By doing this you are giving her an attraction test and if she complies with you, then you know that a certain level of trust exists between you. To switch bars, you can simply say one of the following:

“Hey guys, there is a really cool live band playing in a bar up the street…We are going now but you guys should come too – you will love it”

or

“We are going to another bar to meet some friends – you should come with us”

If you suggest going to her place, your place, or a hotel room you’re more than likely going to get a negative response unless you can tell she wants to cuddle up to you. On the other hand a live music bar or a late night pizza place will  work far better in your favour. Bringing a girl or a group to multiple locations is a way of building comfort with her.

With each venue change, her trust in you will grow and you will connect much easier together. This is assuming, of course, that there was a smooth transition and that interesting conversation and activities take place at each location. By changing venues, you are also taking the lead in the interaction and she is choosing to follow you.

This is especially important and it will really raise your value. You are also creating a time distortion and because of the change in venues, they will feel like they have known you for much longer than just a few hours. When you leave the club with a girl or a group, you need to establish that you are leading immediately.

This is very important as if you do not, guys may come up and flirt with them on the street or they may get distracted by other people or different clubs etc. Thus, when you leave the club, go to the person you are interested in and say the following:

“Show me your hand… (Link arms with her)

…Now if any women come up to hit on me, you have to save me – promise!”

If you have changed locations to several different bars and you are getting on really well, the next step is to bring drive around with them in your car. You can do this easily by suggesting to go to another bar, a little farther away but you will drive over.

If they are not comfortable with getting into your car, then you can either build more comfort and try again or simply organise a date and say your goodbyes. However, if you phrase it in the right way, they will usually realize that it is no big deal and they will gladly get in.

If you are with your wingman and two girls, put him in the back with his girl and now the person you are interested in is beside you. Make sure you have some good music to keep up the mood and the energy. Go to a few different bars and if they are comfortable with it, you can bring them back to your house for a few drinks. If they do not want to go, then give them a lift home as this will build more comfort and trust and show you to be a cool guy.

If she comes back to your place, then you know that she really trusts you and is attracted to you. In the house, make sure to sit next to her. Make your house exciting and have it unique to you so you can show it off to her. Have some pictures in the laptop, paintings on the wall, interesting music you want her to listen, ornaments that you bought on holidays and even your pet you want to show her.

A boring house shows you to be a boring guy. She is in your house so make sure she is comfortable and make her feel welcome and at home. Ask her what she wants to drink and give her options.

Do not offer alcohol as she might think that you are trying to make her drunk. So start with “I have coffee, tea and wine” and pick one of them based on your desire for yourself and let her choose what she wants.

It is highly recommended that you also have plenty CD’s ready to listen from various singers while she is with you in the home as silence might make her feel tense and ruin the mood. Once you know that she is comfortable, you can begin to kiss her.