Cold reading can be a powerful tool when it comes to creating attraction. You can really get somebody to open up to you naturally and quickly find commonalities you share that will bond you together. Remember, people like

people who are like themselves. Once you practice this technique, you will get very good at it very quickly and you will be amazed at how quickly the conversation will develop. What you are basically doing is making a series of vague statements, and observing the person’s reactions. While you can tease the person with it playfully, it can also work quite well because you are using statements that can have multiple meanings.

Usually, when a person hears such a word or statement, their mind will fill in the meaning from their own personal experience and so it will seem to be a true statement about them. If you have ever read a newspaper horoscope and felt that it was accurate, you have experienced the power of this technique. By using cold reading, you can create a fun and fascinating conversation. You will easily find out information about the person, they will become more comfortable with you and rapport will develop faster.

Cold reading also demonstrates higher status, which is a crucial element for creating attraction. It shows you are a fun, interesting guy, who understands other people. If you use and develop this skill you will increase your chances for success. What you are basically doing is using her appearance, mannerisms and overall profile to make an educated guess about what type of person she is.

After you open conversation, you can make playful teasing comments about the person you are interested in to escalate sexual tension. Some examples are shown below:

• You strike me as the leader of your group
• It takes a lot to get you mad but when you do everybody better watch out
• You guys need to get her out more
• You strike me as a very ambitious person but at the moment you are quite lazy about your goals
• I bet when you were younger you were really shy

Once you become used to cold reading, you can make more serious statements later in the conversation. They are very general so will usually contain a degree of truth and people will really feel that you understand them and so will be more open to you. This will really spice up the conversation. You can spot something interesting about her appearance or personality then use this trait make a guess about her.

You will need to listen very closely to the conversation so when you hear a commonality, you can quickly point it out. The correct way to use this tool is to introduce the cold reading routine as a natural part of the conversation. Once you notice something, find a way to directly tie your observation to the conversation. Some more serious cold reads that you can use later in the conversation are shown below. If you memorize these you really won’t need any others.

• You like change and variety and don’t like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations.
• You are independent minded and need proof before accepting others opinions.
• You need to really trust others before revealing yourself to others.
• Sometimes you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to relax Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic.
• You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.

One of the most important things to remember with Cold Reads is when to use them in the conversation. If you use the more serious cold reads early in the conversation, it will appear that you are trying too hard and may even come across as weird. If you use one of the more serious lines in the first few minutes, she may discard it even if you are completely right.

Everybody hates being predictable and she will refuse to believe that you could know something of value about her personality, just minutes after meeting her. This is why you should use the more playful cold reads at the start. However, using the more serious ones at the right time can have a great impact.

Cold Reading Tips

1. Be general

2. Analyse the body language

3. Give a reason for your cold read – “I think you are a very generous person, I noticed that every time you talk about your friend you speak with a very “Giving” attitude”

4. Use the opening line “I don’t really know you but you strike me as someone who…”

5. Speak slowly and gauge her reaction

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