Women don’t spend hours working on their looks, just to go out chatting with their friends. Most women want guys to approach them, in the correct way. If they are single then they are probably looking for a partner but even if they are in a relationship, then they still regard it as a compliment if a guy approaches.

Understanding the situation from a woman’s perspective will also help you deal with your negative beliefs. In the past, the role of women in society was radically different than that of the present day.

Women had to choose a man of high social value for survival reasons and to protect their family. However, advances in technology have changed women’s roles.

Economical changes, equal rights for women and the innovation of condoms and the birth control pill have had a vast effect on society and beliefs. In the present era, women no longer need men for protection and survival. Women now may make choices based on their own sexual desires.

However, some of this guilt still remains if a woman appears to be too forward.If a woman has casual sex with a man, she can be termed a slut by her friendsand family and this association can easily damage a person’s confidence. Shewill also be termed a slut if she approaches a lot of guys and so most women leave it to the men to approach.

While it may appear that women have many choices amongst men, they can really only choose the ones that approach them. By understanding this social dynamic, you will realize that women actually really want you to approach them. Thus, it is up to you to learn to approach women in the correct way.

You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by approaching

If you approach and lose the girl, what has happened? Think of the worst
things that could possibly happen?

• My mind will go blank and I won’t be able to think of anything to say.
• She will think I am weird
• I will look stupid

Now, let’s examine what you have to gain…

Why are you reading this article in the first place? To meet the woman of your
dreams. There are literally millions of women out there that are your perfect match and are waiting to meet you.

Every time you approach a woman, you are grasping that opportunity and by taking it, you are becoming a better, happier person. The world of dating is very similar to taking part in a lottery.

The only difference is that it is free to compete, you have a much greater chance of winning and if you work on your approach then your chances of willing will dramatically increase. If you do win the Jackpot and meet the woman of your dreams, then you will probably be far happier than you would be if you won the money.

At the very least, if she rejects you, then you can analyze your approach and see where you can improve. If it goes well, then you have another positive experience to strengthen your new beliefs. Every time you approach and try new ideas and techniques you are improving and adding to your skill set.

It has been said that the most successful people are also the people who have suffered the most rejections. If you approach and put work into this area of
your life, you will see constant, powerful improvements. You will start to notice you old beliefs begin to crumble away and by replaced by new, empowering beliefs that will grow more powerful with each successful approach.

After every conversation you should analyze the interaction. Identify the areas that you succeeded in and identify any new ideals that you added into the interaction. Also analyze your weak point and see the areas where you can improve. If you do this regularly, you will very quickly build up your social skill set.

So approach and practice these new powerful beliefs and very soon you will start to see a powerful change in attitudes and begin to recognise other opportunities, where your old negative way of thinking has kept you back in the past.

To learn what to do after the approach check out our ebook “The Score” – How to Create a Successful Relationship.