Hi Guys this is Annabel joined by the one and only Iain, and Today we’re going to talk about how to succeed with women. When it comes to attraction most guys have the wrong angle when it comes to knowing what attracts women. What attracts us guys is primarily looks, so before a guy even speaks to a girl he has already decided if he is attracted to her. The biggest mistake most guys make is that they assume that looks are as important to women as they are to men. And as a matter of fact looks are only a small percent of what women look for in a man. When it comes to attraction it’s the small things that matter. And below I have listed three important factors to remember. Confidence When guys hear the word confidence they usually don’t know how to apply it. Confidence is not about appearing macho or manly. It’s about being comfortable in who you are when you’re with a girl, whether you’re meeting her for the first time or dating her. When guys think of confidence they usually think of someone like a movie star or singer, where the reality is, everyone is confident at some stage. When we are around family and friends we are confident in being who we are because we know we are liked by our close friends but when a guy approaches a girl he does the opposite. He usually acts like someone he is not to impress her, because he’s afraid she won’t like him for the person he really is. A girl will far more likely be attracted to a guy who is confident and comfortable in being himself and showing his humour and personality rather than hiding it from her. Emotional Impact As we mentioned before when it comes to attraction; girls are attracted to more than just looks. A big factor that affects how a girl feels about a guy is how the guy makes her feel. She will probably decide this within the first few seconds so it’s important that you make a good first impression when you approach. Women are very intuitive and will pick up how a guy is feeling when they first meet so obviously, negative emotions are a big turn off which is when rejection can happen. Guys are usually nervous and on edge when they approach and so making that first impression is a major factor that decides how well a guy will succeed with a girl. For example, I have a friend whose girlfriend still talks to her friends about how he first approached her in a shopping centre. In a nutshell women want to feel positive emotions like excitement, attraction, fun and feeling safe. Not negative feelings like boredom or danger. Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating. Leave a Comment letting us know what you think. If you enjoyed make sure you like, share and subscribe!
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