A good kisser will really ignite huge chemistry, and send a tingling feeling rushing through her body. It has been theorized that a woman will decide after the first kiss, whether or not she will have sex with the man.

Indeed many women may initially decide to pursue a relationship with a guy, but when they find out he’s a bad or a mediocre kisser, they change their minds entirely.

Most people, men and women, will judge the first kiss as a precursor to whether or not the rest of the physical relationship will work. If the person kisses badly, then they are probably not amazing at the other areas. So it is vital to get the first kiss perfect.

Where to Kiss - A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. You should never kiss her in front of her friends as this will create unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. It will draw immediate attention and make her feel uncomfortable. Instead, you should kiss her when you have isolated her and the two of you are alone. This may be in the smoking area, outside the bar or in your car. Kissing stimulates women faster than any other physical activity. It is important to consider the strong sexual reactions that typically accompany a kiss.

If you have already established an intense physical chemistry between you and your partner, it is likely that the kiss will become very passionate and this can only happen when the two of you are alone. However, in a bar kissing is the absolute maximum level to cross. Do not escalate the physicality of the situation any further as you will portray yourself as a sleazy guy and a player. Respect yourself and her and be mindful of your surroundings.

When to Kiss - You only kiss her when you are absolutely sure that she will kiss you. This could be in the first ten minutes or you may have to wait far longer. How can you possibly know when is the perfect time? Is there a way to know every time if she will kiss you or not? The answer is yes – If you can read body language and use attraction tests. So many guys do not pick up on her body language cues and just lean in blindly when the girl is not ready and so get rejected.

Look for inviting body language and improve your expertise by studying the section in this book, on the signs of attraction. You can also give her attraction tests to see if she is ready to kiss you yet. For example, if you ask to sip her drink and she refuses, you can be sure that if you had leaned in to kiss her, she would have turned away. One of the best attraction tests to give before going for the kiss is to kiss your index finger and put it against her lips and tell her to kiss it. If she does, then she is probably waiting for you to kiss her. Once you get good as accessing body language and understanding how to give attraction tests, you will know when to kiss her every time

How to go for the Kiss - Before you go to kiss her, you must let her know that you are going in for the kiss at least a few seconds in advance. If you do not do this, then there is a chance that she will turn away when you try to kiss her. This does not mean that she doesn’t want to kiss you. It is merely a reflex action that most of us do naturally when people get too close too quickly. There are many ways that you can let her know that you are going to kiss her.You can do this verbally by asking her the following

“Are you a good kisser? How would you rate yourself out of 10 in terms of kissing…?”

If she says yes, then you can simply lean in and kiss her. Perhaps the best way is to simply let the conversation trail off and look her in the eye. Slowly move your gaze down to her lips and then back up to her eyes. If she blushes, then you know she is ready to be kissed. Either way, you have given her a very clear signal that you are going to kiss her.

How to Kiss – When you kiss her, you want the kiss to take on a life of its own. Everybody remembers a kiss that left them breathless and sent chills sent through their body. A kiss can seal a deal or destroy it. It’s amazing how one action can say so much. Just as your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people choose to leave their

eyes open during the kiss. However, until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. You can start off with soft kisses on the lips to make her feel comfortable.

Perhaps suck on her lips a little. Do not do open mouth kissing until the kiss has lasted for at least a few seconds. Then open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips and see how they respond. As the two of you move closer together, tilt your head slightly to avoid hitting noses. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilted, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Barely touch her lipswhen kissing. Your hands are also important and you can use your fingers to touch her lips and face. Maintaining steady eye contact before and after the kiss is very important.

Always Pull Away First – Have you ever had that kiss that left you wanting more? If so, then the other person pulled away first. Keep it simple. There’s no need for a marathon kissing session. One of the easiest ways to kill the sexual tension between you is to kiss for too long.The worst thing that can happen is for her mind to start drifting away to other topics while you are kissing her. When you kiss her for the first time, you will be the one

that initiates the kiss and also the one that will end it. Kiss her for around ten to fifteen seconds and then pull away. If you kiss for any longer, the tension may begin to dissipate. Anyway, you are in a club and you can’t get carried away with kissing so keep it short. This will hugely increase the sexual tension and make her chase you and she may even initiate a second kiss.

Kissing is very important for a number of different reasons. It allows you to clearly gauge where you stand with the girl. The girl expects you to kiss her. That’s right. Every girl likes a guy to be masculine, aggressive and to show

initiative by going in for the kiss. By not attempting to kiss her, you most likely are giving her the wrong signals and she may even feel that you are not really that interested in her. Your breath is also very important so make sure it smells great. There is nothing worse than kissing somebody with bad breath.

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips before you kiss as slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. Lastly, while you are kissing her, avoid going sexual. Enjoy the kiss but hold off on groping, especially if you are still in the location where you met each other. Kissing causes our brain to produce oxytocin, a chemistry building hormone, which prompts you to want to kiss even more. So reserve your passion for a private location.

“Have you ever seen a guy who just seems to “have it” with women? They always have the right thing to say and are incredible at building attraction through humor…Most of the conversation is usually spent in role-play.

Once you apply this skill, you too will bring your game to the next level. Role-playing is a wonderful tool for creating incredible sexual tension with a woman. This one element could really transform your interactions and allow your playful side to emerge.

The beauty of role playing is that you get to be anyone you want, and you create your own reality as inhibitions slowly diminish into nothingness. Your best bet is to start off with something simple such as giving her a nickname.

If you suggest it in the right way, she will be amused and buy into your frame with enthusiasm. Role playing can be so much fun and allows you to add a sexual element into your interaction. The fun part about this is that you can laugh and have a good time whilst doing it. You should introduce banter into every interaction and allow your playful side to come across.

The essence of banter is role-playing. In your interactions, you should establish a role for the two of you can then act out in a playful way. Role-playing allows you to connect with the other person in ways she may not have experienced before. You can start role-playing in the first few minutes of the interaction.

It allows you to be physical and touch her. You can hold her hand, rub her shoulders, squeeze her leg-whatever you choose and make it part of the role-play…without mauling her, of course. By touching her while you role-play, you can easily make a connection with her and nothing is more important to a woman than a deep connection.

Role-playing is an art as well as a skill. It’s easy to make someone feel comfortable or even attached to you by having them place you in their thought process and pretend to do things with you. This is a simple method to have someone warm up to you and to easily get to know them.

Role-playing works so much better than just using the odd witty line. If you say a funny line, then you are just a guy that made a joke. However, if you can start role-playing, you can have a much more fun and playful interaction. You can branch off into anydirection and really let your creativity flow as you build rapport.

Examples of Role-playing include:

Little Sister/Older Brother

• You could call her a little brat and pretend that you are her older brother, who knows what’s best for her…You can pretend to send her to her room when she is bold…you can also assume that all her friends have a crush on you and tell her how annoying it is to hear them giggling when you walk into the room etc.

Artist at Work

• Create a role-play in which she is the artist and you are the art. Tell her that she has to capture your smile like the Mona Lisa painting…What background should I have? With or without clothes? Are you up to it?

Flirting Teacher

• Set up the role that one of you is the dating doctor and your patient has come looking for flirting tips. Make up a scenario where you have to prepare them for a date and give them advice…Give them tips on body language and kissing.

Student/Teacher

• You’ve decided to play the student/teacher role-play with you being the teacher of course. This scenario is full of potential: power dynamics and an opportunity for sexual bribery. What happens when you are in charge of detention after school and there are other people there? Do you let them off early and keep her for a little longer?

It’s all about making her feel good and creating an “our world reality”. You can also change assumed roles, and the result is a funny and charming interaction. Adding details to the role-play will not only give you more ideas for the fantasy, but it can really help get you in character and make the role play come to life. I have used all the above role-plays when flirting with women. Without fail, the result is giant smiles and laughter.

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You should aim to become a master at story-telling. A master storyteller can turn even the most boring occurrence into something captivating and exciting, and once you become skilled in this art, you will easily be able to present

yourself in your best possible light. However, you don’t have to focus on every particular detail of the story. Remember, Storytelling is an art, not a science. You are not obliged to include boring or unnecessary facts or

keep things in chronological order. Rather than simply stating facts, you want to focus on creating emotions, while subtly slipping into the story your attractive qualities.

Your story should create many different types of emotions in your listener such as laughter, suspense, curiosity, respect and even awe. Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions. Your aim is to make people empathize with the emotions in the story and allow them to experience the whole spectrum of feelings and if you achieve this, you will truly captivate them.

Each of your longer stories should create tension, forcing your listener to wonder what will happen next. Just at the point when the tension is at its peak, you release everything you have just built up with a single wave of emotion, creating a sense of relief. You have just succeeded in making them physically feel something with you. That is very powerful.

Now that you have been asked about the topic, it is time to deliver the story itself. You now have an opportunity to separate yourself from other guys early on, by telling her a story that hits on many of your positive qualities, such as your confidence, leadership, sense of humour, ambition etc. As you tell it, she will naturally read between the lines, and look for clues to see what type of person you are.

You should be aware that you are not just telling a story but rather giving a representation of you as a person. So how can you ensure that your particular story is exciting, while representing you in your best possible light? Just keep the following points in mind when you are writing up your story.

“Never make up stories. Instead find stories from your life in which you displayed some of the qualities shown above”

You must convey your personality into the story. You do this by highlighting certain attractive qualities about yourself into the story. There is no one quality that every single person is magnetically attracted to. Each value that you demonstrate is relative to the person. What is valuable to one person may not be valuable to the next. That is why it is important to demonstrate more than one attractive quality in your story. For example, one woman might see a guy surrounded by beautiful women and be hugely attracted to him as a result, while another woman might view the same guy as a player and be turned off.

Another man might find out, while talking to a woman, that she is famous and he might want to shy away from the limelight, while another guy might jump at the chance to get some press. Each person may value different qualities in people. Many people view value as simply possessions or successes. While these are indeed indicators of value, the real examples of value are the qualities that caused you to achieve these goals. The twelve main qualities are listed above and you must convey these qualities in your stories. An example of how to do this is shown below:

“Oh you play basketball…Have you ever heard of a player called Shaquille O’Neil…I visited Miami last year with my Hurling team…

We won the League and as a result of being the captain I got to decide where to go on our holiday…I chose to go to Miami for two weeks Miami for two weeks…It was an absolutely amazing Trip…On the first night, we went out to the bar and the atmosphere was amazing…Me and my friend Dermot saw two girls standing at the bar with a guy, and we approached them and began a conversation…The girl I was talking to was called Karen and we got go really well together…She had a great personality and we really connected with each other…Over the two weeks, I met her six times and on the second last date, she asked me if I wanted to go to a basketball match…I said I would like to go but I heard that the tickets were very difficult to find.

She assured me that she would have no problem getting the tickets and I asked her where she would get them…She told me that she was a cheerleader for Miami Heat and she had access to tickets at any time…So we went to the Match and it was fantastic…The colour, excitement and fanfare of the whole event was amazing and I really enjoyed it…We also had ringside seats so we could see the action perfectly… After the Match, she asked me if I wanted to meet the players and I said that I would love to…These players are world famous and are paid millions per year…

We went to the dressing room and I met all the players…The last guy I met was Shaquille O’Neil and this guy is absolutely enormous…He stands seven feet two inches in height and when I shook hands with him, his hand wrapped totally around mine…I spoke to him for five minutes and when he found out that I was from Ireland, he said he had relations there and he loved Irish people…He then gave me his Basketball Jersey and signed it…Yeah, it was really cool

“I have a Picture of Me, Shaquille and Karen on my phone…Check it out!”

The story above contains embedded values, which creates attraction and stimulates emotions in the listener. The listener learns a lot about the personality of the person telling the story, and as a result of the attractive qualities, his value rises.

The embedded values in the story are as follows:

• Preselection – This person can date very beautiful women, such as cheerleaders, as show in the picture. He can also keep a relationship.
• Confidence – He approached a group in the bar and was not put off by the fact that there was a guy in the group
• Interesting Lifestyle – He plays sport professionally and has travelled so he has an exciting lifestyle
• Social – When he goes to a bar, he can meet new people and easily make new friends.
• Leadership – He is the captain of his team and they won the league.

Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions.

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Cold reading can be a powerful tool when it comes to creating attraction. You can really get somebody to open up to you naturally and quickly find commonalities you share that will bond you together. Remember, people like

people who are like themselves. Once you practice this technique, you will get very good at it very quickly and you will be amazed at how quickly the conversation will develop. What you are basically doing is making a series of vague statements, and observing the person’s reactions. While you can tease the person with it playfully, it can also work quite well because you are using statements that can have multiple meanings.

Usually, when a person hears such a word or statement, their mind will fill in the meaning from their own personal experience and so it will seem to be a true statement about them. If you have ever read a newspaper horoscope and felt that it was accurate, you have experienced the power of this technique. By using cold reading, you can create a fun and fascinating conversation. You will easily find out information about the person, they will become more comfortable with you and rapport will develop faster.

Cold reading also demonstrates higher status, which is a crucial element for creating attraction. It shows you are a fun, interesting guy, who understands other people. If you use and develop this skill you will increase your chances for success. What you are basically doing is using her appearance, mannerisms and overall profile to make an educated guess about what type of person she is.

After you open conversation, you can make playful teasing comments about the person you are interested in to escalate sexual tension. Some examples are shown below:

• You strike me as the leader of your group
• It takes a lot to get you mad but when you do everybody better watch out
• You guys need to get her out more
• You strike me as a very ambitious person but at the moment you are quite lazy about your goals
• I bet when you were younger you were really shy

Once you become used to cold reading, you can make more serious statements later in the conversation. They are very general so will usually contain a degree of truth and people will really feel that you understand them and so will be more open to you. This will really spice up the conversation. You can spot something interesting about her appearance or personality then use this trait make a guess about her.

You will need to listen very closely to the conversation so when you hear a commonality, you can quickly point it out. The correct way to use this tool is to introduce the cold reading routine as a natural part of the conversation. Once you notice something, find a way to directly tie your observation to the conversation. Some more serious cold reads that you can use later in the conversation are shown below. If you memorize these you really won’t need any others.

• You like change and variety and don’t like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations.
• You are independent minded and need proof before accepting others opinions.
• You need to really trust others before revealing yourself to others.
• Sometimes you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to relax Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic.
• You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.

One of the most important things to remember with Cold Reads is when to use them in the conversation. If you use the more serious cold reads early in the conversation, it will appear that you are trying too hard and may even come across as weird. If you use one of the more serious lines in the first few minutes, she may discard it even if you are completely right.

Everybody hates being predictable and she will refuse to believe that you could know something of value about her personality, just minutes after meeting her. This is why you should use the more playful cold reads at the start. However, using the more serious ones at the right time can have a great impact.

Cold Reading Tips

1. Be general

2. Analyse the body language

3. Give a reason for your cold read – “I think you are a very generous person, I noticed that every time you talk about your friend you speak with a very “Giving” attitude”

4. Use the opening line “I don’t really know you but you strike me as someone who…”

5. Speak slowly and gauge her reaction

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One of the most common mistakes that people make is that once they start having fun with somebody, they escalate the interaction, without finding out about the other person’s personality and character. As a result, you have no real idea what this person is actually like.

Through your story-telling they may know your attractive qualities and have a good idea of the type of person you are, but, because you have not taken the time to get to know them properly, there is no compelling reason for them to consider escalation the attraction.

When you do take the time to get to know the other person, you will reach a new level of comfort with the other person. By the other person confiding in you, an emotional connection will be created and this will bring you closer together. By using the tools in the earlier chapter, you will have succeeded in creating a great first impression and a strong connection. It is time to get to know the person a little better.

You must remember that somebody will only open up to you once they are attracted so do not qualify them until you know attraction is present. In order to create and maintain an emotional connection with her, you must go a little deeper and try to find out the type of person she really is. The last thing you want to do is to give off the vibe of a player, who simply takes her number and leaves, leaving her feeling cold, used, and impersonal.

To deepen the connection, you need to understand one another and begin to form a relationship. You want to deepen the rapport and really get to know this person. In order to get to know anybody, you have to be willing to share personal information about yourself. The simple act can create incredible comfort between two people. It is important to only discuss topics that both of you will be comfortable talking about. Try to keep a distance from any negative topics as you should aim to create and share positive emotions.

Some sample topics are listed below:

• Family/Social Circle Relationships
• Important Characteristics
• Animals
• Ambitions
• Sports
• Passions in Life
• Travel
• Hobbies
• Her values and your values
• Childhood experiences
• Friendship

These topics are excellent for learning about her experiences and sharing about yourself. Try to keep away from boring or vague topics that you have no real interest in. What fake interest, when you can discuss actual topics that you are genuinely interested in. Some questions you might ask are shown below:

• “What’s the most breathtaking thing you’ve ever seen?”
• “If you could be anything you want, what would you choose?”
• “What is your best memory?”

The more comfort you build with her, the more you will understand each other better and the greater the connection.

There is a certain type of person, or a certain set of “Alpha Characteristics” that instantly and automatically triggers a woman’s attraction mechanisms to the point where she becomes bound and determined to pursue you. You should aim to install and take on these traits for yourself because when you do so, not only your dating life, but every other aspect of your life will improve.

It is important that you make it a point to address each one and develop it in your own life. If you are missing a particular point, work on it because when you meet somebody new, you are demonstrating your values in ways you are not even aware of. For example, you may not be physically attractive, but if you demonstrate high value, you can easily raise your rating to a much higher level.

Ambition – The very essence of an alpha male is that you have a vision. You don’t have to be successful yet, you just have to show you have the potential to be successful. A person with a solid ambition is charismatic and exciting. Every person is unique and has different interests. Find out what your goals are and share them with people. Of Course, you cannot accomplish all your goals overnight. Instead, think of this as a journey and not a destination. Women love to be part of the adventure that is your life. Provided you make it an adventure.

Social - You should be comfortable in social situations. When you meet new people, you should be able to create a great first impression. Women are naturally and intuitively social experts, and they want you to at least match their level of social intelligence. You know how to socially project yourself and you act and respond in a manner than proves you are a high value guy. You can really connect with anybody new and she knows if she leaves you in a social situation, you will be comfortable and naturally meet new people. You have social intelligence and are able to understand people and calibrate somebody’s emotional state in-order to communicate effectively. When you master this quality, she will notice it right away and really appreciate it.

Intelligence – Intelligence is sexy! An intelligent man with conversational skills is very attractive. A person who has interests beyond everyday personal experience or who can articulate insights about his everyday experiences will continue to be interesting as time goes on. It can be exciting to meet a person who is an expert or knowledgeable in a particular field. Intelligence is definitely an important factor as women enjoy talking about sociological and world issues and you will be ahead of the game if you can speak eloquently about a broad range of topics.

Willingness to Emote - This is where you show her that you are comfortable enough with her and with your own identity to show her your emotional side. So many men are afraid to show a range of emotions in case they are viewed as weak or they don’t live up to their perceived image. However, if you can demonstrate to her very clearly that you are someone who follows their emotions; you will build huge attraction and sexual tension. The most important factor in creating a solid relationship is communication and if you show that you are comfortable discussing your emotions then you have demonstrated a very powerful quality and characteristic.

Leadership – The ability to rule, guide or inspire others is one of the main traits of an attractive person. Everybody is fascinated by a leader and leaders are at the centre of every social scene. By demonstrating leadership qualities, you show you have the strength of character needed to inspire others to follow you. You can’t just decide to be a leader, people must choose you and the fact that you are chosen to lead displays so many good things about you. You must also show that you have the character to lead the relationship and so many women are longing for a man who can provide this leadership.

Protector of Loved Ones – For somebody to enter a relationship with you, it is important to show them that you can take care of them and stand up for them at all times. You must make the other person feel safe. She has to understand and believe that you are willing to protect her, even at the expense of your own safety. If you can display this quality, then she knows that if she were to have children with you, her children would be safe as well. The quality of being a protector carries a very powerful effect.

Sense of Humor – Everybody loves to have fun. If you can show that you are a fun person, with a good sense of humor, you will be very attractive. In a way, you are projecting the creative side of your personality and by having fun; you are demonstrating you are a creative person. If you ask anybody for the main qualities they look for in people, a good sense of humor is almost always at the top of the list. Once you can display this quality naturally, you will consistently form successful relationships with new people and people will feel good around you. How will you know if you have a good sense of humor?

Frank Tyger explains, “The ultimate test of whether you possess a sense ofHumor is your reaction when someone tells you, you don’t”

Boundaries –you must internalize your rules and boundaries and embody them at all times. Powerful men don’t tolerate unacceptable behavior. There is tremendous power in the ability to simply walk away from any situation and this one attitude will save you time and time again. At any time in a relationship, if the other person doesn’t adhere to the standards you have set, you simply must be willing To Just Walk Away. When you display that self control and respect, the other person will realize that you are a person of value and do everything in their power to keep you and chase you even harder.

Pre-selection - Once a woman feels attraction for you and she sees you with other women, this will automatically trigger jealousy and attraction for you. This is massively hardwired into our brains as humans and is very powerful. This theoryhas been studied extensively and observed by naturalists in other species. Females tend to be more attracted to males, who have already been chosen by other females.

In experiments that involved placing a female looking bird doll next to the male bird’s nest, the male birds mated more frequently than their control counterparts, who were not accompanied by fake bird dolls. Natural Selection has made sure that this observance is pre-wired into the female brain. Thus, the presence of other females is an indicator of value and a biological attraction trigger switch on when a woman sees a man accompanied by another woman of high value.

Lifestyle - You must have an interesting life, so travel, join a sports club, go skydiving etc. You will be making this person a part of your life, so your lifestyle must be exciting. If you convey your lifestyle correctly, they will be drawn into your reality. You must show her what is in store for her if she were to begin a relationship with you.

Will she be playing computer games all day in your parent’s house and eating fast food or will she constantly going to exclusive parties, joining your huge social circle and visiting new places? Will you be joining the gym together, going rollerblading, helping out with charity or launching your new book? If you were in her place, would you be excited to be a part of your current lifestyle? If not, then start adding to your lifestyle immediately.

Confidence - One of the most desirable qualities in a person is confidence. In fact, when you become truly confident, other people can just sense it, just by how you move and carry yourself. When you walk into a room, heads will turn as you seem to radiate an aura of power that most people find irresistible. Women are hardwired to seek out a confident male and when a man comes along who emits these confident vibes, she will quickly and deeply respond to him and often hit on him at her first opportunity. If you want to be the alpha male in her eyes and in her mind you must be self-assured and confident.

Wealth – This is a curious quality. Many people believe that you need a great deal of money to adopt a wealthy mindset. However, you don’t actually have to have much money. Rather, you just have to act like a guy who comes from a place of abundance in all forms. You may be wealthy in terms of friends or even attitudes. Only the most abundant and powerful men selflessly give out their energy, fun, intelligence, time and conversation freely. This mindset is a hugely attractive and if you want to start a relationship or just simply learn how to meet new people it is important to adopt it.

Every time you display any of these qualities, your value will rise. Without even realizing it, the other person will view you in a different way. In the next section, you will learn how to display all of the above attractive qualities quickly and easily. Concentrate on adopting them into your life and soon youwill be a true alpha male and you will be respected and appreciated deeply for it.

The simple truth is if you adopt the alpha qualities above, women will become less important to you, which actually makes you more attractive to them. They want you to possess these characteristics and, when you do, you will become more important to women.

There are many mistakes that guys make with women, which instantly kills the attraction. Once you identify them and become aware of them, you change your behavior and bring constructive changes into your life, thereby making you far more successful. It is certainly a state of mind that is well worth developing and strengthening. An understanding of these mistakes can change your whole life.

If you have been exhibiting any of these mistakes, it is now the time to change the way you think. It is time to get rid of these negative thoughts and behaviors and lead your relationships. Make a note of them and start today. Changing even one of then suggestions below, will bring more success into your dating life!

Nice Guy Frame – If there is one thing that turns a woman off quicker than anything else, it’s the moment she sees you as a nice guy. As stated earlier, women are subject to biology. Women have 200,000 years of evolution and gender roles, to help them in their search for a man. Deep down, most women want a strong, decisive, confident man – the type of man that would have kept her safe thousands of years ago.

A nice guy is unable to unlock this level of attraction in her, leading too many problems in the relationship. It’s still an instinct that dictates their reactions to men and so, in many cases, the woman will become frustrated and walk over a weak guy. The truth is, biology is often the reason why women react in certain ways to men. While being a jerk is never going to get you success with women, considering the biology that goes into relationships will.

So what’s the best thing to do? By being a strong confident alpha, you are combining what women say they want, with what their instincts tell them to look for. The fact is, a woman will never use the word “nice” describe a man she’s attracted to. Of course, there is a time to be nice as long as you are also confident, decisive and strong.

Qualifying before she Qualifies - If you qualify yourself  before she shows interest, you will come across as approval seeking, which is a major turnoff. Approval seeking is a very needy and unattractive behavior that you should seek to eliminate, or minimize as much as possible. It communicates insecurity as you show that you need other people to validate you.

Don’t offer your resume, your earning potential, and tell her how you can change her life right away. If you do, you will end up looking like a wimp and no woman likes a wimp. She is looking for guy who does not need approval and is a leader of his own life. An alpha male does not need the approval of others as he has a more solid foundation to base his self esteem on. When you meet a woman, do not qualify yourself until she had displayed interest in you.

Not having standards - Setting and maintaining standards is one of the most  important factors in dating. If you are not the selector then you need to start setting standards right away. A woman will never feel attraction for a man, who has no idea of what he is looking for. Every person has their own preference when

it comes to dating. It is important to make sure that these expectations remain realistic and attainable. Setting expectations that are too high will limit your prospects.  By trying to identify how compatible the two of you really are by looking beyond the superficial early on, you have just demonstrated that you are a high value guy.

Trying to buy her emotions – Men and women relate to money differently and don’t always handle it in the same way. One of the biggest mistakes men make is that they try to influence women’s emotions by spending large amounts of money on them. This type of emotional spending can actually have the adverse effect and drive the couple apart.

Some men even buy presents to keep a woman interested when they know she is seeing other people. Why waste time and money on somebody who has perfected the art of using people to get what they want without giving anything in return? You simply cannot spend money on people until they respect and appreciate you.

Yet guys still think they can change her and almost force her to like him by buying her presents. Check out any of the TV court shows and you will quickly see the fallout from this type of arrangement. Many guys often spend a lot of money buying her a new wardrobe, only to have her leave him for another man. You dress her up in the best clothes, only to have her dump you for another man who is thrilled to get such a polished fashionable lady. Buying her presents isn’t going to make your relationship more solid, and you will lose the good ones and keep the shallow ones.

Depending on Permission or Confirmation – Women are looking for a guy who can lead and show her the right path in a relationship. No woman wants to lead in the relationship and a man that is indecisive is actually forcing the woman to take the lead. For example, if a woman asks you what you want to do on a date, you should never reply with…

“I don’t mind…What do you want to do?”

This does not mean that she does not have a say on what to do. It simply means that you must have a plan and have a habit of making the decisions in your life.

The more decisive you are with women, the more of a leader you are in your life and women find this incredibly attractive. The power of leading has a bigger impact on women than you could ever imagine. Indecision has ruined so many relationships and if you want to keep the attraction alive, you must always lead the relationship.

Sacrificing your identity- You are a strong, self assured guy, with your own views and opinions. When guys meet somebody that they are really attracted to,they sometimes tend to get so caught in the relationship that they lose their own separate identity. If the other person offers an opinion, they simply agree with it incase they offend the other person. This is a huge trap and it is covered in detail in the section on attraction tests. By sacrificing their identity, they risk losing what made

them attractive in the first place. They lose a part of themselves and by giving up their own views and beliefs; they are bound to feel a little resentment. How do you overcome this?

If asked, simply state your views. You don’t have to change anyone’s mind or convert them to your point of view but, at all times, you must maintain your own identity.

These are just a few examples of mistakes that guys commonly make. Almost all of these mistakes are connected to the issue of leading the relationship. Women are attracted to MEN, not little girls posing as men. You must choose your own direction in the relationship.

If you lead without needing her to follow,you are developing the masculine leadership side of yourself. This is hugely attractive and exactly what the other person wants you to do. You don’t care if people go in the direction that you want and you don’t need them to, but if they want to follow you – that’s great!

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Changing your beliefs is the key to possessing the skills to form relationships with any woman. When you get rejected you have to understand that she is not rejecting you based on your personality, as she does not know your personality and quality. You should recognize what is actually happening here.

The first thing we have to realize is that when a person says no to us they are not saying no to us as people, they are simply saying no to our approach or to the way we present ourselves. Thus, the rejection is not personal.

Once we understand that and we understand that people can say no to us automatically and they say no to us for many different reasons then we cannot understand.

The biggest mistake that we can make is that if we hear too many no’s what happens?? We start thinking that it is us that are being told no to and since it is so depressing to be rejected continually then we stop approaching and build up reasons and excuses in our minds about why we can’t approach.

There are many people who have successfully dealt with their fear of rejection. Many of these people are in or have been in a successful relationship. Here’s the rule:

“If you think like these people think, you will eventually do the things that they do, and will get the same results that they get”.

And if you don’t, you won’t. Some people are satisfied with settling in their relationship. This is consistent with the way they think, most of the time. Other people would be dissatisfied unless they are in a relationship with their ideal girl, in looks and personality.

It is interesting to note that there is very little difference between the people who settle in an average relationship and the people who are madly in love with their ideal woman. They each have very much the same levels of talent and ability. They are surrounded with very much the same number of opportunities and possibilities. The only difference is that the people who are in the ideal relationship have decided to put aside their fear of rejection and approach that woman.

It is true that many women have their idea of what they look for in a man in their mind and when you approach she will decide whether you are worth her time or not. Therefore, it is imperative to know how to approach in order to reduce the possibility of rejection.

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The biggest reason that guys don’t approach is fear of rejection. Fear, uncertainty and doubt are, and have always been, the greatest enemies of success and achievement. For this reason, in order to develop your social skill-set, you must work continually to confront the fears that hold you as a person back.

In order to become an attractive man and create successful relationships, it’s something you have to practice. The two major fears that stand as the greatest obstacles on your road to success are the fear of failure and the fear of rejection. These are the two major enemies you must overcome. It is interesting to note that it is not failure or rejection that hurts you or holds you back.

It is the fear of failure or rejection. It is the anticipation or expectation of failure or rejection that paralyzes you and blocks you from approaching that girl you are attracted to. If you see a girl you are attracted to, instead of thinking of the reasons that you should approach her, most guys do the opposite and focus their attention on why they should not approach. Some of what they visualize is contained in the following

•    The girl will think you are strange or weird

•    People around her will realize that you are hitting on her

•    Her boyfriend will come up and assault you

•    She will laugh at you

•    She will ignore you

The truth is that everyone is afraid of something and is insecure in some area. Everyone you meet is afraid of failure and rejection in some way and is dealing with the same fear as you are. Once you understand this, it can help to free your mind.

The difference between the hero and the coward is that the hero holds his ground slightly longer. The average person will use every excuse to avoid the fear-causing situation. The brave person committees himself to understanding and confronting his fear.

Everybody is insecure in some area of their lives. Once you realize that nobody expects you to be perfect, you will lose much of your emotional baggage. Most of the time, when you approach a girl, she is just as nervous as you are and is focusing on forming a good impression with you. If she is quiet, then she may be simply shy but you assume that she has a negative attitude towards you. You start to think and believe such thoughts as

•    I am not good enough for her

•    She will lose interest in me

•    She is too beautiful

Just think for a moment about your previous beliefs and the price you have paid for believing these limiting beliefs and how they held you back. Some of our beliefs were the result of other people’s comments to us and we continue to lead our lives well below our true potential. As you are reading this right now, ask yourself the following question:

“Are you ready disregard your old harmful beliefs and to embrace new beliefs and feelings”

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