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How to get a girl to like you

 

It’s easy to get a girl to like you. But it can be challenging to get a girl to like you the way you want with the intensity you desire and at the time you prefer.

 

The thought of how to get a girl to like you crosses most guys’ minds when they see a woman they are interested in. However, it has been a popular belief that women came from another moon and it’s hard to impress them.

 

A simple question of how to make a woman like you can trigger a snowball of negative thoughts. Since most guys think women are difficult to impress, they’ll start looking at what they don’t have that the woman might be attracted to.

 

Most guys appear desperate when they are trying to get a girl to like them because they forget what they want. A common misconception is that telling a woman you are trying to impress NO can lower your chances of getting the woman. That drives most guys to respond to the woman’s every request and need.

 

Your mindset can put you in a weaker position when you are trying to get a woman to like you. And a limiting mindset is the first obstacle that reduces most guys’ success rate with the women they desire.

 

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It’s challenging to impress someone with something that you don’t want them to see. When you cannot fathom your value, you’ll go all out trying to make the woman like you. It will be easy for you to lose sight of why you wanted her to like you when you are just her yes man.

 

In this article, you’ll explore how to get a girl to like you without showing any traces of desperation. You’ll get to understand what women want from guys and what to work on as a guy.

 

Look at the guy in the mirror

 

Would you like you? Most of the time we focus on what the woman would want and that’s why most guys become yes men when they try to get a woman to like them. The true answer to getting girls to like you is by understanding what you like about yourself.

 

When you are trying to get a girl to like you, you are basically trying to show her all the marvels and wonders they’ll get by sticking with you. You are consciously showing her that you are the best she could bargain for.

 

Reflecting on your personality and skills with women can help you get a woman you want to like. Women desire confident men with strong leadership skills. Building a personality that contains most of the attractive qualities to women will get women to like you.

 

 

Understanding what you have to offer is a good place to start if you want a girl to like you. Women are attracted to men they feel are genuine. Understanding what you are willing to give gives you confidence which will make you seem sincere with your intentions.

 

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Let’s look at some skills that can make you a high-value guy:

 

1.    Build your confidence

 

Confidence is the icing on the cake that you cannot miss if you want to impress a girl and get her to like you. Women feel safe and comfortable around confident guys. Building your confidence will make the woman you like comfortable around you.

 

2.    Build your conversation skills

 

The conversation is the best way to get through to a woman and forge an emotional connection. Understanding the power of your words and executing it at the right time is mastering the art of conversation. You’ll make a woman like you because of how you’ll use your words to trigger the emotions you desire to connect with.

 

3.    Work on your grooming.

 

There’s a saying when you look good, you feel good. The first impression has a powerful impact on how a woman responds to a guy’s approach. Grooming well shows that a guy is responsible and a woman will be willing to give the guy a benefit of the doubt.

 

Working on your grooming will boost your confidence and make the woman you want comfortable around you.

 

4.     Master your strengths

 

Women are attracted to leaders and you become a leader when you have mastered something. Understanding your strengths and mastering them can make you a high-value guy. Women will want to be associated with you because of your strengths and that will make it easy for you to get any girl to like you.

 

5.    Your body language and nonverbal cues

 

Your body language can make a woman like you. Most people mirror the body language of the other in a conversation. When a woman mimics your confident and comfortable body language, she’ll feel confident and comfortable around you.

 

 

Also, body language is the best tool to initiate a flirting phase in your interaction with a woman you like. It’s an important skill to master because it can be the difference between you getting the girl to like you and securing a VIP slot in her friend’s zone.

 

6.    Displaying your intentions

 

You can show your intention and build towards getting the girl on the same page. Confusion and uncertainty can create doubt that can hold back the woman from liking you. Finding ways to display your intentions early can start the relationship on a positive note.

 

(Learn how to display your intentions when messaging a girl: How often you should text a girl to keep her interested).

 

It will be easy for you to build trust and foster emotional connection. You’ll also understand the girl’s take on your intention. It will be easy to impress a girl if you know she understands your intentions and has decided to stick around.

 

Showing genuine interest can make a woman feel special which can make her like you.

 

Understand the girl you want.

 

The next step on how to get a girl to like you is understanding the girl you want. One common mistake that guys make when trying to get a girl to like them is trying to impress her the same way they do to all women.

 

Women are different and to get a girl to like you, it’s crucial to know what she likes. And when you know what the girl likes it becomes easy to approach her. You’ll give her what she wants with you wrapped deep in it.

 

Understanding a girl will also give you an idea of the intensity of the effort you need to put in to get a girl to like you. Does she want a relationship or a casual thing? Is she in a relationship or single? How does she feel about men?

 

Everything you learn about the girl is a possible prop to help you connect with the girl and get her to like you. However, you improve your chances so much to get a girl to like you when you know what to look for.

 

 

(If you want her to become your girlfriend then you need to check this out: How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend in a cute way).

 

Here are tips of what to look for that will help you understand a woman better and get her to like you:

 

1.    Shared interests and experiences

 

Identifying shared interests and experiences can make you show a woman that you have a lot in common. Generally, people like people that are like them because they are easy to predict and impress.

 

A woman will grow comfortable and confident around you when she knows that you have a lot in common. She will be inspired to be her genuine self around you and that effect can make a girl like you.

 

2.    Common future goals and ambitions.

 

Most people are heavily emotionally invested in achieving their goals and ambitions. Understanding what a woman desires in the future can put you in a perfect position to get the woman to like you. You can show a woman your shared goals and ambitions.

 

It’s challenging to get a woman to like a guy that has contradicting goals and ambitions. The more the woman associates you with her future dreams the deeper she’ll get attached to you. Understanding a woman’s future aspirations can help you time your escalation seamlessly.

 

3.    Understand her deal breakers.

 

Trust is one of the primary pillars of any relationship. When you are trying to get a girl to like you, it means that the relationship is still delicate. Breaking trust at the initial stages of the relationship can make it very difficult to get a girl to like you.

 

Deal breakers have a significant impact on trust in a relationship. Understanding a woman’s deal breakers helps you identify where the landmines are. You’ll be cautious in your interactions not to trigger any of her deal breakers and dent the growing trust.

 

You’ll build solid trust the more your relationship grows without red flags. A woman will naturally like you when she trusts you.

 

4.    Get to know her secret desires

 

Women also think about sex and their romantic desires as much as men do. Now, imagine being at the center of the stage in a woman’s mind when she’s down her fantasy romance or sexual adventures.

 

The woman will feel more connected to you when she sees you as a guy that can make her fantasy a reality. Most women are coy about their dark or fairytale romantic desires. But you can become irresistible when you understand a woman’s romantic desires.

 

You can build irresistible sexual tension with a woman that will make it almost impossible for her not to like you. (Read this article to become totally irresistible with women: How to Seduce a Woman).

 
 

Leading conversation to such personal depths inspires more trust and makes the woman comfortable around you.

 

5.    Understand her love language

 

You can solve the challenge of how you want a girl to like you by understanding her love language. Most guys that get stuck in the friend’s zone are guys that have not inspired a romantic or sexual feeling in the girl.

 

When you understand a woman’s love language, you’ll know how to approach her and that will make you seem like a suitable partner. You’ll be able to build your sex appeal and get her to like you.

 

Conclusion

 

How to get a girl to like you can be accelerated by building on trust and comfort. You’ll also need to understand the personality, values, and interests of the woman to get her on your sailing team.

 

It’s important to remember that impressing a girl is highly dependent on what you promise to offer and what the girl desires. The point the two collide is where you have your highest affinity to make her like you.

 

(I’d highly recommend checking this book out: How To Get Girls To Chase You).

 

However, focusing on building yourself and acquiring new skills that will make you a high-value guy is the surest way of attracting girls and getting them to like you.

 

Emre Ilkme

Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.

 

He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.