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How to make her feel guilty for ignoring you

How to make her feel guilty for ignoring you

It’s in our DNA to desire affection, connection, and build relationships that add sauce to our lives. However, communication has to be fluid from both sides to achieve what we are designed by nature to desire.

Most guys overcome the fear of rejection and anxiety of things not going their way to approach a woman they desire or stay in a relationship. But it sucks when you put yourself on the line then get ignored by a woman you want. It triggers a lot of questions that you can’t have answers to.

Depending on the effort you were putting, you can take a hit on your confidence or self-esteem when you get ignored. The truth is getting ignored is a bit more frustrating and painful than rejection. You are left with a thousand questions and no hope of getting any answers.

It makes you susceptible to self-blame and doubt. You’ll start wondering, did I get her number right? Or maybe she didn’t get my text or missed call? Am I not good enough for her?

A woman can ignore you on so many levels. She can consciously ignore the feelings that you have towards her. She can ghost you even though she knows exactly what she means to you.

A common mistake guys make when they get ignored is to try harder to get in touch with the girl. Hello! A monologue only paints a bad picture of you. You’ll be validating the girl’s reasons for ignoring you (dating coach for men).

In this blog, we are taking back your power. I’ll show you ways of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you. It’s my aspiration that by the end of reading this blog, you’ll overcome the limiting mindset that can be triggered by being ignored, take your power back, and make that woman feel guilty for ever ignoring you.

1.      Why did she ignore you?

If you want to know how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you, you have to first understand why she ignored you. That will make the process personal and unique for you. You’ll also understand what you need to do to show her that she was wrong about you.

I recently watched a movie where a guy was dumped and ignored by their girlfriend because he was broke. The guy went ahead to focus on himself and become the youngest billionaire.

He took his power back by showing his ex she was wrong for not believing in him. I bet she had some major guilt and regrets for not sticking around when she saw the guy living lavish and driving luxury.

Also, there’s power in understanding why a woman ignored you. You can counter self-limiting beliefs that can be triggered by getting ignored.

You’ll understand if the reason is something you can change or it’s beyond your ability to change it. Either way, you’ll not have self-limiting beliefs because you’ll change if it’s something you can and let it go if it’s something you can’t change.

2.      Enjoy your life.

I always believe that I am the master of my sea. When you are in my water, there’s no storm you can cause that I won’t overcome. The best way of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you is to enjoy your life.

You’ll feel sad, confused, or unfairly treated when a woman you want ignores you. But acknowledging those feelings and allowing yourself to move from them is the best way to get your power back.

Guys always want to look tough and that sometimes makes us weak inside. You’ll keep wondering why she ignored you and doubt your value.

When a woman ignores you, she doesn’t think that you’ll go out and live your best life. But when she sees that you are enjoying life even after she ignored you, it will make her question her value to you. She’ll feel guilty for feeling too important to you when clearly that was not the case.

You’ll be attracting beautiful people when you are having fun. She’ll want to be part of the fun but she’ll feel guilty for what she did before.

3.      Give her some space

Some women are addicted to the chase. They’ll ignore you so that you put more nitro into pursuing them. The best technique of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you, in this case, is giving the woman space and time.

It’s 2022, and there’s no room for games that will keep you second-guessing if a woman is into you or not. Giving a woman space when she ignores you will immediately make her question her decisions. If she was into you, she’ll feel guilty and regret ignoring you.

The space gives the woman time to reflect on what she wants and also see the consequences of her decisions unfolding. She might do self-reconciliation and come to you. You’ll be in a stronger position when she comes back than when you keep pursuing her after she has ignored you.

4.      Have an open conversation

You can make a woman feel guilty for ignoring you when you confront her about it. One masterful technique of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you is by engaging the woman in an open conversation.

First, it shows a great deal of confidence and emotional intelligence when you call out a woman for her bad behavior. When you are talking about why it happened and sharing your perspective, the woman might see it was mean and unfair to treat you in such a manner.

However, this technique can only be fruitful if you are on talking terms with the girl. You’ll appear desperate when you are trying to have an open conversation with a woman that is ignoring all your communication attempts.

5.      Be the bigger person 

I always find that the best way of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you is being the bigger person. When a woman ignores you, part of her expects you not to be so nice to her. But being the bigger person in the situation can make the woman feel guilty.

For instance, when she ignores you then comes back and starts talking to you. While it might be very tempting to ignore her, ignoring her will not make her feel bad because she knows she has done it before for you. But when you give her an open ear and be nice to her, she’ll feel guilty for being inconsiderate to you earlier.

Nevertheless, being the bigger person doesn’t mean that you have to accept anything the woman wants. You can respectfully decline her advances and requests.

Another sneaky way of being the bigger person and making a woman feel guilty is using an apology as a tool. I am not an advocate of playing mind games to people, but some situations call for it. Apologizing can make a person reflect on what they have done and feel guilty.

Also, apologizing is not a free ticket for her to get what she wants. You can apologize then give the woman some space.

6.      Don’t focus on making her feel guilty

The paradox of how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you is not to focus on making her feel guilty. When your focus is to make her feel guilty, you’ll try too hard to appear like you are having fun or moving on with life. You’ll silently harbor bitter feelings towards the woman which one way or another will show.

Take care of yourself and show yourself affection that will help you move on from the undesirable experience. You’ll find things that genuinely make you happy rather than focusing on what will make the woman that ignored you feel guilty.

Forgiveness can be instrumental in healing if you feel hurt with the experience. It will help you move on and focus on yourself.

Final Take

When you are considering how to make her feel guilty for ignoring you, it’s important that you are honest with the part you might have played for this to happen. You can’t make a woman feel guilty for ignoring you if you were on your worst behavior.

It’s important to understand how you feel after getting ignored because of the silent undesirable feelings that may develop. You’ll not be able to show a woman she was wrong about you when your actions and words speak bitterness.

Accept things the way they are and move on. A woman will only feel guilty when things get better on your side than she expected.

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Emre Ilkme

Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.

He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.