You’ve decided you want to realize your full potential in attracting women. You are going to be taught the necessary dating skills and techniques of attraction that you will then practice during your in-field training.

First impressions begin with your appearance. Fashion should always be comfortable and enjoyable. When you have the right mindset and you are confident with your image, you will relax and enjoy how much fun approaching women is!

Over accessorising, mis-matching and ill-fitting garments will get you noticed, but for all the wrong reasons. Approaching women can be difficult enough in the beginning, so don’t let your image inabilitate you in any way. In social circumstances your image and appearance is the first thing people will notice about you. Image has a powerful effect in how people perceive you.

You are more likely to strike conversation and be appealing to the opposite sex if you look interesting, stylish and quirky.

Image is key when it comes to attraction. Shopping and building a new wardrobe can be a daunting challenge. For those who feel they know little about men’s fashion, a personal stylist will create a look that best suits your physical appearance, lifestyle and your new confident mindset!

When you have an understanding of styling and dressing you will make fewer fashion mistakes, which will help you build a stylish wardrobe whilst saving you money.

If you are recreating your image, it is essential in the beginning to invest in two to three fully styled outfits. You will only waste money if you start purchasing single garments that you can’t co-ordinate into an outfit.

Once you have a few signature pieces you can start building more looks around those garments. This way you are creating a variety of looks that will take you from day to night. A good pair of quality shoes, well fitting jeans and a classic style coat are essential to have in your wardrobe. Over time you will combine these quality items with layers and accessories, which may change with seasons and fashion trends.

There are some basic rules to learn about style. You need to consider many factors. Which tie goes with which shirt? What size or cut fits and looks best on you? How do I create a layered look and experiment with colour, patterns and textures?  A session with a stylist will teach you what to look for when choosing a garment and how to make it work with your body.

For example, a long coat with straight fitting trousers or jeans can accentuate a taller man’s height and frame. An outfit like this combined with a fine scarf and the right shoes or boots embodies class, sophistication and empowers its wearer with confidence. You will learn how to create a variety of looks with your outfits.

Boots are really popular this season and if you’re pairing boots with a pair of trousers your stylist will advise you on how to wear them correctly. For an edgy look you could tuck the legs into loosely laced up boots or if you want to wear your trousers over your boots, your stylist will be able to advise a wider cut to slim and lengthen the legs.

If your frame or height restricts buying certain styles or brands you should consider having a garment altered or taken up to fit you perfectly. Many high street shops are now offering alteration services at reasonable rates. Tailoring clothes to fit your height and shape will restore the shape of the garment to the designed fit.

Many women experiment with styles and dress in daring colours, textures and silhouettes. We do this to accentuate our personalities and when it comes down to it, for attention, be it with our friends, at work or very often to attract the opposite sex.

Every step you take to enhance your image and improve your self socially will benefit every area of your life. Namely- your career, friends and especially dating. By making an effort to create an individual look you will stand out from the competition, create attraction and more importantly you will be memorable.

Rebecca Flanagan – Fashion Consultant (Kama Lifestyles)