also a sign of trust.
However, it’s easy to mistake a simple touch with sexual desire. When a woman is sexually attracted to you, she might consciously or subconsciously touch you in a sexually suggestive but subtle way at the same time. She won’t go straight to touching your magic stick.
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You’ll know a woman’s touch is sexual when it’s recurrent and in different areas. You might crack a joke and when she laughs, she ‘accidentally’ touches your thighs, chest, or chin. That can be a subconscious sign of what she desires.
When you notice that a girl is using any excuse to touch you, you can reduce the distance between you to make it comfortable for her. That also allows you to start an exploration of your own.
3. Subtle sexual hints
It’s impossible to be with and try to predict what every action she takes means. You’ll probably lose the woman because you’ll be so much in your head.
Nevertheless, women sometimes do things that give away their intention to a guy. She won’t be obvious about it like we see in the movies but it will not be a challenge if you can notice the subtle sexual hints.
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Here are some of the subtle sexual hints that a woman might display to communicate her hidden desires:
- Occasionally adjusting her posture to appear more feminine. Men are attracted by what they see. She’ll display her feminine strengths in an attempt to get you aroused.
- She’ll seductively lick her lips. There’s a way that someone licks their lips because they are dry. But when she’s trying to be seductive, she’ll do it in a way to take your mind to create a fantasy.
- She’ll fidget with her hair or things around her. When a woman is fidgeting with something but maintains her attention on you, that’s a good sign, which might indicate sexual attraction.
- She uses sexual innuendos to tease you. Sexual innuendos give women a chance for plausible deniability in case you are not interested in her the same way.
4. She’s interested in your personal life.
When a girl is not interested in a guy, she’ll hold the conversation to small talk. You’ll realize later on that you’ve talked for a long period, but you don’t know much about her.
On the other hand, when a girl is sexually interested in a guy, she’ll want to know everything about the guy. I’m not talking about your birthday or your level of education.
When a girl is sexually attracted to you, she’ll be more interested in your sexual and romantic life. She’ll desire to know if you’re dating, your ideologies about women and romantic relationships. She might even want to know if you’ve ever had STI, but they never get the courage to ask.
The questions that the woman asks you use them as a tool to explore if she has the chances to get what she desires and the stability. The type of questions that a woman asks you can unveil if she’s trying to be friendly or she’s sexually attracted to you.
5. She’s dressed to attract.
Women are masters when it comes to seduction, which is why they don’t have to do much to give a subtle and clear message about their intention. The way a woman dresses when she comes to meet you can help you tell if she’s sexually attracted to you.
However, you have to be careful when using this sign to decipher how a girl feels about you because it might just be her style. But there’s an amount of effort that when a girl puts in how she looks, she’s trying to impress you.
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For instance, if you had invited her for a simple date and she comes with her sexiest wardrobe, that can be a sign that she’s sexually attracted to you.
6. She blushes when you talk.
A woman might manage to hide her feelings with her words and actions but biology might betray her. When a woman is sexually attracted to you and she hasn’t made it known to you, she’ll be a bit awkward and nervous around you.
Blushing is an indication of increased blood pressure. When her cheeks turn pink while talking to her, that is a sign that she might have hidden sexual feelings for you.
The best way to approach this is by looking at how she interacts with other men. If she doesn’t blush much but has pink cheeks and is coy when around you, she likes you.
7. She opens up about her sexuality.
It’s amazing how we create these wild imaginations and fantasies when we are sexually attracted to a person. These imaginations and fantasies subconsciously make us feel close to the person we are attracted to even if we don’t know much about them.
It’s not easy to get a girl to talk about her sexual fantasies and desires. Nevertheless, a girl will be willing to tell you about her sexual fantasies and desires if she’s sexually attracted to you. The attraction she feels for you inspires comfort and trust which prompts her to unveil to you what she wouldn’t tell just any other guy.
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A girl can also open up about her sexuality to have solid ground to also know about your sexuality. It can also be her way of trying to impress you to get you to sexually crave for her.
For example, a girl can open up about a naughty sexual fantasy that she has. It’s her way of making you view her sexually and possibly get fascinated about being part of her fantasy.
8. She wants to be in a private place with you.
Women feel more comfortable expressing their sexual attraction to guys when there’s no audience. It’s more challenging for a girl to make a move on you when you are in a restaurant than when you are in a private place.
It’s a sure-fire sign that a girl is sexually attracted to you if she wants to meet you in private. First, a girl will not want to be alone with a guy that she doesn’t like or trust. Second, women know that they’ll be vulnerable when there are no people around.
Her sexual desire for you might prompt her to invite you to her place or hint that she wants to come to your place. She might do it under the pretense she wants you to go help with something or a friendly hangout.
You now have fool-proof signs that can show you if a woman is sexually attracted to you. However, only one sign is not enough to give you a clear depiction of how the girl feels towards you.
Take your time and be patient to observe more of the signs that we’ve explored in the blog. How to tell if a woman is sexually attracted to you can be simplified with the interest you also create in the woman. If you are not genuinely interested, it becomes very easy for you to miss the signs.
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Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.
He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.