Many women will not even give their number out in front of their friends, not to mention kiss you. They may be attracted to you and really like you but the social pressure of being called a slut will often hold her back and cause her to reject you. In fact, women want to avoid this label at all costs. This is simple basic human psychology. If she rejects you, it does not mean the issue is with you. Most of the time the problem lies with her friends. Move her away from her friends and the problem disappears. Don’t be one of the guys who make this crucial mistake.

Women are attracted to men, who know what they want in life and go for it.They want men who will take the lead in the relationship, not boys that look to others to take control of the steering wheel for them. They want to be able to

relax and allow you to take them on the journey that is your life. If a man does not lead, the woman in the relationship is turned off and it kills the attraction in the relationships and dating each time.

Thus, you should lead the relationship right from the start. To do this, you must first understand some principles. You have now created a connection, but in order to deepen the connection, you must spend some time alone with her.

She wants you to demonstrate your alpha qualities by leading the interaction and you should realize that she cannot deepen the connection between you while her friends are around for the following reasons…

• Her friends may judge her if she starts talking about certain topics
• She may feel under pressure to act in a certain way in front of her friends
• If she kisses you, her friends may perceive her as a slut
• She will be constantly distracted by her friends

These are just three of the many reasons why, once you have built a connection with her, isolation is essential. She will be able to give you her full attention, without feeling any pressure of being judged by her social circle. There will be nobody to butt into your conversation or drag her off dancing etc. The main purpose of isolation is to make sure you have some private time together to build up emotional connection. Many men get so excited when they find a woman who is interested in them that they forget that to rapidly increase the intimacy of the situation, they must isolate the person they are interested in.

is such an important part of leading early on and if you don’t go for the isolation, your chances of deepening your relationship with her will decrease dramatically. Many women are so used to being the one to make the decisions

and call the shots that it has become second nature to her. She leads without thinking. When you isolate her, you show that you are the one in control of the interaction.

One of the principle reasons that most guys will not attempt to isolate the girl is that they fear that she will say no and so they will lose her. They fear that by taking the lead, they will lose the girl. Many men are not used to beautiful women finding them attractive and actually willing to spend time with them and so they develop a huge fear of losing the woman.

They believe they are out of their league and aim to do everything right to avoid screwing up this opportunity. They do not isolate her and instead attempt to take the safe path. Ironically, this attitude will cause the women to lose all attraction for them. The woman wants you to isolate her.

By isolating her, you have created huge sexual tension because you are leading. She wants you to take the lead in the interaction and to deepen the connection between you. She cannot suggest a move from the area she is in because her friends are there and it would also seem way too forward.

It’s your job to suggest the move and you must become comfortable doing this. On the other hand, by attempting to get others to follow, you are basically asking them if it’s ok with them if you took control of the situation. In essence, you are looking to them to let you lead. This puts them in the lead as they can simply stop you what you want at any time, by the simple fact of not following you.

When you isolate a person, you lead without needing them to follow. Whether they come or not, you are going anyway.

Try it and experiment with it. If they don’t follow you become comfortable with the uneasiness that comes when you leave on your own. As humans we fear losing approval of others, but once you become comfortable with that, they person will realise that you are leaving and they will come with you. If you lead and isolate in this way, the person will follow you.

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