You should aim to become a master at story-telling. A master storyteller can turn even the most boring occurrence into something captivating and exciting, and once you become skilled in this art, you will easily be able to present

yourself in your best possible light. However, you don’t have to focus on every particular detail of the story. Remember, Storytelling is an art, not a science. You are not obliged to include boring or unnecessary facts or

keep things in chronological order. Rather than simply stating facts, you want to focus on creating emotions, while subtly slipping into the story your attractive qualities.

Your story should create many different types of emotions in your listener such as laughter, suspense, curiosity, respect and even awe. Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions. Your aim is to make people empathize with the emotions in the story and allow them to experience the whole spectrum of feelings and if you achieve this, you will truly captivate them.

Each of your longer stories should create tension, forcing your listener to wonder what will happen next. Just at the point when the tension is at its peak, you release everything you have just built up with a single wave of emotion, creating a sense of relief. You have just succeeded in making them physically feel something with you. That is very powerful.

Now that you have been asked about the topic, it is time to deliver the story itself. You now have an opportunity to separate yourself from other guys early on, by telling her a story that hits on many of your positive qualities, such as your confidence, leadership, sense of humour, ambition etc. As you tell it, she will naturally read between the lines, and look for clues to see what type of person you are.

You should be aware that you are not just telling a story but rather giving a representation of you as a person. So how can you ensure that your particular story is exciting, while representing you in your best possible light? Just keep the following points in mind when you are writing up your story.

“Never make up stories. Instead find stories from your life in which you displayed some of the qualities shown above”

You must convey your personality into the story. You do this by highlighting certain attractive qualities about yourself into the story. There is no one quality that every single person is magnetically attracted to. Each value that you demonstrate is relative to the person. What is valuable to one person may not be valuable to the next. That is why it is important to demonstrate more than one attractive quality in your story. For example, one woman might see a guy surrounded by beautiful women and be hugely attracted to him as a result, while another woman might view the same guy as a player and be turned off.

Another man might find out, while talking to a woman, that she is famous and he might want to shy away from the limelight, while another guy might jump at the chance to get some press. Each person may value different qualities in people. Many people view value as simply possessions or successes. While these are indeed indicators of value, the real examples of value are the qualities that caused you to achieve these goals. The twelve main qualities are listed above and you must convey these qualities in your stories. An example of how to do this is shown below:

“Oh you play basketball…Have you ever heard of a player called Shaquille O’Neil…I visited Miami last year with my Hurling team…

We won the League and as a result of being the captain I got to decide where to go on our holiday…I chose to go to Miami for two weeks Miami for two weeks…It was an absolutely amazing Trip…On the first night, we went out to the bar and the atmosphere was amazing…Me and my friend Dermot saw two girls standing at the bar with a guy, and we approached them and began a conversation…The girl I was talking to was called Karen and we got go really well together…She had a great personality and we really connected with each other…Over the two weeks, I met her six times and on the second last date, she asked me if I wanted to go to a basketball match…I said I would like to go but I heard that the tickets were very difficult to find.

She assured me that she would have no problem getting the tickets and I asked her where she would get them…She told me that she was a cheerleader for Miami Heat and she had access to tickets at any time…So we went to the Match and it was fantastic…The colour, excitement and fanfare of the whole event was amazing and I really enjoyed it…We also had ringside seats so we could see the action perfectly… After the Match, she asked me if I wanted to meet the players and I said that I would love to…These players are world famous and are paid millions per year…

We went to the dressing room and I met all the players…The last guy I met was Shaquille O’Neil and this guy is absolutely enormous…He stands seven feet two inches in height and when I shook hands with him, his hand wrapped totally around mine…I spoke to him for five minutes and when he found out that I was from Ireland, he said he had relations there and he loved Irish people…He then gave me his Basketball Jersey and signed it…Yeah, it was really cool

“I have a Picture of Me, Shaquille and Karen on my phone…Check it out!”

The story above contains embedded values, which creates attraction and stimulates emotions in the listener. The listener learns a lot about the personality of the person telling the story, and as a result of the attractive qualities, his value rises.

The embedded values in the story are as follows:

• Preselection – This person can date very beautiful women, such as cheerleaders, as show in the picture. He can also keep a relationship.
• Confidence – He approached a group in the bar and was not put off by the fact that there was a guy in the group
• Interesting Lifestyle – He plays sport professionally and has travelled so he has an exciting lifestyle
• Social – When he goes to a bar, he can meet new people and easily make new friends.
• Leadership – He is the captain of his team and they won the league.

Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions.

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Cold reading can be a powerful tool when it comes to creating attraction. You can really get somebody to open up to you naturally and quickly find commonalities you share that will bond you together. Remember, people like

people who are like themselves. Once you practice this technique, you will get very good at it very quickly and you will be amazed at how quickly the conversation will develop. What you are basically doing is making a series of vague statements, and observing the person’s reactions. While you can tease the person with it playfully, it can also work quite well because you are using statements that can have multiple meanings.

Usually, when a person hears such a word or statement, their mind will fill in the meaning from their own personal experience and so it will seem to be a true statement about them. If you have ever read a newspaper horoscope and felt that it was accurate, you have experienced the power of this technique. By using cold reading, you can create a fun and fascinating conversation. You will easily find out information about the person, they will become more comfortable with you and rapport will develop faster.

Cold reading also demonstrates higher status, which is a crucial element for creating attraction. It shows you are a fun, interesting guy, who understands other people. If you use and develop this skill you will increase your chances for success. What you are basically doing is using her appearance, mannerisms and overall profile to make an educated guess about what type of person she is.

After you open conversation, you can make playful teasing comments about the person you are interested in to escalate sexual tension. Some examples are shown below:

• You strike me as the leader of your group
• It takes a lot to get you mad but when you do everybody better watch out
• You guys need to get her out more
• You strike me as a very ambitious person but at the moment you are quite lazy about your goals
• I bet when you were younger you were really shy

Once you become used to cold reading, you can make more serious statements later in the conversation. They are very general so will usually contain a degree of truth and people will really feel that you understand them and so will be more open to you. This will really spice up the conversation. You can spot something interesting about her appearance or personality then use this trait make a guess about her.

You will need to listen very closely to the conversation so when you hear a commonality, you can quickly point it out. The correct way to use this tool is to introduce the cold reading routine as a natural part of the conversation. Once you notice something, find a way to directly tie your observation to the conversation. Some more serious cold reads that you can use later in the conversation are shown below. If you memorize these you really won’t need any others.

• You like change and variety and don’t like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations.
• You are independent minded and need proof before accepting others opinions.
• You need to really trust others before revealing yourself to others.
• Sometimes you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to relax Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic.
• You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.

One of the most important things to remember with Cold Reads is when to use them in the conversation. If you use the more serious cold reads early in the conversation, it will appear that you are trying too hard and may even come across as weird. If you use one of the more serious lines in the first few minutes, she may discard it even if you are completely right.

Everybody hates being predictable and she will refuse to believe that you could know something of value about her personality, just minutes after meeting her. This is why you should use the more playful cold reads at the start. However, using the more serious ones at the right time can have a great impact.

Cold Reading Tips

1. Be general

2. Analyse the body language

3. Give a reason for your cold read – “I think you are a very generous person, I noticed that every time you talk about your friend you speak with a very “Giving” attitude”

4. Use the opening line “I don’t really know you but you strike me as someone who…”

5. Speak slowly and gauge her reaction

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One of the most common mistakes that people make is that once they start having fun with somebody, they escalate the interaction, without finding out about the other person’s personality and character. As a result, you have no real idea what this person is actually like.

Through your story-telling they may know your attractive qualities and have a good idea of the type of person you are, but, because you have not taken the time to get to know them properly, there is no compelling reason for them to consider escalation the attraction.

When you do take the time to get to know the other person, you will reach a new level of comfort with the other person. By the other person confiding in you, an emotional connection will be created and this will bring you closer together. By using the tools in the earlier chapter, you will have succeeded in creating a great first impression and a strong connection. It is time to get to know the person a little better.

You must remember that somebody will only open up to you once they are attracted so do not qualify them until you know attraction is present. In order to create and maintain an emotional connection with her, you must go a little deeper and try to find out the type of person she really is. The last thing you want to do is to give off the vibe of a player, who simply takes her number and leaves, leaving her feeling cold, used, and impersonal.

To deepen the connection, you need to understand one another and begin to form a relationship. You want to deepen the rapport and really get to know this person. In order to get to know anybody, you have to be willing to share personal information about yourself. The simple act can create incredible comfort between two people. It is important to only discuss topics that both of you will be comfortable talking about. Try to keep a distance from any negative topics as you should aim to create and share positive emotions.

Some sample topics are listed below:

• Family/Social Circle Relationships
• Important Characteristics
• Animals
• Ambitions
• Sports
• Passions in Life
• Travel
• Hobbies
• Her values and your values
• Childhood experiences
• Friendship

These topics are excellent for learning about her experiences and sharing about yourself. Try to keep away from boring or vague topics that you have no real interest in. What fake interest, when you can discuss actual topics that you are genuinely interested in. Some questions you might ask are shown below:

• “What’s the most breathtaking thing you’ve ever seen?”
• “If you could be anything you want, what would you choose?”
• “What is your best memory?”

The more comfort you build with her, the more you will understand each other better and the greater the connection.

There is a certain type of person, or a certain set of “Alpha Characteristics” that instantly and automatically triggers a woman’s attraction mechanisms to the point where she becomes bound and determined to pursue you. You should aim to install and take on these traits for yourself because when you do so, not only your dating life, but every other aspect of your life will improve.

It is important that you make it a point to address each one and develop it in your own life. If you are missing a particular point, work on it because when you meet somebody new, you are demonstrating your values in ways you are not even aware of. For example, you may not be physically attractive, but if you demonstrate high value, you can easily raise your rating to a much higher level.

Ambition – The very essence of an alpha male is that you have a vision. You don’t have to be successful yet, you just have to show you have the potential to be successful. A person with a solid ambition is charismatic and exciting. Every person is unique and has different interests. Find out what your goals are and share them with people. Of Course, you cannot accomplish all your goals overnight. Instead, think of this as a journey and not a destination. Women love to be part of the adventure that is your life. Provided you make it an adventure.

Social - You should be comfortable in social situations. When you meet new people, you should be able to create a great first impression. Women are naturally and intuitively social experts, and they want you to at least match their level of social intelligence. You know how to socially project yourself and you act and respond in a manner than proves you are a high value guy. You can really connect with anybody new and she knows if she leaves you in a social situation, you will be comfortable and naturally meet new people. You have social intelligence and are able to understand people and calibrate somebody’s emotional state in-order to communicate effectively. When you master this quality, she will notice it right away and really appreciate it.

Intelligence – Intelligence is sexy! An intelligent man with conversational skills is very attractive. A person who has interests beyond everyday personal experience or who can articulate insights about his everyday experiences will continue to be interesting as time goes on. It can be exciting to meet a person who is an expert or knowledgeable in a particular field. Intelligence is definitely an important factor as women enjoy talking about sociological and world issues and you will be ahead of the game if you can speak eloquently about a broad range of topics.

Willingness to Emote - This is where you show her that you are comfortable enough with her and with your own identity to show her your emotional side. So many men are afraid to show a range of emotions in case they are viewed as weak or they don’t live up to their perceived image. However, if you can demonstrate to her very clearly that you are someone who follows their emotions; you will build huge attraction and sexual tension. The most important factor in creating a solid relationship is communication and if you show that you are comfortable discussing your emotions then you have demonstrated a very powerful quality and characteristic.

Leadership – The ability to rule, guide or inspire others is one of the main traits of an attractive person. Everybody is fascinated by a leader and leaders are at the centre of every social scene. By demonstrating leadership qualities, you show you have the strength of character needed to inspire others to follow you. You can’t just decide to be a leader, people must choose you and the fact that you are chosen to lead displays so many good things about you. You must also show that you have the character to lead the relationship and so many women are longing for a man who can provide this leadership.

Protector of Loved Ones – For somebody to enter a relationship with you, it is important to show them that you can take care of them and stand up for them at all times. You must make the other person feel safe. She has to understand and believe that you are willing to protect her, even at the expense of your own safety. If you can display this quality, then she knows that if she were to have children with you, her children would be safe as well. The quality of being a protector carries a very powerful effect.

Sense of Humor – Everybody loves to have fun. If you can show that you are a fun person, with a good sense of humor, you will be very attractive. In a way, you are projecting the creative side of your personality and by having fun; you are demonstrating you are a creative person. If you ask anybody for the main qualities they look for in people, a good sense of humor is almost always at the top of the list. Once you can display this quality naturally, you will consistently form successful relationships with new people and people will feel good around you. How will you know if you have a good sense of humor?

Frank Tyger explains, “The ultimate test of whether you possess a sense ofHumor is your reaction when someone tells you, you don’t”

Boundaries –you must internalize your rules and boundaries and embody them at all times. Powerful men don’t tolerate unacceptable behavior. There is tremendous power in the ability to simply walk away from any situation and this one attitude will save you time and time again. At any time in a relationship, if the other person doesn’t adhere to the standards you have set, you simply must be willing To Just Walk Away. When you display that self control and respect, the other person will realize that you are a person of value and do everything in their power to keep you and chase you even harder.

Pre-selection - Once a woman feels attraction for you and she sees you with other women, this will automatically trigger jealousy and attraction for you. This is massively hardwired into our brains as humans and is very powerful. This theoryhas been studied extensively and observed by naturalists in other species. Females tend to be more attracted to males, who have already been chosen by other females.

In experiments that involved placing a female looking bird doll next to the male bird’s nest, the male birds mated more frequently than their control counterparts, who were not accompanied by fake bird dolls. Natural Selection has made sure that this observance is pre-wired into the female brain. Thus, the presence of other females is an indicator of value and a biological attraction trigger switch on when a woman sees a man accompanied by another woman of high value.

Lifestyle - You must have an interesting life, so travel, join a sports club, go skydiving etc. You will be making this person a part of your life, so your lifestyle must be exciting. If you convey your lifestyle correctly, they will be drawn into your reality. You must show her what is in store for her if she were to begin a relationship with you.

Will she be playing computer games all day in your parent’s house and eating fast food or will she constantly going to exclusive parties, joining your huge social circle and visiting new places? Will you be joining the gym together, going rollerblading, helping out with charity or launching your new book? If you were in her place, would you be excited to be a part of your current lifestyle? If not, then start adding to your lifestyle immediately.

Confidence - One of the most desirable qualities in a person is confidence. In fact, when you become truly confident, other people can just sense it, just by how you move and carry yourself. When you walk into a room, heads will turn as you seem to radiate an aura of power that most people find irresistible. Women are hardwired to seek out a confident male and when a man comes along who emits these confident vibes, she will quickly and deeply respond to him and often hit on him at her first opportunity. If you want to be the alpha male in her eyes and in her mind you must be self-assured and confident.

Wealth – This is a curious quality. Many people believe that you need a great deal of money to adopt a wealthy mindset. However, you don’t actually have to have much money. Rather, you just have to act like a guy who comes from a place of abundance in all forms. You may be wealthy in terms of friends or even attitudes. Only the most abundant and powerful men selflessly give out their energy, fun, intelligence, time and conversation freely. This mindset is a hugely attractive and if you want to start a relationship or just simply learn how to meet new people it is important to adopt it.

Every time you display any of these qualities, your value will rise. Without even realizing it, the other person will view you in a different way. In the next section, you will learn how to display all of the above attractive qualities quickly and easily. Concentrate on adopting them into your life and soon youwill be a true alpha male and you will be respected and appreciated deeply for it.

The simple truth is if you adopt the alpha qualities above, women will become less important to you, which actually makes you more attractive to them. They want you to possess these characteristics and, when you do, you will become more important to women.

There are many mistakes that guys make with women, which instantly kills the attraction. Once you identify them and become aware of them, you change your behavior and bring constructive changes into your life, thereby making you far more successful. It is certainly a state of mind that is well worth developing and strengthening. An understanding of these mistakes can change your whole life.

If you have been exhibiting any of these mistakes, it is now the time to change the way you think. It is time to get rid of these negative thoughts and behaviors and lead your relationships. Make a note of them and start today. Changing even one of then suggestions below, will bring more success into your dating life!

Nice Guy Frame – If there is one thing that turns a woman off quicker than anything else, it’s the moment she sees you as a nice guy. As stated earlier, women are subject to biology. Women have 200,000 years of evolution and gender roles, to help them in their search for a man. Deep down, most women want a strong, decisive, confident man – the type of man that would have kept her safe thousands of years ago.

A nice guy is unable to unlock this level of attraction in her, leading too many problems in the relationship. It’s still an instinct that dictates their reactions to men and so, in many cases, the woman will become frustrated and walk over a weak guy. The truth is, biology is often the reason why women react in certain ways to men. While being a jerk is never going to get you success with women, considering the biology that goes into relationships will.

So what’s the best thing to do? By being a strong confident alpha, you are combining what women say they want, with what their instincts tell them to look for. The fact is, a woman will never use the word “nice” describe a man she’s attracted to. Of course, there is a time to be nice as long as you are also confident, decisive and strong.

Qualifying before she Qualifies - If you qualify yourself  before she shows interest, you will come across as approval seeking, which is a major turnoff. Approval seeking is a very needy and unattractive behavior that you should seek to eliminate, or minimize as much as possible. It communicates insecurity as you show that you need other people to validate you.

Don’t offer your resume, your earning potential, and tell her how you can change her life right away. If you do, you will end up looking like a wimp and no woman likes a wimp. She is looking for guy who does not need approval and is a leader of his own life. An alpha male does not need the approval of others as he has a more solid foundation to base his self esteem on. When you meet a woman, do not qualify yourself until she had displayed interest in you.

Not having standards - Setting and maintaining standards is one of the most  important factors in dating. If you are not the selector then you need to start setting standards right away. A woman will never feel attraction for a man, who has no idea of what he is looking for. Every person has their own preference when

it comes to dating. It is important to make sure that these expectations remain realistic and attainable. Setting expectations that are too high will limit your prospects.  By trying to identify how compatible the two of you really are by looking beyond the superficial early on, you have just demonstrated that you are a high value guy.

Trying to buy her emotions – Men and women relate to money differently and don’t always handle it in the same way. One of the biggest mistakes men make is that they try to influence women’s emotions by spending large amounts of money on them. This type of emotional spending can actually have the adverse effect and drive the couple apart.

Some men even buy presents to keep a woman interested when they know she is seeing other people. Why waste time and money on somebody who has perfected the art of using people to get what they want without giving anything in return? You simply cannot spend money on people until they respect and appreciate you.

Yet guys still think they can change her and almost force her to like him by buying her presents. Check out any of the TV court shows and you will quickly see the fallout from this type of arrangement. Many guys often spend a lot of money buying her a new wardrobe, only to have her leave him for another man. You dress her up in the best clothes, only to have her dump you for another man who is thrilled to get such a polished fashionable lady. Buying her presents isn’t going to make your relationship more solid, and you will lose the good ones and keep the shallow ones.

Depending on Permission or Confirmation – Women are looking for a guy who can lead and show her the right path in a relationship. No woman wants to lead in the relationship and a man that is indecisive is actually forcing the woman to take the lead. For example, if a woman asks you what you want to do on a date, you should never reply with…

“I don’t mind…What do you want to do?”

This does not mean that she does not have a say on what to do. It simply means that you must have a plan and have a habit of making the decisions in your life.

The more decisive you are with women, the more of a leader you are in your life and women find this incredibly attractive. The power of leading has a bigger impact on women than you could ever imagine. Indecision has ruined so many relationships and if you want to keep the attraction alive, you must always lead the relationship.

Sacrificing your identity- You are a strong, self assured guy, with your own views and opinions. When guys meet somebody that they are really attracted to,they sometimes tend to get so caught in the relationship that they lose their own separate identity. If the other person offers an opinion, they simply agree with it incase they offend the other person. This is a huge trap and it is covered in detail in the section on attraction tests. By sacrificing their identity, they risk losing what made

them attractive in the first place. They lose a part of themselves and by giving up their own views and beliefs; they are bound to feel a little resentment. How do you overcome this?

If asked, simply state your views. You don’t have to change anyone’s mind or convert them to your point of view but, at all times, you must maintain your own identity.

These are just a few examples of mistakes that guys commonly make. Almost all of these mistakes are connected to the issue of leading the relationship. Women are attracted to MEN, not little girls posing as men. You must choose your own direction in the relationship.

If you lead without needing her to follow,you are developing the masculine leadership side of yourself. This is hugely attractive and exactly what the other person wants you to do. You don’t care if people go in the direction that you want and you don’t need them to, but if they want to follow you – that’s great!

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Changing your beliefs is the key to possessing the skills to form relationships with any woman. When you get rejected you have to understand that she is not rejecting you based on your personality, as she does not know your personality and quality. You should recognize what is actually happening here.

The first thing we have to realize is that when a person says no to us they are not saying no to us as people, they are simply saying no to our approach or to the way we present ourselves. Thus, the rejection is not personal.

Once we understand that and we understand that people can say no to us automatically and they say no to us for many different reasons then we cannot understand.

The biggest mistake that we can make is that if we hear too many no’s what happens?? We start thinking that it is us that are being told no to and since it is so depressing to be rejected continually then we stop approaching and build up reasons and excuses in our minds about why we can’t approach.

There are many people who have successfully dealt with their fear of rejection. Many of these people are in or have been in a successful relationship. Here’s the rule:

“If you think like these people think, you will eventually do the things that they do, and will get the same results that they get”.

And if you don’t, you won’t. Some people are satisfied with settling in their relationship. This is consistent with the way they think, most of the time. Other people would be dissatisfied unless they are in a relationship with their ideal girl, in looks and personality.

It is interesting to note that there is very little difference between the people who settle in an average relationship and the people who are madly in love with their ideal woman. They each have very much the same levels of talent and ability. They are surrounded with very much the same number of opportunities and possibilities. The only difference is that the people who are in the ideal relationship have decided to put aside their fear of rejection and approach that woman.

It is true that many women have their idea of what they look for in a man in their mind and when you approach she will decide whether you are worth her time or not. Therefore, it is imperative to know how to approach in order to reduce the possibility of rejection.

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The biggest reason that guys don’t approach is fear of rejection. Fear, uncertainty and doubt are, and have always been, the greatest enemies of success and achievement. For this reason, in order to develop your social skill-set, you must work continually to confront the fears that hold you as a person back.

In order to become an attractive man and create successful relationships, it’s something you have to practice. The two major fears that stand as the greatest obstacles on your road to success are the fear of failure and the fear of rejection. These are the two major enemies you must overcome. It is interesting to note that it is not failure or rejection that hurts you or holds you back.

It is the fear of failure or rejection. It is the anticipation or expectation of failure or rejection that paralyzes you and blocks you from approaching that girl you are attracted to. If you see a girl you are attracted to, instead of thinking of the reasons that you should approach her, most guys do the opposite and focus their attention on why they should not approach. Some of what they visualize is contained in the following

•    The girl will think you are strange or weird

•    People around her will realize that you are hitting on her

•    Her boyfriend will come up and assault you

•    She will laugh at you

•    She will ignore you

The truth is that everyone is afraid of something and is insecure in some area. Everyone you meet is afraid of failure and rejection in some way and is dealing with the same fear as you are. Once you understand this, it can help to free your mind.

The difference between the hero and the coward is that the hero holds his ground slightly longer. The average person will use every excuse to avoid the fear-causing situation. The brave person committees himself to understanding and confronting his fear.

Everybody is insecure in some area of their lives. Once you realize that nobody expects you to be perfect, you will lose much of your emotional baggage. Most of the time, when you approach a girl, she is just as nervous as you are and is focusing on forming a good impression with you. If she is quiet, then she may be simply shy but you assume that she has a negative attitude towards you. You start to think and believe such thoughts as

•    I am not good enough for her

•    She will lose interest in me

•    She is too beautiful

Just think for a moment about your previous beliefs and the price you have paid for believing these limiting beliefs and how they held you back. Some of our beliefs were the result of other people’s comments to us and we continue to lead our lives well below our true potential. As you are reading this right now, ask yourself the following question:

“Are you ready disregard your old harmful beliefs and to embrace new beliefs and feelings”

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Have you ever met someone and instantly felt attraction for them? You can’t explain it, but you just want to be around this person and spend time with them…”

Most people spend their lives seeking ways to validate themselves and to fulfil this desire of being liked. Once you disregard this need, the quality of your life will skyrocket and you will become a much happier, more centred person.

Members of your family and your friends will be far happier in your company, and you will have a greater influence on them and allow them to feel better about themselves and to do better at the important things in their lives.

In a personal situation, you are likely to gain trust and create loyal friendships. You will learn to express yourself better and by putting your personality on the line, you are building core confidence in yourself to carry you through your life. If you develop the following traits in yourself, then your success with women will hit a whole new level.

A true alpha male is somebody who likes and accepts themselves
unconditionally and so naturally has very high self esteem. When you
display your alpha traits, people look up to you and respect and admire you.

Most people spend their lives seeking ways to validate themselves and to fulfil this desire of being liked. Once you disregard this need, the quality of your life will skyrocket and you will become a much happier, more centred person.

• Charisma – This can be defined as a personal attractiveness or
  interestingness that enables you to influence others.

• Enthusiasm – An alpha male is enthusiastic about life. When you are
  enthusiastic and excited about what you are doing, when you are totally committed to achieving something worthwhile, you radiate positive energy and people are drawn to you.

• Confidence – If there is one quality that every Alpha Male has in common its sheer, absolute, unflappable, masculine Confidence.

• Sense of Purpose – Alpha Males have clear goals and visions and know exactly where they are going in life. The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life.

• Sense of Humour – One supreme pleasure that spans all people is
  laughter. Ask any woman what qualities she looks for in a guy and at the top of the list will be a sense of humour.

• Generousity – To put it simply, if you really want to be an Alpha Male, you’ve got to give. You’ve got to give people pleasure, make people feel good, give people a reason to be near you, give guys a reason to wish they were you, give women a desire to have you, you’ve got to give and give and give.

• Self-reliant– Self-reliance is a trait that every alpha male possesses. Aself-reliant person is one who is more active, independent, creative,
  competent and spontaneous.

• Honesty – This is another important alpha quality. Honesty is a vital linkin the ecosystem of life, on which everything either directly or indirectly depends.

• Unreactive – This is one of the key alpha elements. Being unreactive is all about setting your own standards, instead of trying to match up to other people’s standards all the time. When you are trying to match up to other peoples ideals, you are living in reaction.

• Self-discipline – To achieve success in any area, one needs to have will power and self discipline. It absolutely must be developed in order to succeed.

• Ability to Achieve Results – To put  it simply, an alpha male is a high achiever. What results have you achieved so far in your life?

• Appearance – An alpha male always strives to look his personal best.
  There’s nothing unmanly about wanting to look good. Grooming not only improves your confidence, but of course your looks as well.

On your journey to become an alpha male, not only do you need to know the alpha male characteristics you should display, but more importantly, the negative traits you should avoid.

• Leering at her – An alpha guy is absorbed in his own whole and does not need external validation. An attractive woman knows that guys are
  checking her out everywhere she goes. Cut it out now.

• Complaining – People who complain trap themselves in a reality that constantly gives them more to complain about. Life keeps getting tougher on them. Cut it out now.

• Approval Seeking – Do you approve of yourself or do you seek the
  approval of others? Approval-seeking behaviour implies going along with what you think others expect out of fear that they won’t like you.

• Trying to Dominate – An alpha male leads but never dominates most successful people in the world are smart enough to know they need to surround themselves with clever people.

Develop your power of leading. Leadership is one of the characteristics
of a high status male. Leadership is vital in moving the relationship in
new directions, increasing its depth and dimension.

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Women don’t spend hours working on their looks, just to go out chatting with their friends. Most women want guys to approach them, in the correct way. If they are single then they are probably looking for a partner but even if they are in a relationship, then they still regard it as a compliment if a guy approaches.

Understanding the situation from a woman’s perspective will also help you deal with your negative beliefs. In the past, the role of women in society was radically different than that of the present day.

Women had to choose a man of high social value for survival reasons and to protect their family. However, advances in technology have changed women’s roles.

Economical changes, equal rights for women and the innovation of condoms and the birth control pill have had a vast effect on society and beliefs. In the present era, women no longer need men for protection and survival. Women now may make choices based on their own sexual desires.

However, some of this guilt still remains if a woman appears to be too forward.If a woman has casual sex with a man, she can be termed a slut by her friendsand family and this association can easily damage a person’s confidence. Shewill also be termed a slut if she approaches a lot of guys and so most women leave it to the men to approach.

While it may appear that women have many choices amongst men, they can really only choose the ones that approach them. By understanding this social dynamic, you will realize that women actually really want you to approach them. Thus, it is up to you to learn to approach women in the correct way.

You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by approaching

If you approach and lose the girl, what has happened? Think of the worst
things that could possibly happen?

• My mind will go blank and I won’t be able to think of anything to say.
• She will think I am weird
• I will look stupid

Now, let’s examine what you have to gain…

Why are you reading this article in the first place? To meet the woman of your
dreams. There are literally millions of women out there that are your perfect match and are waiting to meet you.

Every time you approach a woman, you are grasping that opportunity and by taking it, you are becoming a better, happier person. The world of dating is very similar to taking part in a lottery.

The only difference is that it is free to compete, you have a much greater chance of winning and if you work on your approach then your chances of willing will dramatically increase. If you do win the Jackpot and meet the woman of your dreams, then you will probably be far happier than you would be if you won the money.

At the very least, if she rejects you, then you can analyze your approach and see where you can improve. If it goes well, then you have another positive experience to strengthen your new beliefs. Every time you approach and try new ideas and techniques you are improving and adding to your skill set.

It has been said that the most successful people are also the people who have suffered the most rejections. If you approach and put work into this area of
your life, you will see constant, powerful improvements. You will start to notice you old beliefs begin to crumble away and by replaced by new, empowering beliefs that will grow more powerful with each successful approach.

After every conversation you should analyze the interaction. Identify the areas that you succeeded in and identify any new ideals that you added into the interaction. Also analyze your weak point and see the areas where you can improve. If you do this regularly, you will very quickly build up your social skill set.

So approach and practice these new powerful beliefs and very soon you will start to see a powerful change in attitudes and begin to recognise other opportunities, where your old negative way of thinking has kept you back in the past.

To learn what to do after the approach check out our ebook “The Score” – How to Create a Successful Relationship.