Changing your beliefs is the key to possessing the skills to form relationships with any woman. When you get rejected you have to understand that she is not rejecting you based on your personality, as she does not know your personality and quality. You should recognize what is actually happening here.

The first thing we have to realize is that when a person says no to us they are not saying no to us as people, they are simply saying no to our approach or to the way we present ourselves. Thus, the rejection is not personal.

Once we understand that and we understand that people can say no to us automatically and they say no to us for many different reasons then we cannot understand.

The biggest mistake that we can make is that if we hear too many no’s what happens?? We start thinking that it is us that are being told no to and since it is so depressing to be rejected continually then we stop approaching and build up reasons and excuses in our minds about why we can’t approach.

There are many people who have successfully dealt with their fear of rejection. Many of these people are in or have been in a successful relationship. Here’s the rule:

“If you think like these people think, you will eventually do the things that they do, and will get the same results that they get”.

And if you don’t, you won’t. Some people are satisfied with settling in their relationship. This is consistent with the way they think, most of the time. Other people would be dissatisfied unless they are in a relationship with their ideal girl, in looks and personality.

It is interesting to note that there is very little difference between the people who settle in an average relationship and the people who are madly in love with their ideal woman. They each have very much the same levels of talent and ability. They are surrounded with very much the same number of opportunities and possibilities. The only difference is that the people who are in the ideal relationship have decided to put aside their fear of rejection and approach that woman.

It is true that many women have their idea of what they look for in a man in their mind and when you approach she will decide whether you are worth her time or not. Therefore, it is imperative to know how to approach in order to reduce the possibility of rejection.

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