Indeed many women may initially decide to pursue a relationship with a guy, but when they find out he’s a bad or a mediocre kisser, they change their minds entirely.

Most people, men and women, will judge the first kiss as a precursor to whether or not the rest of the physical relationship will work. If the person kisses badly, then they are probably not amazing at the other areas. So it is vital to get the first kiss perfect.

Where to Kiss - A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. You should never kiss her in front of her friends as this will create unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. It will draw immediate attention and make her feel uncomfortable. Instead, you should kiss her when you have isolated her and the two of you are alone. This may be in the smoking area, outside the bar or in your car. Kissing stimulates women faster than any other physical activity. It is important to consider the strong sexual reactions that typically accompany a kiss.

If you have already established an intense physical chemistry between you and your partner, it is likely that the kiss will become very passionate and this can only happen when the two of you are alone. However, in a bar kissing is the absolute maximum level to cross. Do not escalate the physicality of the situation any further as you will portray yourself as a sleazy guy and a player. Respect yourself and her and be mindful of your surroundings.

When to Kiss - You only kiss her when you are absolutely sure that she will kiss you. This could be in the first ten minutes or you may have to wait far longer. How can you possibly know when is the perfect time? Is there a way to know every time if she will kiss you or not? The answer is yes – If you can read body language and use attraction tests. So many guys do not pick up on her body language cues and just lean in blindly when the girl is not ready and so get rejected.

Look for inviting body language and improve your expertise by studying the section in this book, on the signs of attraction. You can also give her attraction tests to see if she is ready to kiss you yet. For example, if you ask to sip her drink and she refuses, you can be sure that if you had leaned in to kiss her, she would have turned away. One of the best attraction tests to give before going for the kiss is to kiss your index finger and put it against her lips and tell her to kiss it. If she does, then she is probably waiting for you to kiss her. Once you get good as accessing body language and understanding how to give attraction tests, you will know when to kiss her every time

How to go for the Kiss - Before you go to kiss her, you must let her know that you are going in for the kiss at least a few seconds in advance. If you do not do this, then there is a chance that she will turn away when you try to kiss her. This does not mean that she doesn’t want to kiss you. It is merely a reflex action that most of us do naturally when people get too close too quickly. There are many ways that you can let her know that you are going to kiss her.You can do this verbally by asking her the following

“Are you a good kisser? How would you rate yourself out of 10 in terms of kissing…?”

If she says yes, then you can simply lean in and kiss her. Perhaps the best way is to simply let the conversation trail off and look her in the eye. Slowly move your gaze down to her lips and then back up to her eyes. If she blushes, then you know she is ready to be kissed. Either way, you have given her a very clear signal that you are going to kiss her.

How to Kiss – When you kiss her, you want the kiss to take on a life of its own. Everybody remembers a kiss that left them breathless and sent chills sent through their body. A kiss can seal a deal or destroy it. It’s amazing how one action can say so much. Just as your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people choose to leave their

eyes open during the kiss. However, until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. You can start off with soft kisses on the lips to make her feel comfortable.

Perhaps suck on her lips a little. Do not do open mouth kissing until the kiss has lasted for at least a few seconds. Then open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips and see how they respond. As the two of you move closer together, tilt your head slightly to avoid hitting noses. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilted, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Barely touch her lipswhen kissing. Your hands are also important and you can use your fingers to touch her lips and face. Maintaining steady eye contact before and after the kiss is very important.

Always Pull Away First – Have you ever had that kiss that left you wanting more? If so, then the other person pulled away first. Keep it simple. There’s no need for a marathon kissing session. One of the easiest ways to kill the sexual tension between you is to kiss for too long.The worst thing that can happen is for her mind to start drifting away to other topics while you are kissing her. When you kiss her for the first time, you will be the one

that initiates the kiss and also the one that will end it. Kiss her for around ten to fifteen seconds and then pull away. If you kiss for any longer, the tension may begin to dissipate. Anyway, you are in a club and you can’t get carried away with kissing so keep it short. This will hugely increase the sexual tension and make her chase you and she may even initiate a second kiss.

Kissing is very important for a number of different reasons. It allows you to clearly gauge where you stand with the girl. The girl expects you to kiss her. That’s right. Every girl likes a guy to be masculine, aggressive and to show

initiative by going in for the kiss. By not attempting to kiss her, you most likely are giving her the wrong signals and she may even feel that you are not really that interested in her. Your breath is also very important so make sure it smells great. There is nothing worse than kissing somebody with bad breath.

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips before you kiss as slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. Lastly, while you are kissing her, avoid going sexual. Enjoy the kiss but hold off on groping, especially if you are still in the location where you met each other. Kissing causes our brain to produce oxytocin, a chemistry building hormone, which prompts you to want to kiss even more. So reserve your passion for a private location.

Kissing the woman is easily one of the most important parts of an interaction. However, it is also the rock on which most interactions perish. Before you kiss the girl, analyze the social circumstances.

You should not kiss the girl where all her friends and social circle are around as everybody would draw immediate attention and might make her feel uncomfortable. There is no certain time for kissing but it is recommended that you kiss her while she is comfortable with you. Usually, the comfort phase is the best time to proceed.

Passionate kisses are love magnets that leaves a lasting, eroticized impression on a women’s mind. To master the art of kissing a women, it is vital that you learn how to kiss passionately without making her think it’s just your cue to get her into bed.

The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to maneuver your tongue inside a woman’s mouth without hitting her tonsils. Rather, it involves the entire mouth — the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body.

Do you want to kiss me? (Ask this if she says yes enjoy your kiss, if she says no, do not be pushy built up more comfort than try again later).

While you are kissing her, try to avoid going too sexual if you are in pub or club. Soft kisses are recommended. If you are in seduction phase and alone with the girl why not! Enjoy but be responsive to her behaviors and never forget that “no means no”. Some ways to improve your kissing technique are shown below.

* Barely touch her lips when kissing.

* Use your fingers to touch her lips and face.

* Kiss her neck and slowly move to the lips

* Bite her lips gently without giving her pain.

* Play with her ear lobes and pull her hair gently and get closer to her lips without kissing her.

* Get creative and lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish method. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your outer mouths.

* Begin sucking on her lips, one at a time. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don’t get too rough or you’ll end up giving her a hickey and I have yet to meet a woman who would appreciate that.

Make some noise! Say something romantic while you’re kissing, whisper or express your pleasure without words by smiling and sighing heavily.

Place your hands on either side of a woman’s face so that you do not cover her ears and your fingertips reach the back of her neck. Then, slowly pull her toward your lips while softly holding the sides of her head. Gaze into her eyes before planting one on her. Sigh “mmmm” during your kiss while holding her head.

When you kiss a woman and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it usually means that she really enjoyed it and there’s a good chance that you can seduce her further if you like.

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