One of the most important elements of any relationship is that each person feels special. One of the best ways you can create that feeling, just after meeting somebody new, is by giving them a nickname. You can do this after they show the first sign of interest in you.

If you compliment them in an indirect manner, they will accept it far more easily and one of the best ways to do this is by giving her a nickname. I find that the most common nicknames work best.

Examples are shown below:

• Cutie
• Angel
• Barbie
• Honey
• Princess

By this you are letting her know that you find her attractive. Everybody wants to feel good and by complimenting her in this way, you will deepen the connection between you. Many people have a problem giving compliments as they feel they are handing their power away. However, if you do it in the correct manner you will be amazed at how effective it can be. Besides, she shouldn’t have to ask you for a compliment. Instead, let her know, through the use of a nickname that you think she’s pretty, or beautiful, or gorgeous, cute or whatever adjective you feel is appropriate. Surprise her with the nickname.

If she buys into it, then you know for sure, that there is a certain level of attraction between you. Be sincere but playful and she will start answering to the name. Don’t take for granted that she should know you are attracted to her. She needs to hear it. Women love when you nickname complimentary, but there are a few catches. If you make it too obvious, or call her it too many times, she won’t believe you and wonder what you are trying. It is never a good idea to compliment a woman on any feature that is obviously her best. If so, the nickname will lose its sparkle. If she has one particular feature that stands out, she will be so used to people fixating on this one aspect that any further comment on it will place you in the same category of all those who tried and failed.

Truth be told, there is a lot more to the proper use of nicknames than we realize. They are generally used to show appreciation and love for another individual. The trick to using a nickname is understanding how to get your compliment across in an indirect manner. Only use the nickname to her. If she realises that virtually every pretty girl you she come into contact with you call “sweetie.”, then it becomes overused loses any meaning. Avoid anything that sounds sleazy, such as sexy. Instead pick a good one, use it regularly into the interaction and she will smile every time.