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How to become an alpha male!

How to become an alpha male

Hi Guys it’s Iain and Annabel here and Today we’re going to talk about how to become an alpha male.

I get asked this question all the time – “How do I become an alpha male?”, and honestly, most guys miss the point here, completely!, because they imagine themselves becoming this “alpha male” or this “super guy”. And at the end of their journey of self-improvement, they literally imagine themselves being a completely different person. They think that they’ll become a dating master, or a pick-up artist, that can pull women, left, right, and centre, wherever they go. This is actually very far from the truth, and it may compromise your progress and success with women. So what I’m going to go through, next, is the reality of what defines an alpha male, and the simple steps that you can start applying, NOW. So here are the top ten!

Being present

This is the biggest mistake that most guys make in that they always project their perfect selves into the future, which sets an unrealistic goal for them to achieve. The thing is is that the guy you see in your head is the guy that can meet and date loads of women in the future, he’ll still be you as you sit here and read this article, now, and you’ll still have all your strong and weak traits. The only difference is is that your good traits will be stronger, as well as your weak traits being worked on and improved. In reality, your best self is within you, right now, and every time you work on yourself in a positive way, you’re bringing that powerful self of yours out more, into the open. It’s what you do to better yourself in the present that counts, and that which will also determine the ideal person that you want to be five to ten years from now. Which brings me to my next point.

Get out of your comfort zone

This is a very important aspect of your self-growth, as the more you push yourself out of your comfort zone, to learn and achieve goals, the stronger and faster you’ll grow as a person. When you see that group of hot women, sitting together in a park or in a bar, you’ll feel that you won’t want to approach them because you’re afraid of them rejecting you or being rude to you. But the difference between an alpha male and any other average guy is that the alpha male will feel these feelings but he’ll approach anyway. Essentially, the alpha male is aware of these negative feelings, but he refuses to buy into them. Because that’s all they are, feelings and thoughts. The reality is is that girls will either be responsive or unresponsive, and if they’re unresponsive he’ll learn to deal with rejections better. And no matter how good you develop as a person, you’ll always feel this feeling when you’re trying or learning something new. This’s a good sign because it means that you’re always growing.

Annabel Pugh is a dating coach and youtube presenter. She publishes regular dating related videos on KamaTV and help our clients to get better in dating. She takes part in bootcamps and infield training’s and gives her honest feedback from a female perspective. Most of our clients says her feedback gives them the tools to be more confident and basically increase their overall awareness in dating.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

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