Hi Gents it’s Iain Myles here and I AM BACK for yet another video for you today. And so today I’m going to be talking to you about whether girls actually like anxious guys – this is basically covered in my new book too. Guys in case you missed it, I’ve released a brand new eBook and it’s all about Social Anxiety, and in this very book I talk about how to manage and cure approach anxiety when cold – approaching beautiful women.
So do go ahead and grab yourself a copy of my new eBook right now by clicking on the link in the video description below or by clicking on the card above. So anyway let’s get talking about approach anxiety.
Now, we all know that being anxious is typical in many social situations. People who are not worried at all when trying to make a connection with or a lasting first impression on a potential partner are more likely not genuine. I mean, we all hold first impressions in high regard and therefore it is reasonable to care about the kind of impact you are making.
Girls like Anxious
Also, when you are trying to break the ice so that you can get your potential date to the same level you are is nerve-wracking. I mean, at some point you will be wondering whether the feeling of attraction is mutual or not.
However, for some reason, not everyone can keep this anxiety in check due to some biological and or psychological factors. When this happens, it becomes an issue of social anxiety which manifests as just that, or that can take other forms such as dating aggression. Social anxiety, therefore, inhibits one from enjoying the kind of love they deserve.
Now, as a man who has struggled with social anxiety, I am almost sure that you have asked yourself on several occasions whether girls like men like you. Well in as much as it might be out of your control. The truth is is that very few women will have the tolerance of being in a relationship with an anxious man.
As a man who struggled with anxiety, you know that the experiences that ought to bring you excitement and fun often end up causing you so much pressure and stress. By stress, I mean the toxic kind: not the butterflies and curiosity kind of meeting a new potential partner.
Instead, it is the consuming type of pressure. The type that makes you lose focus of other important things like work, due to the worry of what they will say when she will text back, what she will be texting about, what you would then text back and so on — in other words, thinking too far ahead even before the next immediate step happens.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV.
He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets.
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Iain Myles
Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.
Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.