Changing your beliefs is the key to possessing the skills to form relationships with any woman. When you get rejected you have to understand that she is not rejecting you based on your personality, as she does not know your personality and quality. You should recognize what is actually happening here.

The first thing we have to realize is that when a person says no to us they are not saying no to us as people, they are simply saying no to our approach or to the way we present ourselves. Thus, the rejection is not personal.

Once we understand that and we understand that people can say no to us automatically and they say no to us for many different reasons then we cannot understand.

The biggest mistake that we can make is that if we hear too many no’s what happens?? We start thinking that it is us that are being told no to and since it is so depressing to be rejected continually then we stop approaching and build up reasons and excuses in our minds about why we can’t approach.

There are many people who have successfully dealt with their fear of rejection. Many of these people are in or have been in a successful relationship. Here’s the rule:

“If you think like these people think, you will eventually do the things that they do, and will get the same results that they get”.

And if you don’t, you won’t. Some people are satisfied with settling in their relationship. This is consistent with the way they think, most of the time. Other people would be dissatisfied unless they are in a relationship with their ideal girl, in looks and personality.

It is interesting to note that there is very little difference between the people who settle in an average relationship and the people who are madly in love with their ideal woman. They each have very much the same levels of talent and ability. They are surrounded with very much the same number of opportunities and possibilities. The only difference is that the people who are in the ideal relationship have decided to put aside their fear of rejection and approach that woman.

It is true that many women have their idea of what they look for in a man in their mind and when you approach she will decide whether you are worth her time or not. Therefore, it is imperative to know how to approach in order to reduce the possibility of rejection.

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Women don’t spend hours working on their looks, just to go out chatting with their friends. Most women want guys to approach them, in the correct way. If they are single then they are probably looking for a partner but even if they are in a relationship, then they still regard it as a compliment if a guy approaches.

Understanding the situation from a woman’s perspective will also help you deal with your negative beliefs. In the past, the role of women in society was radically different than that of the present day.

Women had to choose a man of high social value for survival reasons and to protect their family. However, advances in technology have changed women’s roles.

Economical changes, equal rights for women and the innovation of condoms and the birth control pill have had a vast effect on society and beliefs. In the present era, women no longer need men for protection and survival. Women now may make choices based on their own sexual desires.

However, some of this guilt still remains if a woman appears to be too forward.If a woman has casual sex with a man, she can be termed a slut by her friendsand family and this association can easily damage a person’s confidence. Shewill also be termed a slut if she approaches a lot of guys and so most women leave it to the men to approach.

While it may appear that women have many choices amongst men, they can really only choose the ones that approach them. By understanding this social dynamic, you will realize that women actually really want you to approach them. Thus, it is up to you to learn to approach women in the correct way.

You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by approaching

If you approach and lose the girl, what has happened? Think of the worst
things that could possibly happen?

• My mind will go blank and I won’t be able to think of anything to say.
• She will think I am weird
• I will look stupid

Now, let’s examine what you have to gain…

Why are you reading this article in the first place? To meet the woman of your
dreams. There are literally millions of women out there that are your perfect match and are waiting to meet you.

Every time you approach a woman, you are grasping that opportunity and by taking it, you are becoming a better, happier person. The world of dating is very similar to taking part in a lottery.

The only difference is that it is free to compete, you have a much greater chance of winning and if you work on your approach then your chances of willing will dramatically increase. If you do win the Jackpot and meet the woman of your dreams, then you will probably be far happier than you would be if you won the money.

At the very least, if she rejects you, then you can analyze your approach and see where you can improve. If it goes well, then you have another positive experience to strengthen your new beliefs. Every time you approach and try new ideas and techniques you are improving and adding to your skill set.

It has been said that the most successful people are also the people who have suffered the most rejections. If you approach and put work into this area of
your life, you will see constant, powerful improvements. You will start to notice you old beliefs begin to crumble away and by replaced by new, empowering beliefs that will grow more powerful with each successful approach.

After every conversation you should analyze the interaction. Identify the areas that you succeeded in and identify any new ideals that you added into the interaction. Also analyze your weak point and see the areas where you can improve. If you do this regularly, you will very quickly build up your social skill set.

So approach and practice these new powerful beliefs and very soon you will start to see a powerful change in attitudes and begin to recognise other opportunities, where your old negative way of thinking has kept you back in the past.

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