Hi whats up KamaTV… this is the dating coach Emre from kamalifestyles.com and I hope that you are all doing well. Guys today I am here with another exciting video and I will be showing you a clip of a girl that Girls want to be approached
Girls want to be approached
I approach at the traffic lights… I will also breakdown the strategies and talk about do girls really want to be approached. By the end of this video, you will have a clear strategy to get your dating game in to the next level and clearly visualise how you can take action. In this video you will also learn
- Pre-approach and reading her signs.
- Fear of approach.
- First impression.
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Guys it is every girls dream to be swept off her feet by her prince charming just like you see in the movies and they will spend hours in front of the mirror preparing for this very moment. So to question whether or not girls would like to be approached is not the most intelligent question that one could ask. Many guys are afraid to approach as they believe that they will be nothing more than an imposter ruining the day of the beautiful girl that walks by. This notion is absolutely ridiculous and it is profoundly untrue it is nothing more than a distorted thinking pattern that is misguiding you. Guys women do not want to be approached equals of course they do… that’s why they are out in the clubs and bars, flirting. In today’s video I will show you how I approach a beautiful blonde girl who is waiting at the traffic lights on a particularly cold and quiet night.
Signs (Pre approach)
Do not be overly obsessed with her body language before you approach especially when you are learning this skill for the first time. Even if she appears to be in a low mood approach her anyway. Do not engage with emotional reasoning remember just because she appears to be depressed does not mean you have to be depressed as well. You should always believe that she wants you to approach it is important to think positively. Know your value before approaching and the potential you have to be the highlight in that person’s day. If you get a negative response do not take this personally and view it as another step towards desensitizing yourself to the fear of approaching women. In this interaction, the girl appeared to be in a low mood she had been working all day and was rushing to the home before her early morning start. In spite of her apparent low mood I still approached her full of enthusiasm and excitement believing everything and anything was possible.
Is she open or close?
During the interaction, it is important to be aware of her body language as you do not want to come across as that guy who lacks social intelligence. Sometimes the girl is just not feeling it and it is crucial that you know when to eject. Remember you cannot control what another human being is going to do you can always approach another girl. You may not be her type move along quickly if you are not getting those indicators of interest. Is she open or closed? Does she display her inside wrists? Is she flicking her hair?, Does she maintain eye contact? Are her legs crossed?. Is she invested in the conversation? Is she touching you? Is she asking you questions? Guys these are all subtle indicators of interest that the female species expect us to pick up on. In the absence of knowledge, it is difficult to spot these social cues so do not judge yourself harshly if you have made mistakes along the way in your interactions with women. You only know what you know never give up on your journey as each and every interaction is an opportunity to get better. As you can see in this interaction she is maintaining good eye contact and her body language is open which is why I stayed around.
First impression
Do not underestimate the importance of creating a good first impression it may seem unfair but the first impression is created in a matter of seconds and can be very difficult to reverse once created. It is important to work on your smile as this can be an incredible tool in helping to disarm those beautiful women. Regular trips to the dentist and getting those teeth polished will be time very well spent. As can be seen in this footage I approach the girl with a warm smile and as a result I got a very positive response Display confident body language and maintain your composure at all times it is vitally important not to telegraph an anxiety to the girl. If you feel strongly about something do not be afraid to express this no matter how strange you may think this to be. You may be excited about a recent Instagram post where you saw the world’s fastest ant that can cover 85 centimetres per second for example. It is important that you speak with passion when you approach that beautiful girl never seek her approval. By discussing your passions freely it demonstrates to the girl that you are your own man and you are not concerned with what she thinks about you. This is a very attractive quality and it is something we should all have as men but this kind of confidence is not something we will likely be born with it is something that will need to be developed over time.
Approach at safe places
This is crucially important when learning the skill of approaching women you do not want her to feel threatened. Make sure it is a public area where there are people around as she is likely to feel much more relaxed and it will not be as difficult to create that feeling of safety with her. The biggest difficulty with girls is getting her to trust you. The more you create that feeling of safety the better your chances of getting those instant dates will be. In this interaction, I approach at a busy tube where there is a constant flow of people.
Nothing to lose by approaching
If you don’t approach you will never know what her situation is… don’t ever make any assumptions particularly those ones that are negative. It is so easy to fall into this trap you may imagine that she is in a rush to work, she is waiting for her boyfriend, she will think I am not good looking enough, loud enough, too nervous etc. Guys the list is endless when it comes to pre-approach assumptions do not buy into them. Don’t give them that power over you! You have one life to live and being afraid to express your interest to a beautiful girl is no life to live. We are socially programmed to believe that approaching girls and having fun with them is a gift that you are naturally born with. Some people are extroverted while others are introverted and that is just the way the cookie crumbles. It is like thinking that those who are introverted were meant to work in a lab while those social lights were meant for a life in the dramatic arts. This type of thinking is profoundly untrue you can become anyone you want to be it depends on the price you are willing to pay to get there. Guys I can assure you that interacting with and pulling those hot girls is a skill that can actually be learned. Do not believe the social programming myths that suggest that this is a life that only the precious few among us will ever experience.
Fear of Approach
You cannot wrestle with a fear if you do not know what it is, a big part of our confidence booster training focuses on finding ways to help you identify what your biggest fears actually are. You create your own fears! Most guys afraid to approach women will most likely think that women don’t want to be approached, so they create their own fears. Simply they make up the fear and set an anxiety and believe that women will see them as creeps or a nuisance if they approach them. Women are not as fragile as you may think they will not explode if you go up to them and say Hi my name is Jake for example. It is amazing to see when men try this for the first time you would think they are walking in a field full of landmines. Guys you need to relax this is a very safe and fun activity to engage in. The fears you have of approaching are figments of your own imagination and will most likely have nothing to do with the girl.
Listen guys as can be seen from the footage there is a strategy behind interaction and you can do it too. If you want to learn the secrets of the attraction and talking to women you like please click the link below and view our residential training as my team and I covering every single strategies to get you a to b and turn you into a master dater. Also go to kamalifestyles.com and check out all our services and ebooks that have been written and developed by Kamalifestyles team members. Each product will help you to overcome your sticking point and help you to become better in dating. I hope you enjoyed the content and of course guys if you enjoy my video please like, share, comment and subscribe.
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