“You just arrived in the bar and you are at the counter, ordering drinks. You see a very attractive woman across the room, looking over in your direction. She is smiling at you…

“Wait! She could just have been smiling anyway and happened to glance in my direction…I mean, I don’t even know her”

You’re intrigued, but before you find the courage to speak to her, you need to know for sure:

Is she flirting with you?”

Basic attraction is something that is known and felt from within. There are consistent and identifiable messages that women send to signal interest in men. Yet so many guys miss these signals or, as in the story above, even refuse to acknowledge them. Ask yourself, have you ever spent endless hours chatting to somebody you are attracted to, but still had no idea if they were attracted to you? So many people worry about reading gestures wrong and getting rejected. If only there was a certain method that would reveal the truth in one’s mind!

There are in fact some signs of attraction you can use as guideline to know if the person is romantically interested in you. There is a way of gauging the attraction between two people and a way of knowing when is the best time to make a move. The answer is body language. Body language can reveal a lot about a person and can definitely be used to know about somebody’s feelings and thoughts. Once you broaden your awareness and become good at reading people’s body language, you will know when a person is romantically inclined or simply being friendly.

Read below to discover some interesting body language signs of attraction and figure out the potential of your future conversations.

• Strong, confident and unwavering eye contact eye contact can be very powerful and often means the person is attracted to or at least interested in you.

• If a woman is comfortable with a guy and is feeling sexy, she will tilt her head to show her neck or touch her neck frequently.

• The way a woman blows smoke out and holds her cigarette will tell you a lot about how she is feeling.

• If you’re talking to a woman who likes you, you can tell if she’s feeling a little horny if her nostrils flare. In fact, flaring nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal.

• One of the most universal signs of attraction is the smile. If the person you are attracted to is smiling back at you, then you know things are going well.

• If she touches you while talking, that is also another of the body language signs of attraction. All men love the feel of a woman’s touch and she knows this and it is probably the most powerful flirting technique.

• If you are flirting with her and she constantly leans in while talking or listening, then you can be fairly sure that attraction exists between you. Do not move back or move away while she is trying to lean over you, because her reason is to become closer to you.

• Many women know that licking their lips is something that men find sexy. When she does this, a woman is telling you that she likes you and wants your attention.

• Body language makes up a very big part in the first moments of courtship, and by watching her hands, you will learn so much about her intentions.

• Copying the actions, gestures and gesticulations of the person you are attracted to, is one of the obvious body language signs of attraction. It’s natural to mirror someone you like, so if there is someone who likes you, the body language will show.

• Playing with hair can be one of the most obvious signs of female attraction. It is a very sexy gesture and twirling and tossing draws a man’s eye to it.

• Feet play an important part in communication and can tell a great deal about the level of attraction involved. As a general rule, if you are standing or sitting and are attracted to someone your right foot will be pointing in their direction

• The area at the back of your wrists is known to be mildly erotic. If the woman is interested, she will naturally display her wrists to you while she is in conversation.

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How you accessorise yourself will say a lot about you. Accessories accent your look and finish the making of an outfit. Men who appreciate style and choose bold colors and textures are people who take risks with confidence. The accessories you choose should reflect your personality and lifestyle. Being well styled will give you an edge. There are all too many people walking around dressed in what is practically an urban uniform.

There are very few guys who actually stand out and dress in a way that outwardly displays their sexuality. If you blend in with the crowd, you will get lost in the crowd and will be overlooked by many women who otherwise would have wanted to meet you.

Piercings, fun accessories and quirky hairstyles might be a catchy look for the early 20’s man, however for most men, styling involves being consistent and true to yourself and your lifestyle. Although you shouldn’t stick to guidelines too rigidly, you could look in shop windows or in catalogs for menswear tips. It is very important that you dress to your age accordingly. You should research menswear brands suitable for your age group or lifestyle. Not doing so will have you looking goofy and out of place among the people you may be trying to impress.

For the late teens and early twenties River Island, Topman, and Pull and Bear have affordable fast fashion styles whereas brands such as Ted Baker, Massimo Dutti, Zara, French Connection and Reiss cater for the mid twenty to forties age group. For Urban styles look at brands such as All Saints, Firetrap, Urban Outfitters and Cult. For active wear Quicksilver, Superdry and Breed have trendy and innovative designs. It’s hard not to take notice of men who carefully style and accessorize their look.

Firstly you should invest in quality everyday accessories more so than splashing out on expensive once off pieces. Co-ordinating the colour and material of your wallet, belt and watch will give you instant sophistication and style. Department stores will have a wide selection of essential menswear accessories to choose from and brands such as Massimo Dutti and Ted Baker have innovative and timeless designs, which guarantee high quality. Avoid high street trends, which are usually made with poor quality materials.

Ted Baker has a wide selection of belts in their men’s accessory department. Smart suit trousers require wearing a thin black or brown leather belt with a neat metal buckle. Ted Baker has a clever reversible smart leather belt giving you the option of wearing it in brown or black. They also usually have a box set, which features a changeable cover buckle. Jeans and casual trousers have wider belt loops and therefore require a wider belt. Simple and classic style belts made from natural materials like cotton or leather give a rustic and masculine look. Tacky, labelled, cheap looking belts with tasteless belt buckles should always be avoided.

Wallets should always be thin, simple and made of good quality leather. Avoid carrying them in your trouser pockets. A bulky wallet stuffed into your pockets will disrupt the shape of your trousers and will create a distraction to a potential admirer. Whether its odd socks peeping out of your trousers, ill fitting clothes or an array of accessories, don’t let a fashion faux pas take the focus away from your approach. Your stylist will give you all the menswear tips you need to ensure you always look sharp and at your best.

Scarves create a layered look and you can really experiment with colour and texture. They are great way to inject colour and character into an outfit. Be sure to have a winter and a summer collection. Oversized and chunky knits are great for winter but with summer approaching look for light and natural materials such a silk, cotton or jersey. Your stylist will help you pick out the correct proportion for your outfit and teach you how to wrap it into place to create an effortless look.

Hats can be hit and miss, unless you’re wearing it for practical purposes in the depths of winter. It’s not advisable to suddenly introduce a trilbies hat into your wardrobe if you’re not much of a Pete Doherty to begin with. However a trilby style straw hat with a coloured grosgrain band can look cool and quirky but should only be brought out during the day in the summer months. Urban outfitters, River Island and Zara have a selection of these hats in their Spring/Summer range. If your style is sporty and you’re going to wear a base ball cap or lid make sure it’s clean, in good shape and be careful to avoid team or brand logos which you don’t actually support. Just to emphasise, don’t wear a hat on a night out. They are becoming overused and tacky. So many people have been wearing them in night clubs recently in the hopes of getting attention, that there are now a lot of negative connotations beginning to surround their wearers.

Recently I’ve spotted the tie tack being featured in retro street styles. Harlequin and Wildchild are just two of the many vintage shops in Dublin where you might find a quirky retro piece. Vintage style is a somewhat of a phenomenon more so than a fashion trend. By introducing some vintage pieces into your wardrobe you’re instantly creating a look that’s individual to you, and making you look more interesting to the opposite sex. The trick here though is to not go overboard. If you’re going for an all vintage look be selective about what era you’re going for, style it a contemporary way and only purchase items if they are in ‘good nik’. In other words, try not to look like you are from another decade. Rhinestones jewelery shop also has a wide selection of antique and vintage accessories and watches.

Your stylist will give you tips on how to accessorize and balance your outfit. Balancing an outfit is a crucial skill for any fashion conscious man. The over accessorizing of an outfit can break the length of the silhouette of the body creating a confusing look. Every piece you add or team with a garment must be carefully considered. Accessories should complement the architecture and texture of an outfit rather than conceal it. Following this advice will give a sharpness/sheen to your look. Over accessorizing is one of the most crucial mistakes you can make. If you end up hanging and wrapping too many trims around yourself you’ll end up looking like a Christmas tree. It will get you noticed, but for all of the wrong reasons.

It’s noticing the unexpected detailing in a garment and the creative combination of materials that you will challenge the boundaries of traditional menswear dressing.

Rebecca Flanagan – Fashion Consultant (Kama Lifestyles)

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Every man should strive to be an alpha male. This is a journey that will profoundly change your life. People always ask is it really possible to become an alpha male?

To succeed in your efforts, you need a structured, practical approach to developing your true alpha male characteristics.

As you progress through life, you will realise that any behavior can be changed. After all, actions create habits and habits form character. Some psychologists believe that it takes 21 days to form a new habit but in reality, you can often develop character traits much quicker than that, especially positive ones.

If you think about it, people spend most of their lives chasing good feelings. To some extent, everybody wants to be happy, although few of us agree on what this means or how best to achieve it. Acting in accordance with your beliefs will bring you happiness. This is essentially the way of the alpha male. This is the main reason to develop your alpha traits.

Once you start to develop your own alpha traits, you will immediately notice the effects that it has on your own personality and in particular, your interactions with other people. People will begin to look at you in a new, more positive light. By taking control of your actions and implementing positive exercises, your true alpha qualities will very quickly begin to shine through. It will require a commitment on your part to really perfect your personality and evolve into an alpha male.

However, it will be worth every minute you invest in this pursuit. Outside of success with women, the fact that happiness is associated with better health, more creativity, higher income, and better workplace evaluations ought to really catch your focus.  Once you learn the foundations of the alpha male, you can bring your experiences and new powerful beliefs into virtually every area of your life.

Once you recognise and begin to develop your own unique alpha traits, you will achieve maximum success in your relationships, and indeed in every area of your life. Of course, your success with women will increase drastically, but your relationships with your family and loved ones will also dramatically improve. And there is a way to do this! Simply by making a decision now, to act like and indeed to be an alpha male, you will take your dreams and ideas and turn them into reality.

An alpha male is a skillful leader of his own life. It is never too late to become what you want to be. In any relationship, people at all levels want to be inspired. The idea of increasing your strengths and qualities will not be new to you, but the study of the alpha male offers some amazing new ways to do so.

Best of all, developing your alpha qualities is a discipline that is compatible with what you are already doing and need not be exchanged for what you already know that works. The exercises that we give you are essentially a proven formula for success that will enable you to achieve your potential as a man and really achieve the results you desire.

As you use this book, remember that the Alpha male mindset is a journey, not a destination.

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A Dating coach will work with you to improve your dating life and help you to achieve successful relationships. Developing awareness about your dating life is very important when it comes to choosing the right partner for your relationship.

A dating coach will give you an understanding of the relationship and help you to identify and change thinking patterns which held you back before.

Have you ever felt lost in a relationship, with nobody to turn to? Anyone you speak can only give advice based on their own limited experience. There is no substitute for the clarity that an expert Dating Coach can provide. During the consultation, the coach will help you with your own specific dating and relationship issues. He will provide you with an understanding of your own unique situation and a clear understanding of your options.

During the Dating Consultation, the clients will begin to understand their lives and begin to develop the dating skills immediately. Communication is the key in any relationship and it is vital to learn to communicate correctly. Dating issues can be very complex so it is difficult to make any comment in relation to the client without the dating consultation. Some clients are single and looking for a relationship, some clients suffering from a recent break up and finding hard to find a new start. Some clients may want to date more people before they settle while others are looking for a serious relationship or marriage with an amazing woman.

In the Dating Consultation, the client will begin to see the circumstances in a different frame and the coach will help them to work with proven methods to help them achieve their goal. These methods may be related to confidence building, increasing communication or social skill building. The Coaches work with a variety of topics when dealing with the clients, including fashion, Inner game, voice training, field training, communication and social skills. When clients are choosing a dating coach, they should know if the coach provides training in real life scenarios. In other word, a coach should be able go in to the area and work with you when approaching women and see you approaching, point out your mistakes and come up with the solutions.

The price for the Dating Consultation should be charged at an hourly rate. Prices will vary based on the coach’s ability and experience. The best thing is to do the research for the Dating Consultation, be specific, read testimonials in the coaches website and if there is a free session attend one of them and make up your mind based on the coaches performance.

Kama Lifestyles offers dating consultation with any dating issues you may have. Our Dating Coaches will work with you on specific aspects of your dating life and dramatically increase your success with women in a very short period of time.

You’ve decided you want to realize your full potential in attracting women. You are going to be taught the necessary dating skills and techniques of attraction that you will then practice during your in-field training.

First impressions begin with your appearance. Fashion should always be comfortable and enjoyable. When you have the right mindset and you are confident with your image, you will relax and enjoy how much fun approaching women is!

Over accessorising, mis-matching and ill-fitting garments will get you noticed, but for all the wrong reasons. Approaching women can be difficult enough in the beginning, so don’t let your image inabilitate you in any way. In social circumstances your image and appearance is the first thing people will notice about you. Image has a powerful effect in how people perceive you.

You are more likely to strike conversation and be appealing to the opposite sex if you look interesting, stylish and quirky.

Image is key when it comes to attraction. Shopping and building a new wardrobe can be a daunting challenge. For those who feel they know little about men’s fashion, a personal stylist will create a look that best suits your physical appearance, lifestyle and your new confident mindset!

When you have an understanding of styling and dressing you will make fewer fashion mistakes, which will help you build a stylish wardrobe whilst saving you money.

If you are recreating your image, it is essential in the beginning to invest in two to three fully styled outfits. You will only waste money if you start purchasing single garments that you can’t co-ordinate into an outfit.

Once you have a few signature pieces you can start building more looks around those garments. This way you are creating a variety of looks that will take you from day to night. A good pair of quality shoes, well fitting jeans and a classic style coat are essential to have in your wardrobe. Over time you will combine these quality items with layers and accessories, which may change with seasons and fashion trends.

There are some basic rules to learn about style. You need to consider many factors. Which tie goes with which shirt? What size or cut fits and looks best on you? How do I create a layered look and experiment with colour, patterns and textures?  A session with a stylist will teach you what to look for when choosing a garment and how to make it work with your body.

For example, a long coat with straight fitting trousers or jeans can accentuate a taller man’s height and frame. An outfit like this combined with a fine scarf and the right shoes or boots embodies class, sophistication and empowers its wearer with confidence. You will learn how to create a variety of looks with your outfits.

Boots are really popular this season and if you’re pairing boots with a pair of trousers your stylist will advise you on how to wear them correctly. For an edgy look you could tuck the legs into loosely laced up boots or if you want to wear your trousers over your boots, your stylist will be able to advise a wider cut to slim and lengthen the legs.

If your frame or height restricts buying certain styles or brands you should consider having a garment altered or taken up to fit you perfectly. Many high street shops are now offering alteration services at reasonable rates. Tailoring clothes to fit your height and shape will restore the shape of the garment to the designed fit.

Many women experiment with styles and dress in daring colours, textures and silhouettes. We do this to accentuate our personalities and when it comes down to it, for attention, be it with our friends, at work or very often to attract the opposite sex.

Every step you take to enhance your image and improve your self socially will benefit every area of your life. Namely- your career, friends and especially dating. By making an effort to create an individual look you will stand out from the competition, create attraction and more importantly you will be memorable.

Rebecca Flanagan – Fashion Consultant (Kama Lifestyles)