Now, approaching women during the day is something that people find difficult to get their heads around. Most people have the stigma that you can only meet women in bars and clubs, through their friends, or through dating agencies. Whilst the reality IS is that you CAN meet women almost anywhere! Many guys come to me because they want to know how to get a girlfriend, and the answer that I give them is to meet them during the day. Once you get your head around the possibilities of meeting women during the day, I’ll explain to you, below, how to be most effective when approaching during the day. Approaching Just like bars and clubs, the one thing that you should always do is to approach as much as possible. Approach a girl within seconds of seeing her. As I said before, don’t concern yourself about what to say, just let your feet do the talking. The most important element to remember is to make a habit of doing it all the time. It’s been proven that it takes just over 40 days to create a habit, so my advice is is to set one goal, to approach a certain amount of women during the day. I always advise my students, at KamaLifestyles, to make a single goal to approach 5 women every day. If you do this, for over 40 days, you will not recognize yourself in the mirror. Being Outcome Dependant What is approach anxiety and where does it come from? Quite simply, it happens when you see an attractive woman, and you think about approaching her, but you worry about all the worst case scenarios that could happen. This won’t happen if you instantly approach her, as you won’t give yourself time to have an internal dialogue with yourself. Another way of overcoming approach anxiety is to change your mind set. Instead of concerning yourself about how she’ll react to your approach, think about how the approach will benefit YOU. If she’s receptive, then great; you can work on your conversation skills and on your closing skills, but if she’s not receptive, you have to learn to deal with rejection! The reality is is that you’re approaching a complete stranger, and you can’t control how they’ll react. If she’s not receptive, it’s not a case of her rejecting you, it’s more about her as a person not being comfortable enough, in herself, accepting a compliment from a stranger. Don’t concern yourself with what she’s thinking, or what she MAY think, just concentrate on being your best self. Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating. Leave a Comment letting us know what you think. If you enjoyed make sure you like, share and subscribe!
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