When it comes to dating, your confidence can take a thorough beating if you are not careful.
There are shy guys out there who do not have the confidence needed to succeed in dating.
And they get pushed and shoved around even if they find someone… the girl, most likely, needs a confident guy!
Even the confidence of an “alpha male” is put to the ultimate test when they are dating these types of women.
Confidence is one of the most fascinating aspects that keeps the flame alive when you are dating.
It is what makes guy’s spontaneous, unpredictable, and thrilling.
So, how do you get dating confidence when you finally meet that girl that you have a crush on?!
Well, today, I’m going to tell you precisely how.
Let your negative experiences go
Sometimes our bad experiences act as an anchor that give us insecurities and low self-esteem.
There are disingenuous people out there and unlucky for us you never really know the woman that you are getting in a relationship with.
So, if in your past relationship the girl you were dating made you feel like trash that does not mean you should feel like that.
Bad experiences make us second guess our worth, and that’s when our confidence starts going downhill.
We are not all bad and it’s unfair to date a woman and brand her with the experience you went through with your ex.
When you are getting in a relationship, first establish your worth and what you want to gain.
This will give you the bargaining power in the relationship because you will not settle for less.
Your dating confidence will get a boost once you know what your worth is in the relationship.
Boost your confidence
Guys are a very peculiar species.
Most men will rather die in silence that speaks up because they will appear weak.
So, boosting your confidence can be the silent battle that you are having.
What most people ignore is that it is the small steps that boost our confidence and make us have that dating confidence that we require.
Try doing things that will make you feel good about yourself because that’s how confidence-building works.
Try wearing outfits that compliment your body and groom yourself to be the best you can.
The small compliments that you get will take you a long way in building your dating confidence.
Try to live your life
Dating can put everything you believe to the test because of differences in personalities.
Most people lose who they are when they are dating because they try to form their character to the people they are dating.
Once you revolve your life around the person you are dating; then it is easy to lose your confidence and self-worth.
Confidence can be built when you continue to have your life outside your relationship.
Your dating life will only be one part of your life and that way you can have the equilibrium you need to boost and maintain your confidence.
Girls also need the space sometimes because clingy guys can be pretty annoying.
Face your fears
We all know our fears and what drains our dating confidence.
Alpha males use humor and chivalry to bring out their fears and insecurity.
Facing your fears can be the only way to gain the dating confidence that you need.
Bring out your vulnerability from the start.
Your girl will appreciate you for your authenticity and will support you to gain the confidence that you need.
When you meet the girl you like, and you are nervous, tell them the truth.
It will make them go easy on you and it will build your confidence as the conversation progresses.
We also find it charming when a guy tells us their weak points.
We sometimes even take charge of the conversation to reduce the tension and anxiety.
Maintain eye contact
There are nonverbal cues that can help you build your dating confidence.
Once you convince yourself that you cannot do something or you are afraid of it, then chances of succeeding are very minimal.
Eye contact is one of the nonverbal cues that shows that you are confident.
The more you talk to the girl you like while maintaining eye contact the more you boost your confidence.
Eye contact will help you interpret her nonverbal cues and prep you to respond correctly.
We also appreciate it because we know that we have your attention.
Most of us have a fear of the unknown, and that’s what drains our confidence.
When you want to boost your dating confidence, convince yourself that she is a human-like you and nothing worse can happen.
Be your true self and let her fall in love with who you are.
You can succeed if you keep trying, but you will never be rewarded for giving up.