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Becoming a better person 4 easy steps

Becoming a better person 4 easy steps

For guys to have success with dating and relationships some difficult questions need to be asked to accelerate the process of becoming a confident alpha male who is attractive to girls.

1. Who are your friends?

Who do you really want to be. I can quickly find out what sort of person someone is by meeting their 3 – 4 closest friends. It’s important to realise you become similar to your friends. This is something people take years to realise.

I recommend you make a list of the friends you have and see what type of people they are and what sort of personalities they have. Seeing these people regularly will unknowing reflect strongly on the type of person you are now.

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This is not a simple concept for many people the thought of not being friends with a person after years. This really is not an optional thing. Think of it if your friends with people who like to sit in on the weekend and play video games this will completely destroy your desire to be social able.

2. Dress the right way

Do you feel comfortable wearing a hoody something that you can lounge about in. Nows the time to stop. If you want to attract a girl into your life dressing casually and poorly is one of the biggest issue we have with clients.

I mean its not a money issue jeans, tshirt and hoody cost almost the same as a 3 piece suit. This is the point you need to make an impact take action throw out all casual cloths what about always wearing a blazer.

Start looking in GQ or whatever trendy magazine you can find look for simple affordable styles. It doesn’t have to be designer brands. Most importantly make sure the cloths fit.

3. Buy a good book

Discover the world of self-help it many see it as a little corny but some of the stuff is great. If done correctly it can be life changing. For all you lazy people out there I even recommend some hypnosis while you sleep. Tried and tested by me. There really is something for everyone. Maybe even and NLP course.

4. Break your TV

I often hear the great excuse I just don’t have enough time to go out and talk to girls. Often you will find the very same person has a TV.

And if you’re like the average Brition the your probably spends 3hrs 52mins watch TV.( I mean this is just crazy. The TV used to remove you temporarily from life’s problems.

Throw it out or break it life is far too short. I have thankfully thrown mine out many years ago. What exactly can you do with 3 hours extra in your day talk to a friend or maybe go talk to some attractive girls?

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Iain Myles

Iain Myles is an internationally recognised dating coach and co-owner of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Kamalifestyles. Iain is also an internet sensation thanks to the multiple viral videos posted through the YouTube channel KamaTV, which has grossed over 100 million views.

Iain has appeared in numerous newspaper columns and radio shows across the world. He is a regular contributor to BBC Radio in the UK.