Hi Guys it’s Annabel and Iain here and today we’re going to talk about how to improve yourself.
It is important that when you are improving yourself in dating, that you strive to always have a healthy mentality and outlook towards it. Always keep track of what you are doing and obviously make sure you feel good doing it. Most guys start out with improving their dating lives with a poor mind-set and no women in their lives. It is good if you are in this position in that you are looking to improve yourself, but make sure that you are doing it for the right reasons, which should be for your own personal growth. The biggest mistake that you can make is judging and defining yourself by your results. For example if you get rejected, the worst mistake that you can make is to come to the conclusion that you are a failure in dating.
You are concentrating on the wrong result
The skill of dating and generating attraction can be learned and obviously the more you practice the better that you will get. So every time you’re practicing an element of your game like your approaching, you should always be looking at how to improve your approach and whatever happens after that is a bonus. By doing this you will actually feel less approach anxiety because you will no longer be outcome dependant. When you start out learning something new, you should always look at the long term plan and benefits. For example if you get good at approaching and generating attraction, your social skills will drastically increase and it will improve almost all elements of your life, not just your dating life.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
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