Hi Guys, Joy Ali here from kamalifestyles.com and today I am going to be giving you my short guy dating tips, part 2.
In part 1 of my video series, that you can find in our Dating Advice and Dating Tips section on our channel, I covered 4 key areas that were; 1. Attraction; 2. Be Fun and Charismatic, 3. Confidence and 4. Empathy / Eye Contact.
In this video, I am going to go deeper in what I consider is one of the most important tips that anyone could give you to be good with women and that is CONFIDENCE! If you ask any girl, the number one thing they say they want in a man is confidence. So I am going to tell you guys how you can cultivate this skill.
What is confidence? I touched on this on my previous video and essentially there are two types of confidence, ‘Situational confidence’ and ‘Core confidence’.
Now for many people, their level of confidence shifts depending on what is going on around them. In certain situations, they can feel confident and others they cannot. Examples include when you are with your family or friends, the people you feel most comfortable with, you feel really confident. This is what we call situational confidence. It’s the confidence that arises when you’re in an environment where you feel like you can be yourself and you know that people will respond to you better in that environment.
Core confidence on the other hand, is where you are confident in ALL situations. It’s the type of confidence that comes from within and is not reliant on outside sources or certain situations or the environment you’re surrounded in. It comes from your sense of identity, your sense of who you are, your values, your integrity, that’s where it comes from. This is the type of confidence that you need to develop to become amazingly good with women.
Joy Ali is a dating coach of Kamalifestyles and specialises in the art of ‘day game’, where he teaches the core principles in meeting women during the day.
Joy Ali is 5 ft 4 and grew up in a small quiet town in Somerset. He came across many challenges in his dating life where he constantly blamed his height for his lack of success with women. He was determined to prove people wrong, so he embarked on an incredible journey, going out sometimes nearly 7 days a week, approaching women in bars, clubs and shopping centers, all to develop his social skills to a point where he has dated some of the most beautiful women around, many of whom were much taller than him.
In his spare time, he likes to read books on self-development and is a keen gym enthusiast.
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