There is nothing more exciting than knowing that you are going on a date with a girl that you just recently met that you really like. I have talked about this before but it is important to be aware of what you are doing and not doing on the date as this will determine whether you will see her again for the second date. Below are some important points to remember.
This is important as it is one of the biggest mistakes that guys make which is that they end up letting the girl lead or take control of the date. Always plan your date in terms of where you are going to take the girl or what fun stuff that you want to do with her. If you do not you may give the impression that you don’t really know what you are doing which is the last thing you want to do. Remember women want you to take the lead as it shows how confident that you are in yourself.
Where and when
The best time and place to take a girl for a first date is after 9pm in the evening during the week to a bar. The reason that you should meet her at night is that most likely she meets most of her male and female friends during the day for lunch and for coffee. This is why I recommend that you meet her at night as you are distinguishing yourself from everyone else in her life as a potential partner and not just one of her friends. Meeting her during the week in a bar as opposed to night gives you and her a chance to get to know each other better over a couple of drinks as most bars will be very busy at the weekend and it will become harder for you to properly get to know her and make a connection.
This is a topic that I have touched upon recently and this is just as important as when you are taking her on a date. Remember to listen to her because everything that she talking about is a valuable opportunity to develop a deep connection with her. For example if she tells you about one of her passions like that she loves to paint you could say to her that you admire someone that really gets in touch with what they love in life. This shows that you genuinely want to know who she is as a person and it will give you a chance to also share what your passions in life are. Remember she agreed to go on a date because she liked you and she wants to get to know you better. Most guys make the mistake of being fake and agreeing with everything that she says. Don’t be one of these guys and don’t be afraid to speak your mind and be yourself with her.
Gauging her interest
It is essential that you know how to kiss a girl because it is important that you kiss the girl on the first date as it will greatly increase your chances of seeing her again for a second date. The biggest mistake that most guys make is that they leave it too late and try to kiss her at the end of the date and she awkwardly flinches or he does not try at all and ends up being designated to her friend’s zone. The reason this happened is this that the guy did not touch her enough. And I don’t mean in a sleazy way. All people like to be touched by their friends in life as it is essential in establishing bonds with each other. Touching of the skin releases a hormone called oxytocin which essentially makes you feel good. Touching her is a great way of gauging how receptive she is to kissing you. So always be touching her while you are talking with her, for example playing with her fingers when you are telling her a story or touching her hair when you are complimenting her hairstyle. The more you do this the more used she will get to you touching her and she will be far more receptive to your kiss. Remember to be subtle in your approach to touching as looking too obvious will make her feel awkward and it may ruin the interaction as a result.