Jim had trouble meeting women. He’s not wealthy and he’s average-looking on a good day. He felt that beautiful women were all out of his league and stopped trying to approach them. He knew that this wasn’t the answer to his problem, but his constant failures made him feel even worse about himself. To overcome his problem, we have built out some confidence tips for meeting hot women.
He decided to get professional help and contacted Kamalifestyles for some confidence tips.
Aside from giving him confidence tips, Jim’s Kama Lifestyles course helped him to understand where his low self-esteem came from. He felt uncomfortable in his own skin and tended to beat himself up about mistakes he made.
He had to learn to accept responsibility for his own actions and understand that he’s accountable for his own mistakes, but that it was possible to improve himself by recognising where he was going wrong.
Once he had done this, his coach helped him to identify his unique characteristics without feeling ashamed about these qualities or where he’s been or what he’s done. Jim learned to take pride in who he is and to change those things he’s not proud of.
Working with his coach, Jim started working the confidence tips his Kama Lifestyles coach gave him into his life:
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- Women love confident men. Men who believe in themselves and their own abilities are irresistible to women. Confidence is conveyed through tone of voice and body language and both can be controlled to leave you looking more confident.
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- Conquer your fears. Meeting a scary situation head on over and over again will make you used to the situation and you’ll become more relaxed over time. Fear of rejection will lessen if you’ve been rejected a few times. Approach as many women as you can and get as much experience as possible. Each new encounter will leave you stronger than before.
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- Keep working at it. Confidence tips includes constant practice and self-improvement. This will keep you moving forwards, allowing you to build more confidence as you learn what to expect from different situations.
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- Don’t get stuck on her looks. Beautiful women make men nervous, often stopping them from getting to know the real person (who could be boring with no sense of humour). Don’t put her on a pedestal as a result of her looks. Rather treat her as a friend and let her work to show you what she has to offer.
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- Date a lot and date a lot of different women.
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- Not getting too attached to one woman makes you more attractive to others. Confidence tips only work when you work at building your confidence. Knowing that you have other options than the woman you’re with makes you more relaxed and you’ll feel more secure.
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- Be a leader in your own life. Take charge of your life and your job and learn to like both. If you don’t have respect for yourself, there’s no chance that women will respect you. Your body language will clearly show your negative attitude. When you’re with a woman, don’t be afraid to take charge – decide on where to go for your dates, and when to initiate touch and kissing. Women are attracted to strength and they want to know that they’re with a strong, confident man.
Confidence tips
Following Jim’s Kama Lifestyles training and the implementation of these confidence tips, he grew more and more successful with women.
His new self-confidence has given him an advantage at work – even his boss has commented on it. He’s going on dates at least three times a week, meeting new people and learning about himself and ways to improve himself.
The confidence tips gave him insight into changing the things in his life that bother him.
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Emre Ilkme
Emre is author, dating coach and CEO founder of Kamalifestyles. He has written books which sold thousands of copies over a decade. Emre trained and coached many clients from all over the world and men of all ages on how to improve their confidence, relationships and dating.
He has expertise in confidence, approach and attraction and has been featured in top newspapers and radios. He is passionate on helping his clients to achieve great outcomes and make sure they are not held back by the limitations.
