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How to get laid

William started dating Sarah after meeting her at a party held by mutual friends. Even though they’d been dating for nearly two months, they hadn’t progressed much further than a goodnight kiss at the door.

William realised that he needed to learn how to get laid. After all, sex is basic human need and part of an exciting, healthy, happy life, on a physical, spiritual and emotional level.

William decided to break things off with Sarah and contact Kamalifestyles for advice and some tips from a professional dating coach.

William’s Kamalifestyles coach explained that how to get laid depends on more than looks. Even men who are not good-looking can learn techniques to improve their chances of getting laid. He got a couple of tips that would guarantee success.

Get into contact with a lot of women. Don’t focus only on bars and clubs. Go to a local shopping mall, especially if there are a lot of high-end boutiques since beautiful women love to shop.

Approach women on the street, in parks, in coffee shops… Make sure you spend your time looking in the right places. After all, how can you meet women if you aren’t around them?

When learning how to get laid, get ready for rejection. You don’t like every woman you meet, so it’s logical that every woman won’t like you. Staying positive and cheerful is a sign of confidence.

(I’d advise you to work on your confidence to be able to stand up to your partner: Confidence Pillars).

Keeping your happy attitude in a tough situation is a sign of strength. Think of the ones who reject you as training for the ones who don’t, and don’t let rejection get you down.

Make a good first impression. William’s Kamalifestyles coach gave him advice about how he dressed and how he groomed himself.

Women look at men’s style and make instant judgments about them. Approaching a woman who has already judged you to be socially inferior is far more difficult than approaching someone who sees you as an equal.

Spending a little money on a good haircut and presentable clothes is a good first step, but don’t go for anything too flashy.

Set goals for yourself. When working on how to get laid, make a decision to approach 20 beautiful women every week. William’s Kamalifestyles coach explained the maths.

Even if you get rejected by 15 of them, you’ve made progress with 5. Next week, set your goal to get phone numbers from 20 women. Again, even if you strike out with 15 of them, you have 5 phone numbers.

Next, move the goalposts again – try for instant dates. This way, your skills will improve dramatically and you’re being exposed to far more women than you were before.

Pushing up the numbers will naturally increase your chances of success. If you work hard to reach your goals, you could be going on a date with a beautiful woman every day of the week.

(Ultimately it comes down to how strong your mindset is. Read this for some guidance: Mindset Coaching).

Get a friend involved. If you can, tell one of your friends about your training and goals about how to get laid. This way, you’ll have an extra motivator to go out and talk to the 20 women you’ve set as a goal.

The Kamalifestyles coach’s tips on how to get laid gave William the confidence and motivation to get out there and meet people. He stuck to his goals and, within a month, his training paid off. He’s far more relaxed when approaching women and isn’t scared of rejection anymore.

William started chatting up twenty to thirty women a week and had a date every other day. He met Linda and realized that he felt a deeper connection with her. His Kamalifestyles training on how to get laid led him to a woman he likes and they’ve been dating regularly.

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Iain Myles

Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.

Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.